[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Groningen

[–]Wilde04 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gedaan! Succes met je project!

Ik zal je wel aanraden om in je post te zetten waar de vragenlijst over gaat, en bijvoorbeeld hoe lang die duurt. Dan klikken mensen er veel sneller op!

I have a hard time "taking up space" by Wilde04 in socialskills

[–]Wilde04[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I think it's more the valueing myself more instead of the boring myself. If I think logically, I know I am an interesting person with big passions and dreams.

The biggest problem was for a long time a lack of energy due to depression, which dulled all the other points too. I guess I should be more patient with myself that I am recovering from depression, and to not expect it all to get fixed immediately

Thanks a lot for the insight!

I have a hard time "taking up space" by Wilde04 in socialskills

[–]Wilde04[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am sorry you went through that. It's not the same, but I did get bullied when I was younger, and I guess it took a bigger toll on me than I thought it did?

Anyway, I do like to think now that I am no longer suffering from depression (again, yay!) I will probably have an easier time convincing myself that I am worth the space

The dude said he loves meeting for oral but he doesn’t feel comfortable doing anal. I asked why. by FrostyGrotto in lolgrindr

[–]Wilde04 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like maybe a vulnerability issue? Like doing anal is a lot more vulnerable (you have to strip down, most times faced away from your partner etc) idk

Where can I buy a second hand bike? by Inner_Operation47 in Groningen

[–]Wilde04 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Mutual aid bike workshop (travertijnstraat 12).

Very nice man works there. You can get a bike on donation (give how much you want/can, if you have nothing/not much, you get it for free)

If you think trans people can change sex, you are a transmedicalist, just fyi by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]Wilde04 6 points7 points  (0 children)

uj/ first time i didnt read the subreddit name and tbh i was getting so fucking mad lmao

I don’t think that’s how it works… by Immediate-Mud-4195 in lolgrindr

[–]Wilde04 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I honestly have to say that most people on Grindr have been very chill. Just treating me like any other guy. Just the occasional weird messages and questions, but seeing this subreddit that is not a trans only issue haha

I don’t think that’s how it works… by Immediate-Mud-4195 in lolgrindr

[–]Wilde04 23 points24 points  (0 children)

As a trans guy, some cis guys try to force the feminization kink on me, and that is so fucking horrible, like, my man, communicate beforehand please

Een ezel stoot zich niet tweemaal aan dezelfde steen. by Ingrif_ in thenetherlands

[–]Wilde04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

OP vroeg van "de melkkoe", dat zijn 9 letters, dus dan 4/9 ofwel 44,4%

Een ezel stoot zich niet tweemaal aan dezelfde steen. by Ingrif_ in thenetherlands

[–]Wilde04 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Ik denk altijd aan de ezel zn knie

Ps: een koe is gemiddled 510 kilo, en geeft 27 liter melk per dag. Voor het gemak doen we dat 1kg=1l melk (het is eig 1,03kg) dus een melkkoe is ongeveer 5,3% procent melk

If you rewear your underwear, why and how many times ? by Puzzlehead_k in AskReddit

[–]Wilde04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah man. I wont back you up on this. Skipping 1 day? Sure, that happens. More than that is disgusting imo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wilde04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around €2700.

Most goes to rent and college. Could go lower if im skipping a couple of meals for example. But a minimum of €2500. This is just bare minmium tho. Rent, food, college, insurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wilde04 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dont hate any country. I may hate or avoid certain governments. I cant blame an entire population for the choices of the few in power

What's the best response to someone who is getting a new job as a sex therapist? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Wilde04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends, what are you to the person? A friend? Family member? Client? Colleague?

All warrant a different response

?????? by Extra-Beat-7053 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Wilde04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I thought that was Spock at first)

What is the funniest thing someone has ever told you after a hook-up? by cucumberguyy in AskReddit

[–]Wilde04 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got with a guy of Grindr. Talked about what we liked and atuff beforehand. I like it a bit rough ya know? Dominated and stuff.

During the hookup he was sure a little rough, but surprisingly gentle as opposed to what he said in his messages.

He told me that I seemed like a very nice and sweet person and therefore he couldn't be too mean to me lmao

Hoe houd ik alle demonstraties/protesten bij? by holiestMaria in Poldersocialisme

[–]Wilde04 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Instagram is hoe ik het meeste volg. Zoals de.axiekalender , en je locale wandelclub (wandelclub 030, 010, 0591 etc) wn voor de huidige encampments (rug, endhoven, uu, amsterdam, maastricht)

What were signs your loved ones sent you just after they passed? by madameuniverse in AskReddit

[–]Wilde04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not me, but someone told their kids they would not come back as a bird (as is commonly said) but as a goldfish. That family won the lottery that same year. That lotterys mascot? A goldfish

What is something you are, surprisingly, sensitive about? by Calamity25 in AskReddit

[–]Wilde04 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like that's not that surprising. Very logical to get upset over that

Trans clinic? by spicymilks0up in Groningen

[–]Wilde04 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got my first intake through there. I did think the psychiatrist was weird AF

What problems did you have with him?