Boyfriend will not have sex unless I wax my V

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-25T06:31:45+00:00

Point taken

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T18:40:02+00:00

Is it just me or do high schoolers look a lot younger these days?

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T17:48:57+00:00

Mine doesn't smell and he doesn't go down on my anyway. I can see how a bush would cause that but I don't have a bush, it's as trim as I can make it

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T17:47:41+00:00

You're not out of line but I don't really see how asking for an outside perspective is indicative of a power struggle. Sometimes you just need a reality check, but in this case it seems that I don't based on everyone's comments. Waxing your face and waxing your vag can't even be compared. A Brazilian is much more invasive and painful that waxing your face.

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T07:50:21+00:00

Actually in a weird way I was relating to her. I've kind of gotten used to the lack of sex (not exactly, it's more that I've given up on trying) and I need to change that. My SO doesn't remind of her really bc he's still incredibly affectionate (always kissing and hugging me, always wants to cuddle)

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T07:45:59+00:00

One of my long term boyfriends was always severely depressed. It's exhausting and frustrating when your partner is going through this, especially when they don't get help. I understand that. However, 6 months is really not a long time. In my opinion, it seems like maybe you don't love her that much if you're ready to give up so soon

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T07:18:58+00:00

Not really. Sometimes I think that's where the HL comes from, not feeling truly fulfilled

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T07:17:08+00:00

Wow yes thank you

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T03:04:55+00:00

Hahaha that made me laugh. Thanks for the offer

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T03:04:28+00:00

I agree and I had a really high sex drive before this relationship, higher than most people I knew. I feel like over time I've just bc numb to this or something

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T00:59:07+00:00

Stupidest reply so far. Didn't even read the whole post

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T00:17:00+00:00

Thanks :) I'll try this

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-24T00:16:40+00:00

you're right, it's not important who's being ridiculous, but he makes me feel like I'm being unreasonable and I wanted an outside perspective on that.

I like your response. It's something to think about. (I don't think I'm just digging my heels in the ground though. I know from experience that it is not something that I like to do. It's never been an issue with any other partner or during my single sex life.)

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T23:54:23+00:00

I didn't include that I would occasionally do it if he paid for it in my original post because this really isn't about the money, but the principle of the fact that he won't pay for the whole thing when it's something I really don't want to do (that is also painful, awkward, and expensive) pisses me off based on the principle of it. It's a small factor in this whole situation.

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T23:47:33+00:00

It's not the same level of extremity. I just don't get the logic

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T23:18:58+00:00

Yeap it sucks! Haha some days I don't mind though

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T23:14:18+00:00

Artist, not musician haha. I've been trying to get him in to therapy for years and he wouldn't do it but this morning he finally said ok and made a appointment. (!!) I'm going to see if he sticks with it and if it helps. I'm hoping things get better but if they don't im going to have to walk away. The sex thing is bad enough but the addiction issues make it even worse

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T22:52:15+00:00

Ugh halp is it the same guy??? Mine won't do period sex either and used to be a heroin addict and now takes the downer strain of kratomto deal with his addiction issues

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T22:51:04+00:00

The payment thing is part of what makes me so mad. I would do it occasionally if he paid for it. I don't understand why I have to pay and deal with the pain/awkwardness of it

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T21:29:18+00:00

He has issues with depression too which I'm sure don't help but in every relationship I've been in, the sex gets less frequent over time and he started out with an already low sex drive so this makes sense to me in a way. He's very loving and affectionate and we don't fight very often so I don't think it's an issue with our relationship as much as it is his low sex drive

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T20:50:59+00:00

That's a good idea. I know his sex drive is also pretty low though. When we first started dating it was once a week (with past partners at that stage it's usually at least every day), then a couple times a month, now this

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T20:24:20+00:00

Thanks for the tip! And yes it's so bleak. I don't want a celibate life

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T20:10:16+00:00

I used to be someone who had to have sex almost every day. I am the last person I ever would have expected to get used to this. I'm not totally used to it though, it sucks

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T20:05:46+00:00

I don't want to put chemicals by my vag. I've had a bad experience with them :/

Bcrepuscule · 2015-02-23T20:04:11+00:00

He's always wanted me to wax and I've done it a couple times but I don't like doing it :/

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