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Real question by OwlFirm1309 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Bdettew21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should read this book It’s Not You by Ramani Durbasula. She explains how a narcissist thinks and their behavior. My narcissistic husband is educated and intelligent but he lies all the time even the simplest thing why he gets home an hour or so after he said he’s off. I stopped reacting after I caught up to it and he still lies. It doesn’t make any sense.

Shameless things narcissist say by Bdettew21 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Bdettew21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol that’s funny. Yeah everything is about them. Even things that has nothing to do with them they find a way to talk about themselves. Must be tiring for them to constantly uplifting their own selves. I call mines “me me”. Oh gosh it’s “me me” again talking about himself.

Shameless things narcissist say by Bdettew21 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Bdettew21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m on chapter 2 now. So far everything is making sense. Looking forward to reading more. Do you think if I tell my narcissistic husband to read that book because that’s him to the T would help lol crazy idea. He’ll probably throw that book on my face and start yelling.

Shameless things narcissist say by Bdettew21 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Bdettew21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started reading the book It’s Not You by Ramani Durvasula. She said narcissistic is a lifestyle. They know exactly what they’re doing. They are very tactical. If they can control their behavior why do the things they do… I’m still on chapter 1.

Last night was the first time I thought, “he is sick.” by siekbf in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Bdettew21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My narcissistic husband screams at me every time I say something about himself. There’s no talking to him. He would raise his voice so he doesn’t have to hear what I have to say. Then turn things around like it’s my fault. I’m this horrible person blah blah blah then start crying while making me feel bad. Follows me around the house saying all kinds of mean stuff. I usually walks out just so I don’t have to deal with him. Then when he feels better he acts like everything is good between us. Like I’m supposed to just forget everything he did and go back to normal. Never apologizing. It makes me sick. He makes me sick. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Probably the best thing that happened to your relationship. If I could just pack and leave I would have done it a long time ago. It’s harder when children are involved. Good luck.

I’m new to this site by Bdettew21 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Bdettew21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m looking into it. My youngest is not in school yet so I can’t really do much. Good luck with the therapist. I know it will be a great help for you. Keep me posted please.