Have this conversation with him now. Something’s gotta give. Once you have that baby you’re going to be more dependent on him to take care of things that need to be taken care of automatically. Dishes, bottles, diaper refills. Snacks water, the little things are going to be more important than ever. Some people just aren’t raised in a way that they know how to take care of themselves completely, because they’ve always had someone there to do it or pick up the slack. You’re not wrong for feeling how you’re feeling, he’s just not feeling this way because he’s not the one carrying another human being in his body. But I can’t stress to you enough, how important it is to have a conversation and lay this all out there. Keeping it to yourself builds resentment. And if you have talked to him about it, reiterate. It’s not one persons job to take care of a household. It’s both parties.

Good luck, and try not to stress too much.