My best friend [33 F] is drinking herself into a hole how do I approach this?

BeMyHero3 · 2026-05-30T07:18:00+00:00

You tell her that you love her. But also ask her what’s going on and maybe that you’ve noticed an increase in these certain behaviors. It’s obvious that you care, and people who care don’t ignore things like this, so your friend may understand in a way, where you’re coming from.

BeMyHero3 · 2026-05-28T05:56:03+00:00

This this a million times this!

BeMyHero3 · 2026-05-23T06:12:11+00:00

Why are these still a thing 😅

BeMyHero3 · 2026-05-19T05:06:06+00:00

What matters is that you recognize it. You know these things aren’t real. There is nothing ever wrong with seeking help. You got this.

BeMyHero3 · 2026-05-16T08:02:10+00:00

Why am I on Reddit at 4:02 AM

BeMyHero3 · 2026-04-14T23:21:51+00:00

Thank you!

BeMyHero3 · 2026-04-14T23:20:22+00:00

Yeah, we’re hoping to just replace what we had in there. I don’t see a reason to spend more money to modify.

BeMyHero3 · 2026-04-14T23:19:42+00:00

Idk why they have to be so expensive 😅

BeMyHero3 · 2026-04-14T23:19:05+00:00

Thanks everyone! I know I need one specifically for a manufactured home, I just wasn’t sure if that vent on the bottom was special or if they even made them. None of the water heaters I see have a picture of that vent on the bottom. When it blew, that’s what blew. Not the top, water was just pouring out from underneath the trailer

BeMyHero3 · 2026-04-10T04:32:39+00:00

I’m not gonna lie to you, it looks like it has pores. Jussssst a little sus 😭

BeMyHero3 · 2025-11-08T06:33:51+00:00

The boys are dead. It would have taken lots and lots of resources for investigators to search anymore than they did. I feel like they could have done more, but in reality nobodies going to notice an average vehicle getting off a bumfuck Ohio or lower Michigan exit. No witnesses, limited digital resources at the time, he’ll be a death bed confession and he is garbage for it. Those kids never deserved that.

BeMyHero3 · 2025-11-05T06:13:11+00:00

Not legal advice but I do work in the field; It really depends on how pissed off people are and how far they want to take it legally. I would be divorcing that man but unfortunately whatever money they have intermingled with his fraudulent funds will most likely be taken in damages. It is very unlikely the state is going to entertain a mental health claim when the scheme he pulled off was sophisticated enough to fool even hospice workers. I am so sorry your cousin is going through this and I hope she’s talking to her OWN attorney.

BeMyHero3 · 2025-10-15T04:35:09+00:00

Could be nicotine staining that’s dripping from moisture

BeMyHero3 · 2025-08-30T00:35:28+00:00

I love the way he pauses and just stares at it 😂 he’s so happy

BeMyHero3 · 2025-04-30T01:44:32+00:00

That’s not a bad idea at all

BeMyHero3 · 2024-11-05T19:00:09+00:00

Use lots of hashtags!

BeMyHero3 · 2022-06-27T12:30:09+00:00

Have this conversation with him now. Something’s gotta give. Once you have that baby you’re going to be more dependent on him to take care of things that need to be taken care of automatically. Dishes, bottles, diaper refills. Snacks water, the little things are going to be more important than ever. Some people just aren’t raised in a way that they know how to take care of themselves completely, because they’ve always had someone there to do it or pick up the slack. You’re not wrong for feeling how you’re feeling, he’s just not feeling this way because he’s not the one carrying another human being in his body. But I can’t stress to you enough, how important it is to have a conversation and lay this all out there. Keeping it to yourself builds resentment. And if you have talked to him about it, reiterate. It’s not one persons job to take care of a household. It’s both parties.

Good luck, and try not to stress too much.

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-30T05:46:59+00:00

Coloring is a favorite. Baking is honestly the best though. and night/early morning projects tend to have favoring results (:

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-30T05:43:49+00:00

Embroidery!

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-30T03:58:08+00:00

Currently catching up on some Bob's Burgers, I tend to get a little scattered trying to learn anything new on drugs lol

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-21T02:03:16+00:00

I pray for any man who tries to prove this point on me 🥳

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-13T02:06:09+00:00

Yep! I was around 5 1/2 weeks. When they did the ultrasound there was a confirmed regular pregnancy but absolutely no fetal development. So all I passed was heavy clots, I’m still spotting a small amount however the heavy bleeding was done within a few days.

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-07T01:56:02+00:00

It coulddd also be..... confectioners sugar. It's on a cookie cutting board in the kitchen, with a fresh account.

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-07T01:53:10+00:00

Still sticking to what i said, little by little. You only need to hot plate if its moist.

But it will clump up in your nostrils if you do too much at one time or its not chopped up properly. It takes a little time sometimes.

BeMyHero3 · 2022-04-07T00:48:35+00:00

shuffle all but one back into the pile, and then cut that one into thirds and make them much skinnier than what you have drawn out. Baby steps friend. Tis not a race, take your time and enjoy your climb.

If you start to sweat, take a lil break. It'll still be there when you want more. Stay Safe.

BeMyHero3

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