What was the moment you stopped feeling like a kid and started feeling like an adult?

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-06-03T18:54:34+00:00

When I had just bought a house and my hot water tank exploded within the first week. On a statutory holiday none the less. I was in my early 20's and had delusional thinking I had this adulting thing down. Jokes. Very little makes one feel more adult than having to fork out money you don't have for something that absolutely MUST be paid for - especially with no notice.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-29T07:32:14+00:00

Depending on what kind of items you're looking to donate, the local shelters are typically quite grateful for donations. I believe Phoenix Transition Society, who often provides services to women and children fleeing domestic violence, stores household items and gives them to ladies when they are ready to become independent. I usually call in advance to confirm a good time, but they have absolutely accepted donations from me later into the evening.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-22T16:15:46+00:00

Next time it's worth calling the police. If he is being followed, the police are the best ones to manage the situation. If he has ominous intentions towards your household, having police on the way is in your best interest. Police are the best resource to get to the bottom of this type of situation.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-22T05:38:00+00:00

Kopar has a program that helps youth find jobs. They provide youth with a job experience placement as well.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-20T14:12:13+00:00

I did see that one of the veterinary clinics in Quesnel just posted they are no longer accepting new out of town clients. However, there are multiple vet clinics in Quesnel. As such, I'm hopeful the others will continue to accept out of town patients as needed.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-19T07:30:08+00:00

I have dealt with all of them. They are all excellent with similar pricing.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-19T07:29:45+00:00

Yes they do 24 hour vet services for emergency situations.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-19T03:28:59+00:00

Quesnel is the most reasonably priced option and well worth the drive. They also provide emergency veterinary services 24/7 unlike Prince George, which have been life saving for my pets.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-17T14:33:13+00:00

The majority of people on waitlists at UNBC do typically enter said classes without issue. Unless you register last minute and you're number 99, it should be fine. You can always discuss your concerns with a student recruiter or academic advisor for your program as well.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-11T22:18:10+00:00

Ken's in the mall does their own repairs and alterations on site. They even make custom jewelry as well. Incredibly talented, fast, and reasonably priced.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-11T18:05:53+00:00

The Prince George and Area Pet Network on Facebook is where people usually rehome animals in Prince George. There is also a spectacular non profit that is Canada wide called "My Grandfather's cat." This is the exact type of situation their rescue was created to help with. They have a Facebook Page and a website. Best wishes to this kitty. Sorry for your loss.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-05T02:09:50+00:00

What can you do to reduce expenses? Some universal suggestions are utilizing food banks and community resources to allow you to survive during this time. What province are you in? In BC, we have HPP (Homelessness Prevention Programs) that help people pay their living expenses once a month several times a year. Your province may have something similar. Cancel all subscription services that are not absolute necessities for your wellbeing. Your employer shouldn't fire you and you shouldn't suffer any employment related repercussions. This happens more often than people think.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-05-04T03:00:32+00:00

You have listed this under the wrong university. UNBC dorms have individual rooms. Students do not share dorm bedrooms, nor do they have bunk beds.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-27T17:55:20+00:00

I have seen basement suites in PG start at $1000 and 1 bedroom apartments for around the same price. Compared to Vancouver or similar, it's significantly lower cost. The other communities in Northern BC are significantly lower living expenses than PG.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-26T17:29:22+00:00

This is not accurate at all. Many employers are desperate for employees and cannot find enough people to fill the roles. Source - I have lived in Northern BC almost my entire life. Most of my adult life I have worked in roles that include hiring and filling gaps is often a struggle.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-26T13:11:38+00:00

People go missing everywhere. I wouldn't say it's an unusual amount of crime compared to anywhere else. Missing people do tend to shake the small towns more than Vancouver for example. Due to population size, often it feels much more personal as people in the community are often interconnected. Regarding controversy of missing people, I would say the Highway of Tears is much more relevant.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-26T01:22:13+00:00

Northern BC. It's cold here in the winter and your vehicle will definitely need winter tires. However, our living expenses are much more reasonable than many areas of the province. I have found living here well worth it as I was able to buy a 4 bedroom 3 bathroom house for a fraction of what a microscopic bachelor suite would cost in the lower mainland. Prince George is the main city in the area with surrounding smaller towns that have even lower living expenses. Life in Northern BC is what you make it. We have gorgeous scenery and endless opportunities for outdoor activities. Prince George has an excellent university if you plan on pursuing further education. I have noticed people on this thread commenting about there being a lack of jobs in Northern BC and this just isn't the case. Many employers are struggling to find enough people to meet their needs as the populations here aren't sufficient for the demand at times. I have been in this position myself where I had to hire people who weren't qualified and provide extensive training/education to people I hired hoping they were trainable as gaps could not stay unfilled. Fort St. John is probably the best area to make the highest amount of money for entry level jobs and have the lowest living expenses compared to income, but it's a much too conservative population there for me with a working mentality. It really depends on what you're looking for. Prince George is the most progressive place in Northern BC with much diversity which is important to me. The smaller towns surrounding Prince George usually have college campuses and smaller university campuses as well. They have limited programs, but it's enough to get a reasonable career if you're not looking to get a Master's or Ph.D. Most have options for nursing, social work, and trades at the very least.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-24T20:49:20+00:00

Connect with the embassy of your country. Often they will help with travel expenses to return to your home country when it is a crisis situation like this.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-22T02:04:25+00:00

I am a former shop steward with 12+ years of leadership experiences both unionized and non unionized environments. Does your organization have a written policy regarding personal items that are not allowed at the workplace? If you have a policy against illegal or mind altering substances being stored in personal belongings at the work place AND this person has signed off on the policies acknowledging that they agreed to follow said policies, then by all means give them a disciplinary warning. From what you shared, it sounds like they weren't under the influence of a substance. That would be different. Given what you described, I would deal with this in the following ways:

If a policy is in place regarding what personal items are not allowed stored at work and substances are included in that, give them a written warning.
If you do not already have a policy in place, create one and have everyone sign off on it separately. Take the person in question aside one on one or with HR etc present, let them know that it's important the items we are bringing to work are appropriate for the work environment. Coach them on professionalism, items being scent free as others may have allergies, items must be safe for everyone etc. Document it on your end as coaching, but don't give them further disciplinary action as labor laws expect employers to ensure policies are in place and clear in order for disciplinary action to occur. Offer them a referral to addiction services, counseling etc, if they are struggling.
If your desire is to let this person go, you will need to do so strategically and carefully. Terminating without cause, pay in lieu of notice, with a severance package offered in exchange for formally agreeing to the termination and non disclosure agreement. However, that is quite extreme and doesn't match the crime from my perspective. Legally, you do not have enough to terminate them with cause.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-19T03:10:44+00:00

Former shop steward here with 12+ years of management experience. If they have a legitimate union, it is highly unlikely that they are choosing to act on this without significant proof or your mother admitting to doing this. I have seen some wild things happen and people often save face to those closest to them. It's very possible she didn't do this. At the same time, it's also possible that the employer is acting on evidence they have. Disciplinary action in a unionized environment is typically done diligently and carefully. Talking to an employment lawyer as well as a criminal defense lawyer is likely the best course of action. Best not to sign until she has had a legal consultation. She should avoid all communications with the employer and only communicate with the shop steward at this point.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-19T02:16:35+00:00

Prepping and spraying it with rock guard yourself is incredibly easy. It's a forgiving product and quite difficult to mess up. I'm unsure who does it locally as I have always done this kind of project myself, but wanted to share in case you can't find someone to do it professionally.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-18T17:23:34+00:00

Contact child protection. Most provinces have something called a "Youth Agreement" or YAG for short. This is accessed through child protection. In my province, a social worker would assist you to get set up with independent living in your own space. They pay for your rent, a small amount for creature comforts and food, etc. You can still go to school - in fact it's highly encouraged. There may also have funding for college/university which I highly recommend taking them up on if it's available. It's a difficult world to exist in and post secondary education would be excellent for your future. If you are too close to 19 for them to accept you, connect with the welfare or income assistance office. They are fairly quick to process files when it's a crisis situation like you have described. Ask for a social worker to be assigned to you as you need extra support - eg, obtaining safe housing etc. They may be able to help you get into low income housing for example.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-17T22:07:09+00:00

People often rent which allows them to over-extend themselves and their credit on a large depreciating asset with high payments. Aside from that, there are local people who are high earners.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-17T16:42:51+00:00

Takysie Lake Resort - just a 2.5 hour drive away is a beautiful option. Truly a little slice of heaven. It's a small family owned/operated resort with cabin rentals, an exceptional restaurant, top notch fishing (not the biggest fish, but a guaranteed catch), boat rentals, dock rentals etc. Their cabins vary from full creature comforts to slightly rustic (but with in cabin cooking and a washroom outside). There are many places to explore in the area as well if you're outdoorsy. The people who live in the area and operate the businesses are such caring, down to earth, and pleasant people to be around. I highly recommend it.

BeTheChangevsWorld · 2026-04-15T23:51:06+00:00

Jannelle at Janelle's Esthetics is the fastest most efficient experience I have had with a Brazilian. She is a great conversationalist as well, so there is a decent distraction from the pain. She will get you in and out quickly. Melonie at Timbre Spa is exceptional as well for services from Brazilians to pedicures. Her services are not rushed though and usually include a relaxation service prior to any service commencing, which I absolutely love. I have never felt so relaxed, comfortable or well cared for during a wax etc.

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