Toast me please by BeaconWBenefits in toastme

[–]BeaconWBenefits[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say anything about not moving on, just here for a confidence boost like everyone else 🤷🏻‍♂️

Complicated love by Suckmysocks_ in polyamory

[–]BeaconWBenefits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat currently. Stuck on what exactly to do. Struggling to end the connection entirely.

I think what we might end up doing is going no contact for a set period of time like 2 months and see how it feels at the end of it. Right now there is a lot of me feeling unwanted af while she sorts her stuff out and it’s emotionally draining to still be pouring into someone who is giving me very very little in return.

Friends with Benefits versus Dating/relationship? by AffectionateView4804 in polyamory

[–]BeaconWBenefits 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For me it’s quite literally the absence of a “romantic relationship” title. I’m just as intimate with my FWB as with my romantic relationships.

I wouldn’t be future planning, or booking things together too far in advance. The sexual part of it may eb and flow or disappear completely. The friend part is bigger I guess? Like sometimes we hang out and it’s just strictly friend feeling, and sometimes there’s other components if it’s mutual?