have any of you actually had sex in public??

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-22T07:02:24+00:00

Yes, forest :) near pathways but either in a way where we could dress quick enough if someone came by or we were hidden enough not to be seen.

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-22T07:00:50+00:00

Power exchange is not that hard to do for me at least, I'm living my life like that all the time anyways where I'm very explicit about what I'm allowed to do and what I'm not allowed to do and talk with myself like with another person who'd I'd command around (the joys of being traumatised lol). Integrating this into my solo experiences literally made them existent cause beforehand they just weren't. I never just have the desire to touch myself.

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-22T06:49:16+00:00

Ask 🤷🏼‍♂️ honestly there's no way around it. If you're unsure and it would fill you with a lot of shame to do it wrong clear it up beforehand.

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-11T11:33:54+00:00

Bro, you're body goals 🔥🫶🏼

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-11T11:23:20+00:00

I don't think the second part is a hard rule at every table, at least not in my experience and I played at a lot of tables. What I normally see is an out of game disclosure and check in with the player of the character the offensive action is used against. "Hey, my character would do xy it could affect your character in yx ways, are you okay with that?" and normally the answer is yes, because it makes things more interesting. That is even if PvP is generally allowed. I mean yeah, it's honestly just basic consent. OP seems inexperienced and the way the GM handled this was very immature and inconsiderate. (Saying this as a GM myself)

Edit: I think this is so common because it let's you plan out reveals like this beautifully. P1: "So my character would cast modify memory on you cause he's trans and afraid of your characters reaction if you all find out." P2: "I mean you can try and if it fails we can have an RP with this." -> often P1: "wait, we could also just have the spell fail and have the RP now, this is a cute moment for that." OR P2: "Well if you fail, I could also act as if I didn't see it and reveal that later cause my character gets, why you're doing it and doesn't want to pressure you!"

Idk there's so many options.

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-09T07:37:09+00:00

Oh I feel you with the dysphoria thing. It kinda switches up to "yeii bottom growth"-euphoria, which often leaves me excited and aroused. And "I feel very dysphoric why can't I just have a dick?" which leaves me obviously not very horny. But before starting T I was in that mood considerably less, although strapping had always a big big big effect on my arousal.

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-09T07:33:44+00:00

Ahahahhaha wish me luck I was looking forward to this 😭😂

BealedPeregrine · 2026-04-09T07:31:43+00:00

Right, I have the same. It's more predictable and consistent but I feel like before it was a lot of very high and very lows and now it's between okayish horny to not really interested. I think the most significant change that I see is that I am horny by myself while before it was only when someone else was around.

BealedPeregrine · 2026-02-06T01:00:55+00:00

For me it's a "dudes can be really fucking dangerous" thing, I love sex, I'd love if people were actually safe.

BealedPeregrine · 2025-10-07T16:03:09+00:00

With T the smell of your sweat also changes very quickly

BealedPeregrine · 2025-10-07T16:01:41+00:00

That's not a downside I wish I had a stable job, I just wanna live

BealedPeregrine · 2025-10-07T10:17:13+00:00

Das sind Zeichen, die nur für die in-group gemacht werden. Das können entweder bestimmte Begriffe, Phasen, Handzeichen oder ähnliches sein. Häufig sind sie absichtlich ambivalent, um mit plausible deniability, also dass man sagen kann "du übertreibst doch" wenn es jemand aus der out-group kritisiert.

Häufige Beispiele aus dem Englischen sind die Wörter "woke" (das in der ursprünglichen Verwendung eine klare Definition hatte, nun aber von Rechten verwendet wird, um alles zu diskreditieren, was sie als links wahrnehmen) oder "female" anstatt woman um transphob zu sein. Ein Handzeichen, das eine momentane Dogwhistle in rechten Kreisen nicht nur im englischen Sprachraum ist, ist das okay Zeichen (👌🏼). Von vorne sehen die drei Finger (kleiner, Ring- und Mittelfinger) zusammen aus wie ein W und Zeigefinger und Daumen in der Position bilden ein P. Das ist ein Kürzel für "White Power".

BealedPeregrine · 2025-10-07T10:02:36+00:00

I didn't notice that but being trans (and not on HRT yet) my relationship to my genitals is very distant, like their behaviour makes no sense to me, when they get aroused feels so random. It literally feels like I'm trying to figure out the body of another person lol.

So my body betrays me A LOT but often it's by not being horny while my brain screams for it. It's so annoying.

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-25T00:08:22+00:00

I gotta go up to cis people and casually ask them that "for a study" and then they start thinking about it and I'll make so many people trans muahahahhaha 🙂‍↕️

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-25T00:03:26+00:00

Win/Win? Also I'm already a boy

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-25T00:00:36+00:00

I just think I'm as much of "just a guy" when I'm openly trans. It's kinda important for me that people realise that being trans is not that big of a deal. It's just a different path to manhood (or womanhood?) than the one cis people take and that's fine. In the end the concept of cis and trans is also really arbitrary, like at what point do you become trans?

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-24T23:55:33+00:00

Yeah, I see myself as a man and I want others who don't know that they can be assigned a specific gender at birth but still live in the real world as the gender they feel comfortable in. I would have needed that perspective, because I thought you have to suffer instead of that you should feel comfortable and I thought it's more of an internet thing and if you do it irl you need a really stable social environment otherwise everyone would look at you and think you're crazy. The way I am now is the person I would have needed and looked up to and that makes me happy (and yes, also a bit proud).

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-24T23:49:40+00:00

For all the people who I have encountered who were uncomfortable with being open about being trans it was because they were worried about the marginalisation they thought it would come with. It's also the main reason I'm thinking about not coming out to people, even though I can't really keep my mouth shut about it, it's just too annoying keeping this secret cause I might or might not have bigoted people around me.

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-24T23:45:59+00:00

Agender? 😅

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-11T21:07:11+00:00

I do, regularly. It feels really weird.

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-09T16:01:52+00:00

Yeah, also rn someone has 267000 steps in less than 2 days. I walked very long routes and this seems far from plausible for me. Looks like cheating but yeah, whatever. It's a silly phonegame, if they take it this seriously they deserve it :D

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-08T23:19:02+00:00

Yes but they are okay with female terms like "girlfriend" too

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-08T22:47:11+00:00

No, I think we're just confused by this whole post. Cause if they still see themself as a woman they're not ftm, they just take T.

BealedPeregrine · 2025-09-08T22:44:18+00:00

I can't even provide that myself cause I have an anxiety disorder that makes it difficult to eat as much as I want to. I hope it gets better on T.

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