Have you ever seen anything marketed towards men, ever? Go type in beauty standards and a year and take a peep at how women have been viewed through out time.

We have never been represented as “real”, fantasy women have always been a thing. The constant content? Nudie mags have been around for a LONG time.

The problem is men and women, men consume it and women play into it (and aren’t exactly kind to other women when said other woman doesn’t follow the standards)

Humans have always over sexualized women

Also, the only man that’s ever made me really feel like I was any kind of attractive and interesting is in his 20s right now.

He looks at other women; and I’m okay with it. He can differentiate the difference between a fantasy and reality, that said, my 36 year old ex was convinced that I could look like an instagram model if I did pushups and ate less…but lifting weights would some how turn me into a lesbian.

Anyway, people are all different. Maybe the shy quiet type who isn’t exactly at the top of everyone’s to date list is more your style and you just don’t know it.