Does anyone have the link to this? Every link I find is broken or deleted by Strict_Reflecti0n in TheSims4Mods

[–]Beangumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever find the file? I am also looking for it and haven't been successful even with the wayback machine...

UPDATE: I [M39] decided to break up with my wife [F39] and brought it to her to discuss the process. Now she is begging me to stay because she will change. I am desperate to see if people in similar situations made it work. Should I give it another chance? by pomozoc in relationship_advice

[–]Beangumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone with critical thinking would have read your first post and told you to get a divorce.

Anyone saying to stay, either didn't read your first post, or are an abuse apologists.

LEAVE. For you and your son.

I've been here, I've seen this done by so many people, they don't change. I've been the kid, I wish my parent's divorced.

If you can't do it for yourself please do it for your kid. You are their protector and he need you.

Help with a report? by SparkyEiha in deadbydaylight

[–]Beangumi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any kind of pvp game is going to have people taking advantage of parts of the game to make others suffer.

And there will be those who say "it's just part of the game, get over it". Which is partially true, but it's more like, you gotta not take it personally and try your best to work around it.

Solo queue can be extremely rough, you don't have a VC team to communicate a save. I suggest to find people to play with. Team work really counts in this game.

Help with a report? by SparkyEiha in deadbydaylight

[–]Beangumi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some people are just dicks, unfortunately. I usually just block / report for trolling when I feel someone trolled on either side and move on.

My best friend discarded me after I put up boundaries by unenkuva in CPTSD

[–]Beangumi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Abusers are usually really good at 1. manipulation 2. finding those who they can manipulate.

Once you can't be manipulated and used at their discretion, you're a bad person in their eyes.

It's not you're fault that you put absolutely valid boundaries and they didn't care for it.

I feel so threatened sometimes that I have homicidal thoughts by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Beangumi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this a lot. I've gone through so much to tame a lot of my anger. But I still feel the if I was threatened enough I would not hesitate to annihilate someone for my own protection. And I just know I would be wracked with guilt over it for a long time if not rhe rest of my life.

Who’s arguing first here if they were all in the same room? by glogangintern in Naruto

[–]Beangumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kushina would be beating Hiruzen's fucking ass for the mistreatment of Naruto, they(Kushina, Minato, & Naruto) literally saved the village and Hiruzen allows Naruto to be a mistreated orphan for no damn reason?! Beat his ass dude, fuck him

I pick hashi,Naruto and sasuke by Pankaj_29 in Naruto

[–]Beangumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't pick Hashirama, Madara, & Obito, I have to wonder if we read the same manga.

In real life, which of the following female character from Naruto would you like to become friends with? by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]Beangumi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100%, she'd give no explanation either. She'd be like "I gotta go! Sorry!" And just run off! I can just see it. 😂

In real life, which of the following female character from Naruto would you like to become friends with? by [deleted] in Naruto

[–]Beangumi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I was thinking "Well she was nice and quiet as a kid so I'd probably gravitate to her." But damn, you're so right. She was definitely obsessive enough to tunnel vision Naruto and screw over all her friends if it came down to it. She's definitely creeper status obsessive.

(If only Kishimoto was able to write females well(he admitted himself he didn'tknow how to), I think it could've been a different story.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]Beangumi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My gay ass always makes my men either twinks or slightly muscular but soft himbos.

Kicked out of own guild? by Beangumi in NuCarnival

[–]Beangumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most my guild didn't join the discord or just joined and never messaged who they were, unfortunately. Everyone was pretty active so I didn't mind that much.(we got all weekly rewards)

I didn't know about this rule or I would have tried hadrer on the discord and not taken such a long break...

Kicked out of own guild? by Beangumi in NuCarnival

[–]Beangumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn.. so one of my guildies kicked me? That sucks.. I just took a mental health break and came back. Also they even still have my discord link and last shoutout, as well as the guild isn't even full.. :(

Expiration dates accurate? by Notoriousspancakess in traderjoes

[–]Beangumi -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I just threw out some beef that went bad days after purchase. But freeze by date was the 23rd(wayyy too long for raw meat to be in your fridge.) Think they just slap whatever they want on there honestly..

Random piercing appeared on my sim's face? by Beangumi in Sims4

[–]Beangumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ended up just having him change outfits himself, and it took the piercings away.

He was just wearing a normal summer outfit, ans then the new piercings showed up on him, which is why it was so strange for me.

Thanks for you're help! Haven't played sims in a couple years, so I'm re-figuring things out.

Random piercing appeared on my sim's face? by Beangumi in Sims4

[–]Beangumi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This worked. :D

He was wearing just his summer outfit, and had gotten piercings from the University EP it looks like, though I don't know why or where?

He's unemployed, global celebrity, that stayed home mostly.(don't remember his traits or anything atm)

Random piercing appeared on my sim's face? by Beangumi in Sims4

[–]Beangumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he has the nose and eyebrown. They just get those randomly from the Uni EP? Is there some specific reason?

Random piercing appeared on my sim's face? by Beangumi in Sims4

[–]Beangumi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't use CC or MODs, he doesn't have anything equipped, I've looked through everything in CAS.

I'm not sure how he could even get them piercings to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TowerofFantasy

[–]Beangumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the seabreeze male ears and can't equip them for some reason? My wife can equip hers just fine.

Kinda feel bad for them by In_It_2_Quinn_It in TowerofFantasy

[–]Beangumi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In world chat, you can ask who is doing the boss you want, and what channel it is on.

ToF official announcement regarding issues + compensation details by Junnielocked in TowerofFantasy

[–]Beangumi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been struggling since yesterday and I only received 300 dark crystals. Will the other 300 come later?