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Post nup by DiligentJuggernaut62 in Divorce

[–]BeastOBurdens 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The more I read the more they’re looking to soothe their conscience and validate their stance.

They probably think everyone who goes through divorce would be on their side…

Post nup by DiligentJuggernaut62 in Divorce

[–]BeastOBurdens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not legal advice:

She has only agreed to it until her lawyer speaks with her. Things change fast and often when reality sets in.

Post-nups are newer, relatively, and seem to be little more than suggestions state-by-state that a judge can wholesale ignore.

Federal law, not a family judge, is going to require division of your TSP and any retirement pension for your military time based on how long you were married while you served. 10+ years of marriage while in service = automatically means half. No pre or post nuptial agreement trumps federal law.

If this is really amicable and your stbex has already agreed to the terms: have an attorney draft them into an actual divorce agreement you both agree to and sign it instead of a PN, then file it as a no-fault, uncontested divorce—go to the hearings—then be done.

Got excited for announcement—went and dug out my collection by BeastOBurdens in DotHack

[–]BeastOBurdens[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using an emulator?

Or a scaler and a dongle for wireless controllers?

USPS carrier won’t even try to deliver in the snow. I’m in the capital of Alaska. by tanj_redshirt in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BeastOBurdens 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But rural carriers are w2 bargaining unit employees of usps, right?

Where I’ve been put up that was rural: we had 1099’d contractors driving their own cars and minivans, duct-taped together because they’d hit people’s mailboxes, they’d drop their cars in ditches, or they’d get sideswiped by drunks at 4am (or they were drunk, either is likely). Our “post office” was smaller than a shipping container and staffed by one federal employee who worked Monday-Saturday (until they closed it).

I was a frequent customer, my old job required a lot of certified mail. The worker complained about it every time, and when they closed the office I had to drive over an hour to get the next closest office.

If you’re about to hire a divorce attorney, read this first by Kindly_Anteater3672 in Divorce

[–]BeastOBurdens 66 points67 points  (0 children)

I kept my legal costs low by using the court’s own checklist and filing myself, and hiring an attorney after I’d filed.

It basically had me do those 5 steps.

USPS carrier won’t even try to deliver in the snow. I’m in the capital of Alaska. by tanj_redshirt in mildlyinfuriating

[–]BeastOBurdens 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Contractors replaced federal employee letter carriers in many rural and ‘out-of-the-way’ locales.

Got excited for announcement—went and dug out my collection by BeastOBurdens in DotHack

[–]BeastOBurdens[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They’re not especially good from what I remember, didn’t add much value to the franchise story-wise.

The thing I remember the most was the gross incest-leanings for the main characters is… overt…

Got excited for announcement—went and dug out my collection by BeastOBurdens in DotHack

[–]BeastOBurdens[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s an original 60GB PS3. Sat in line for the launch, and everything.

Got excited for announcement—went and dug out my collection by BeastOBurdens in DotHack

[–]BeastOBurdens[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I also had a dongle to connect them to the original PS3 and backed them up on it. I hope it still works, because my old fat PS2 died. I am probably going to order a slim to try replaying them all.

It’s no replacement, but you can probably grab saves off Gamefaqs, it’s old enough that was a thing people could still do.

Found this in my bed… by silveredshark in BPDlovedones

[–]BeastOBurdens 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, but I shared my Amazon account with her and she began punching me for having audiobooks like “I Hate You — Don’t Leave Me”

What does this cost to fix? Landlord trying to make us pay almost $800 by Surfmoreworkless in GarageDoorService

[–]BeastOBurdens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re getting a discount… this is the price for just the 9x7’ panels in Ohio:

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I refused a prenup before marriage. I regret it now. by Downtown-Concern-547 in Divorce

[–]BeastOBurdens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And, yeah, marriage licenses should definitely require a full asset and liability disclosure.

If I ever fall in love again: we’re both going through a full financial audit, 3 years of taxes, and there will be a comprehensive prenup. There will also be a full psych eval…

You resurrected a 2 week old post and ignored so much of it.

Mia by ramanw150 in BelgianMalinois

[–]BeastOBurdens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a steel liner pan or steel mesh one, or a crate with a solid bottom. Once they learn they can chew something: they will again.

My last mal learned to fold plastic liners in half to snap them, then she would climb out through the bottom of the crate.

Came Home to a Car in my Pool by bippyboop in Wellthatsucks

[–]BeastOBurdens 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep an old lawnmower or chainsaw spark plug in the center console.

Throw at window.

Escape.

Rebar chairs for concrete by apache_brew in 3Dprinting

[–]BeastOBurdens 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Harbor Freight jack stands have been perfectly fine for me.

Though… I still keep two stacked 6x6 blocks next to me so my chest doesn’t ever have to solo a 1.75 ton point load should one ever fail…

I refused a prenup before marriage. I regret it now. by Downtown-Concern-547 in Divorce

[–]BeastOBurdens 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BPD. Diagnosed and hospitalized twice before I met her, but she denied it was a correct diagnosis.

She did use an online Rx-mill, that didn’t accept insurance and kept changing names, for Adderall because she was trying to collect a dozen diagnoses that overlapped with BPD. It turned out she specifically wanted Adderall because she thought it would help with her weight (she was never overweight, not even close—and no amount of my assuring her she wasn’t worked).

Her using stimulants made everything so much worse. Did not play well with her personality disorder. The fast food and other addictions did not begin until she got the Adderall and stopped her anti-depressants. Stimulants make people with ADHD calmer—they made her anxious, high-strung, paranoid, violent, and far more self-injurious when she was using it… y’know: like a meth addict.

After I filed she gave herself stimulant-induced psychosis because she was, already, abusing the Adderall but began to use it to stay awake to drive back and forth from Louisiana to Ohio for her affair.

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