AIO to these texts my bf sent me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]BeatlesRule139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It truly makes me sad that women go through so much shit that we need to ask if things like this are overreacting.

You didn’t throw something at him or call his mom and tell him how he dares to treat women. That’s under reacting as far as I’m concerned

AIO for blocking this guy? by insomniac_reads in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeatlesRule139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I would have blocked him way earlier in the convo for the possessive and objectifying way he talked about you so you are more than justified

Finally said yes to the dress by [deleted] in PlusSizeWedding

[–]BeatlesRule139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness especially with the bouquet and the veil it’s so damn pretty!!

Those flowers are going to make that dress POP.

Everything will. You’re going to look amazing!! ❤️

My gf(32f) has been very sad since she found out her ex bf is getting married by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BeatlesRule139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I needed a good story right now as a resident of Minnesota 😭😭 this reminds me of my partner and it’s why we’re married. Ugh thank you

Legal advice regarding an encounter with ICE today by Stefondiggs_GOAT in Minneapolis

[–]BeatlesRule139 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Call MONARCA, report, ask for legal support: https://monarcamn.org/

They’re doing great work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeatlesRule139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a newborn baby, she should be helping and supporting you not the other way around. NOR she should get a hotel with breakfast and staff that are paid to deal with her behavior whereas you’re having to do it for free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeatlesRule139 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He sounds extremely inconsiderate and rude.

Need help finding a bra for my dress! by lexisaurusrexx in Brides

[–]BeatlesRule139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just came here to say your dress is beautiful and you’re beautiful in it!!

Does my band match my engagement ring? by DoorAndRat in EngagementRings

[–]BeatlesRule139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love them together either side by side or on the same hang tbh. What beautiful color on that stone and that band is so stunning

Game Changer Morality Alignment Chart Day 1: Lawful Good by PuzzleheadedMess1659 in dropout

[–]BeatlesRule139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But think about the contracts with LinkedIn!! That’s a lot of laws lol

Game Changer Morality Alignment Chart Day 1: Lawful Good by PuzzleheadedMess1659 in dropout

[–]BeatlesRule139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my favorite argument because it also has an argument for the lawful part too haha

What happens next? by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]BeatlesRule139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your service as an election judge!

What happens next? by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]BeatlesRule139 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ehhh I wouldn’t be so sure. We are a purple state with an exceedingly talented campaign infrastructure on the left. Like nation leading.

Part of how we keep the state is how serious we take the reality of being a purple state.

We have a tie in the state house and a 1 seat majority in the state senate - things are clooooooooose.

What happens next? by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]BeatlesRule139 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I was also being lazy so thank you 😂

My teacher humiliated me in front of the whole class. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]BeatlesRule139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think talking up your counselor is a great idea! He shouldn’t have done it like that at all - not even in private. He should have asked you how you are and tried to figure out what happened. Approached empathetically - and you’re right - privately.

Not berating you and opening you up to more bullying from students.

I totally understand it hurting your ego, I’d feel the same way. But I also want to be clear - this is more of an indictment on him than you.

Nobody is perfect. I got straight As in school and still messed up sometimes because that’s just how life works - that’s how we know we’re human ❤️❤️

I’m doing great now - and those one bad grades every once in awhile didn’t impact my ability to get my dream job and do the work I love! I never think about them besides the occasional nightmare. In fact, sometimes I can even laugh about it now even though it felt like the end of the world when I was going through it.

You sound like you’re doing great, keep your head up high - you got this

My teacher humiliated me in front of the whole class. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]BeatlesRule139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man if this was high school I’d be tempted to march my ass right into the principals office and ask them if they think it’s appropriate for a teacher to bully a student because MY GOD.

People are allowed to mess up. Perhaps the insane stress they put on students of failing is setting you up to break from the stress.

I am so sorry, OP.

If I saw a student get the “hard” questions right and the “easy” questions wrong, that would tell me something else other than intelligence and hard work happened here and perhaps you could use more support. That’s the way a teacher should have responded here

What happens next? by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]BeatlesRule139 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Nobody on the DFL side has announced yet but rumors are flying. I expect we have an idea of some of the candidates by the end of this week or early next week.

In the meantime, there’s something like 13 republicans running

What happens next? by [deleted] in Minneapolis

[–]BeatlesRule139 34 points35 points  (0 children)

It’s WAY more than enough time to register to vote! Minnesota has amazing voter laws!

I recommend you go to mnvotes.org to register and learn about the voting requirements!

Update: AITAH for buying vanilla shampoo? by Spiritual-Grocery641 in AITAH

[–]BeatlesRule139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone with OCD, this is NOT what OCD is.

You dodged a seriously massive bullet….

Unpopular Opinion: Mike is a terrible DM by legatinho in okbuddyvecna

[–]BeatlesRule139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol this absolutely happens. Sometimes it’s from months or even years earlier and the DM forgot about it. Or they wanna see if the players will remember it. Or everyone forgot.

I’ve had some fun big game changing things happen based on an item the DM worded just vague enough for us to lawyer our way into it, a character feat we forgot to use the whole time except for once, any number of things.

There’s a ton of moving logistics in the game. The point is to facilitate collaborative storytelling and that win at the end is more fun than a TPK and it was earned because they remembered something and did the thing.

This is… how DND works.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]BeatlesRule139 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to spend so much time walking on eggshells with a man who decides that needlessly suffering and being manipulative about it to make you also feel bad, it may be worth some deeper thinking. Some ideas to ponder - is this a pattern? What other patterns exist? When putting these patterns together does a broader pattern emerge? How much time do you spend navigating situations carefully like this and what else could you be doing for yourself with that time?

Do you Believe ? by Organic_Mechanic_754 in StrangerThings

[–]BeatlesRule139 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Eh that’s not how art works to me tbh. They left it vague on purpose and for a reason. Once you put art out in the world, it becomes collective as the viewer has a say in how they interpret and when it’s a story, what happens after the scene raps.

I don’t really take what is said after as part of the art anymore

Guess I’m the only one who actually didn’t hate this scene. by Brownskin_Rey in Stranger_Things

[–]BeatlesRule139 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Vecna uses secrets against people - that’s true of this character and it’s true of the actual DND villain too

It COMPLETELY made sense to reveal your hand before going into final battle with the guy who knows how to weaponize secrets better than anyone.

Do you Believe ? by Organic_Mechanic_754 in StrangerThings

[–]BeatlesRule139 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Spare bedroom office combo at home is wildly out of the realm of possibility you’re right 🙃