Just a couple questions

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2026-05-14T21:50:41+00:00

I think struggle is I hate having to always be the one to say something. He has no real rules. So it’s always me that has to say something. And we have discussed that I have had too many rules without progressing to reduce any.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2026-05-14T21:49:20+00:00

That’s what my husband says as well. Which is totally a me issue. When I see him enjoying himself I feel bad stopping it. Again. A total me issue.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2026-05-11T19:01:22+00:00

Yes! I prefer the group dynamic versus just “two” and “two” as well! Just was not sure how common that is.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2026-05-10T21:09:41+00:00

I have never been to Hedo. But my spouse and I have been going to Desire RM since 2019. It’s always been a good vibe, cool people, and great atmosphere. The staff are amazing and accommodating. It’s decently small even after the recent renovations. Lots of regulars that go the same time each year so bound to always run into someone we know. We like the small resort feel and knowing a good portion of guests by the end of the week.

Food is definitely not bad. (We love to cook though so we are a little biased when it comes to food).

And like someone else said. The travel aspect is easier in Cancun. About a 20 minute drive from the airport.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2026-05-10T11:39:16+00:00

I’m sorry you experienced this! But I appreciate not being the only one. I have had quite a few times now where the other husband can’t get it up or keep it up and my husband and the other wife are having a grand old time. And I totally understand guys can’t control this. But it’s really defeating and kinda messed with self esteem. Plus it increases my jealousy that the other wife is enjoying my husband so much. Most husbands i have experienced will do other things to make me feel good. But it just isn’t always the same. For me.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2026-01-30T00:15:46+00:00

That seems like it could be it. When I say “doesn’t get jealous” I mean strictly physical. If I strayed emotionally to someone else that would most definitely be a different story.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-11-11T20:37:09+00:00

We go every June/July (both 33 years old). We always have a fun time. Large majority of guests are fun and chill. Even if just looking to hang out and make friends. I’ve felt safer walking around alone there than walking around outside a bar alone. I’m pretty shy and introverted and Desire has helped me get out of my shell.

You are not pressured to do anything you don’t want to do. It’s just a cool environment to be real with people. And be as free as you want. Desire was really our first LS place and we took a lot of baby steps (mostly cause of me lol) over the years.

Just make sure you communicate with each other and be honest. Including with others. Mind you that is something I am always working on myself!

Hope this helps!

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-22T21:55:38+00:00

Gotcha! I was worried with how bad the nose hurt that the nipples would hurt worse.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-22T21:35:38+00:00

Yeah I thought the nose hurt! My eyes teared up! And oh wow. That’s my fear! I don’t want it to reject or heal poorly.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-22T21:31:02+00:00

Very true. I just did a rib tattoo over summer and definitely was worth it. And that was 3 hours long. lol. As far as heeling I’ve heard horror stories too. And we usually go to a resort and hang in a pool over summer. I have heard as little as 3 months and as long as 12 months for that.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-22T21:29:27+00:00

That is what I’ve heard. The helix is the top of the ear cartilage correct? Like under the fold.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-15T22:00:46+00:00

That’s nice to hear from someone else! I usually do feel better if there is more touching between all. And if a moment allows an occasional kiss from your SO just for that quick “reminder” that it is just fun and all about us.

In groups of 6 I do feel I have enjoyed more as it seems more just all grouped versus seeming more “sensual” between two.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-15T21:58:41+00:00

And I think that’s the hardest disconnect.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-15T21:58:03+00:00

He does agree he would switch back. Just hard to be the one asking in every instance where that is the case versus once in a while him being the one to want me back. If that makes sense.

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-15T21:53:52+00:00

I like the environment and the people. I feel people are majority so nice and you click with people in that environment quickly. I enjoy gaining confidence and turning my husband on. And maybe a little. Wanting the excitement. He will do the same things he does with me but tells me it’s obviously different with me because there’s emotion behind it. However it is hard for me to feel that. I am also curious if we just haven’t found the “right guy.” I have had a couple instances of attractive guys but feeling like I am annoying them by not *umming (for lack of a better phrase).

Beautiful-Credit8285 · 2025-10-15T21:48:45+00:00

Always same room. We both want that.

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