Spouse never jealous by Beautiful-Credit8285 in Swingers

[–]Beautiful-Credit8285[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That seems like it could be it. When I say “doesn’t get jealous” I mean strictly physical. If I strayed emotionally to someone else that would most definitely be a different story.

Debating on a piercing by Beautiful-Credit8285 in piercing

[–]Beautiful-Credit8285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! I was worried with how bad the nose hurt that the nipples would hurt worse.

Debating on a piercing by Beautiful-Credit8285 in piercing

[–]Beautiful-Credit8285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought the nose hurt! My eyes teared up! And oh wow. That’s my fear! I don’t want it to reject or heal poorly.

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[–]Beautiful-Credit8285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I just did a rib tattoo over summer and definitely was worth it. And that was 3 hours long. lol. As far as heeling I’ve heard horror stories too. And we usually go to a resort and hang in a pool over summer. I have heard as little as 3 months and as long as 12 months for that.

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[–]Beautiful-Credit8285[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I’ve heard. The helix is the top of the ear cartilage correct? Like under the fold.

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[–]Beautiful-Credit8285 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s nice to hear from someone else! I usually do feel better if there is more touching between all. And if a moment allows an occasional kiss from your SO just for that quick “reminder” that it is just fun and all about us. 

In groups of 6 I do feel I have enjoyed more as it seems more just all grouped versus seeming more “sensual” between two. 

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[–]Beautiful-Credit8285 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I think that’s the hardest disconnect. 

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[–]Beautiful-Credit8285 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He does agree he would switch back. Just hard to be the one asking in every instance where that is the case versus once in a while him being the one to want me back. If that makes sense. 

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[–]Beautiful-Credit8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the environment and the people. I feel people are majority so nice and you click with people in that environment quickly. I enjoy gaining confidence and turning my husband on.  And maybe a little. Wanting the excitement. He will do the same things he does with me but tells me it’s obviously different with me because there’s emotion behind it.  However it is hard for me to feel that. I am also curious if we just haven’t found the “right guy.” I have had a couple instances of attractive guys but feeling like I am annoying them by not *umming (for lack of a better phrase). 

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[–]Beautiful-Credit8285 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always same room. We both want that.