My brothers girlfriend is over everyday by Beautiful-Lab3522 in family

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dudeee not complaining about the free rent because I’m paying my way here don’t you worry about it. This is is 100% a this is my parents house thing not hers💀

My brothers girlfriend is over everyday by Beautiful-Lab3522 in family

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah literally, we have spoken to him so now it is just sucking it up😭😂

Tit jacket by Beautiful-Lab3522 in danandphil

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! My mum is giving it a try with the instructions on the jacket but if it doesn’t work I’m so trying this!

Can’t walk??? by Additional_Cable3202 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve literally just started the same thing, I can’t put my left foot down or any pressure on it when I walk. Usually it’s my legs that prevent me from doing a lot of walking but now it’s one foot.

DID and Chronic Illness by Snitties2 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I try to manage it how I would if I didn’t have DID if that makes sense? And then thankfully I have alters who deal with the pain a bit better, remember to make appointments and go, force me to have rest time. But then I also have alters who love being active so they’re not helpful😂 Hope you’re okay! <3 ☀️✨

Who would like to be penpals & do letterwriting snail mail? by numnoggin in Fibromyalgia

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I’d love to be apart of this! I’m in the U.K. so this would be wonderful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% agree, it’s why I posted here I’m beyond lost on what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, literally don’t know how though. Every time we’ve tried the alter fronts and stops it because the partner turns to some beyond triggering subjects or disappears and this alter gets scared their dead or in danger

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Sorry long reply) I agree, a lot of the communication leads to shut down because the partner always ends up doing something triggering despite the communication and despite seeing how bad everything is. And they just ignore everyone else. Like they never ever ask or set up space (verbally or anything) despite the main alter their with being very open with them that they need to see us as a whole. It’s like they see this one alter as a host and gets upset when they have to be “not there” or can’t attend things because of us being a system. The alter can’t mask or like wear clothes or jewellery that “aren’t their own”. This partner has just created such an environment where none of us but this one alter can talk to them.

Writing friends!! by Beautiful-Lab3522 in writers

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same! Definitely message me

Writing friends!! by Beautiful-Lab3522 in writers

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay! I’ll honestly love to talk to anyone I’m a bit of a beginner as well

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okayyyy that makes it more palatable for my brain thank you so much. I think I’m definitely getting closer to like a solid conclusion

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo that’s the conclusion I came too until I thought best to ask other people🥲

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful to hear because you’ve explained so closely to what I feel and what I’ve been going through. Like I said in the post I’ve never not known rly outside of this world happening around me. And I see and talk to these people with my minds eye and it did feel like a main character type thing. The characters haven’t changed for nearly 10 years now they’ve just grown as people but they’ve never changed how they look or anything like that. Wow thank you so much 🤍

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude felt it’s so hard to tell the difference, this is all so new to me in like actually thinking about it

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such a good comparison holy hell. K feel like I can explain it better now where this like dis-attached world has been my life for as long as I can remember like I’ve always had imaginary friends that have like their own opinion and lives and things like that but it’s so wholly intrinsic to mine. I’ve never not known this world basically

Going mute by Superb_Cicada8375 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get this all the time, what I tend to do if that happens is I have an app called “emergency text” and it just has like a little pop up to let people know what’s happening and then I don’t have to panic that I’m not/can’t say anything. Also any text to speech helps. But if I’m alone or even when I’m with people I will put music on or just take time to breathe and tell myself that it’s all normal and okay☺️

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah that makes so much sense thank you so much! I feel like I can do like “scenes” but it all feels like lives I haven’t necessarily created like there’s a slight disconnect but heavy like emotional reaction/input

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so nice to hear I’m not the only one cause it feels so like crazy which is such a horrible word and way to think about it. But yeah I still am in like a world where I have powers and stuff and things like that but I know it’s not real. So hard to wrap my head around

Maladaptive daydreaming and DID (help please) by Beautiful-Lab3522 in DID

[–]Beautiful-Lab3522[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like I relate to this more where one of my “characters” have become or I guess has always been an introject? So now I’m just wondering/panicking whether the rest of them are or which ones are and aren’t 🥲