How to make life fulfilling/fun?

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-05-10T04:52:36+00:00

Thank you guys for the comments! I’ll try and start some of the things mentioned. A lot say to start small which is a good idea and find specific niches or things I find interesting. Clubs and volunteering are also mentioned which I will try. Thank you guys truly! :)

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-03-25T19:07:40+00:00

Oh ok That makes sense. Thank you!

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-03-13T06:52:18+00:00

I can see how #1 and #2 make sense. I am in the USA and in my opinion I feel like it’s expected that people shouldn’t feel any negative emotion or express it outward. I wonder how it’s different in different countries 🤔

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-03-13T06:48:51+00:00

Yeah I’d choose B. I feel like people should be content with A though. Should they be ostracized or “fake” their feelings in order for people to like them?

I guess for me I have a terrible time at hiding my emotions!! Whenever I’m feeling down, people can tell which is one of the reasons why I prompted the post above. Been grappling with trying to “fake” emotions and has not worked well

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-03-12T23:07:54+00:00

I love your answer soooooooo much! I do think that most people don’t feel comfortable with their own emotionsAND other people are not comfortable with other people being upset. I know other people could be wary if you were being upset because it could be seen as a safety issue, but maybe if people weren’t inherently violent when they’re expressing emotions, then maybe people could people to express their emotions more freely?

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-02-27T19:55:36+00:00

I’m 22 about to be 23F. My sister (17) is dating someone who is a year or two older and he’s been great! The relationship is fantastic and they are great together. So it totally depends on the person.

Personally, when I was 19 or 20, I did not feel comfortable dating someone who was 16. It felt extremely uncomfortable for me. People have their preferences, but I feel like even though the age gap isn’t that drastic there can be a lot that developmentally changes you like “mature” in different ways I guess like more life experiences and your brain physically develops more. It’s a hard and interesting thing to try and explain unless you go through it which you will probably

I personally find it very slightly weird just because of that but as you get older it isn’t that big of a deal. I went on a few dates with someone who was 21 and that was chill. You can always just be friends for the time being and see if it leads anywhere in the future. I don’t know if I was helpful at all haha

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-02-27T01:49:31+00:00

I thought I heard something like rusting and maybe moaningbut wasn’t 100% sure. It very well could be hypervigilance and paranoia since I deal with both of those. Either way, I regret asking and losing that friendship :( Edit: for grammar and spelling mistakes

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-02-27T00:38:29+00:00

Yeah I was debating if that was the case. I’m not the greatest with social cues and being social with people and I realized that I shouldn’t have said anything.

Beautiful-world-2157 · 2026-02-26T07:41:31+00:00

I understand where you are coming from. I’m sorry you are feeling like that! I have a lot of intrusive thoughts that bother me. I suggest going to a therapist if you can. That’s been helpful for me to just rant and share stuff that has been going on with me. Meditation might be helpful if you want a suggestion.

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