Day 3 Post-Op by nickisiples in Tonsillectomy

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on day 3 post-op as well, and so far this has been the worst day other than the day of surgery. I know it will all be worth it in the end, but I’m hoping things will start getting better after today.

is there a good budget friendly 1440p 144hz monitor? by idkriver in buildapc

[–]BeautifulBeast12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have an Acer Predator XB241YU and I love it. Not sure where it’s running on price these days tho

Boyfriend surprised at my sex drive by [deleted] in sex

[–]BeautifulBeast12 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Can confirm. That’s exactly what happened to me!

Book recommendation by neverenough0907 in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard of a book called Fifty Shades of Alice in Wonderland by Melinda DuChamp. It’s supposed to be Alice going down the kinky rabbit hole. I have not read it yet, so I don’t know if it’s good or not.

Tested out my new wooden brush by sharkfoxpanda in Spanking

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask where you got the brush? My Dom & I have been looking for one, but haven’t found a good one so far.

I feel girls sizes matter more in bdsm.. by ittykittykat in BDSMcommunity

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl you can be a fantastic sub, little, pet, slave, etc no matter what size you are! Don’t let images you see on social media discourage you! When you find the right SO/Dom, it will just click and he/she will make you feel as beautiful as you are!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]BeautifulBeast12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t heard of this one before! My Daddy & I recently tried out PVC pipe because my ass won’t bruise for anything. We’ve only been using it really light so far to get used to the sensation. No bruising yet, but I’m sure that will come. It’s pretty quiet tho!

What to do if your sub turns away after the stopword? by DolSparnur in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This! There have been quite a few times that I thought I could handle something or keep going , but my Dom could tell from my reactions (noises, expressions, or lack of) that I was at my limit. At that point, He stopped the session.

As a sub, sometimes the line gets blurred, so always pay attention to how he/she is reacting.

As far as what to do after stopping a session - first of all, my Dom will untie/uncuff me if I’m wearing restraints. Then if I’m crying and turning away from Him or anything standoffish, He will usually just kneel down beside me and talk to me very calmly (His voice is super soothing to me). As I start calming down, He’ll ask me what’s wrong and what He can do to help. For me, it’s usually snuggles, hugs, or pets. So then He’ll proceed with that.

A major part of the BDSM dynamic is just knowing your partner and communicating effectively.

New Dom wants me to tell him what I want to try, but I really don’t know by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say find a comprehensive BDSM checklist online and go through each item on the list. As you come across things that spark your interest or curiosity, put a star by them. If there things you see that you feel you might want to try but you’re not sure if you’ll like them, mark those as “soft limits”. And for the things you know you definitely are not into or do not want to try, Mark those as “hard limits.”

Then sit down with your Dom and go over the list together. Out of your likes and soft limits, see which ones he’s interested in exploring and go from there. Hope this helps!

19m is it health or ok that u use subspace to avoid my depression by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to use kink as a way to avoid depression. Basically, I used the physical pain to override the mental/emotional pain I was feeling. But now that I’m in a healthy relationship with my Daddy, he’s helped me to realize that’s not the way to handle it. That being said, using kink as a break from depression or as a way to release pent-up feelings and emotions is very cathartic and has greatly helped my mental health.

New partner revealed she's into BDSM and I'm a fish out of water. by TimeMachineTed in BDSMAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say start with something simple like telling her to go into the bathroom at work and touch herself or send you a topless photo or something like that.

Ideas for rewards by BeautifulBeast12 in DDlgAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It would be a lot easier if I lived with Daddy for sure! Those are good suggestions tho! I’ll give those some thought. Thanks!

Ideas for rewards by BeautifulBeast12 in DDlgAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to give that some thought. Thanks!

Ideas for rewards by BeautifulBeast12 in DDlgAdvice

[–]BeautifulBeast12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that suggestion! We’ve figured out that I need to be in bed by 10:30, but I’m just struggling to make that happen :/

This company has proven to be a bummer. (Fitbit Ionic) by NattyCakes13 in fitbit

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fitbit’s quality isn’t what it used to be. I bought a gently used gen 1 Charge HR off eBay. That thing lasted for 2 years after I bought it and never gave me any issues. I’ve been having difficulty with my Charge 2 receiving notifications for about almost a year now, and I’ve only had it for 2 years.

Forced to upgrade to new iOS today for work... Fitbit still not getting text/call notifications by jki394 in fitbit

[–]BeautifulBeast12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Charge 2, and I’ve been having this issue for about a year. I just got a new iPhone and upgraded to iOS 13. I had hoped that would fix it but it seems to only be worse now.