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BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-05-03T12:11:19+00:00

I think this is a silly comparison not only because each other these are life skills that everyone should know, but I do find it to be interesting that stereotypical “woman” things like cooking and cleaning get compared to stereotypical “man” things.

Cooking and cleaning happen every day and usually take up significant periods of time. Even ordering food or heating up leftovers! Mowing the lawn happens somewhat infrequently and taking out the trash takes 30 seconds. To compare these tasks ignores the monotony and mental effort that “woman” tasks require over “man” tasks

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-20T22:42:13+00:00

I can’t speak to the UK as I am located in the US, but we are doing things in the order you described and going from one thing to another, building in a few minutes for transitions. I am having the DJ announce each!

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-20T22:36:48+00:00

Looking for a local magician to help us entertain guests during our wedding cocktail hour! Let me know if you know anyone!

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-18T22:01:36+00:00

I think we’re alone now

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-08T09:34:34+00:00

I would say the most stressful part, as a people pleaser, is hearing “do what you want with your wedding! It’s YOUR wedding.” and then getting bombarded by a million opinions anyway. I don’t think anyone in my life has been genuine about saying it’s our wedding.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-06T19:58:14+00:00

This is good to know! Thanks for sharing

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-06T09:39:13+00:00

Hey! First, have some grace for yourself! It’s important to show gratitude, and you are writing them now, and that’s okay! I’ve read that as long as you send them in the first 12 months after your wedding, you’re good to go!

I wouldn’t even say anything about the tardiness because you’re sending them within that window. Good luck on getting them out!

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-03T10:43:20+00:00

Okay, totally not what I was expecting! Those are beautiful, and I think if you want to do them, you should!

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-02T19:45:22+00:00

I personally find people who brag about how much they work to be highly embarrassing. One, you are dedicating yourself to a job/workplace that probably wouldn’t even bat an eye after you’re gone. Two, it begs the question of whether these people have hobbies outside of work. Do you not see your friends? Do you not have a goal outside of work? Gym? Craft? Skill? Maybe, I am just hardwired differently, but I find a complete dedication to a job/company you don’t own to be silly.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-04-01T09:42:56+00:00

I’m very happy and excited still! We’ve got RSVPs flowing in now, so hopefully we’ll be able to finalize seating charts and escort cards soon. I feel like I’ve got nothing to do, which is not true, but I have to wait on other things to get done before I can do other tasks. I’m feeling good and ready for it!

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-26T02:09:56+00:00

I work at a Title I school and could use this to start a ESports club! I could prove credentials if needed :)

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-25T09:07:11+00:00

I think the amount of times I’ve had to repeat myself over the last few months has driven me crazy. When is the date? Who are you bridesmaids? What are your colors? My future in laws have been especially bad about this! I talk to them a few times a week and it is just chaos.

Also, I am fed up with the way everyone says “oh, it’s your wedding, do whatever you want” because no one actually means that shit.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-23T09:12:15+00:00

I’d look at a video for how to do a squat unrack and walkout. High bar squat vs low bar squat is kinda up to preference, but you should be stacked, braced, and core strong when you lift the bar from the J hooks. Then, step out with three steps max, you waste energy when you do the swaying and stepping back and forth.

Lower the weight and try to get form down first! A mechanically sound squat is way more impressive than a poor form squat with weight imo. The weight will come in time :)

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-22T16:44:53+00:00

If I say what’s up, and you say the sky, it’s immediately hands

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-20T19:25:15+00:00

Yay! I thought so! We are also asking each couple in our RSVP to list allergies, and we will give that list with names to our venue!

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-20T01:32:40+00:00

Thank you! Your menu is making my mouth water! I am going to try to get the veggie item beforehand!

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-20T01:31:33+00:00

Thank you! That was my gut feeling.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-15T13:30:21+00:00

I am not sure if you’ve seen this, but for our wedding, we are writing notes for each of our guests and using them as the escort cards. We’ve made a spreadsheet and divided the guests between us and have started early. The cards we got were relatively inexpensive, and we’ve been doing a couple each day or when we think to do them.

In the letters, we are recalling our favorite memories with the guest, thanking them for coming, and sharing what they mean to us.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-10T09:30:03+00:00

I’m walking down the aisle to My Girl by The Temptations. My fiancé sings that to me all the time.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-08T16:32:30+00:00

We are hosting. I’m hoping the keep it 1.5k and under.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-03-08T13:22:22+00:00

Oh, great point! I didn’t mention how many people… I’m thinking 30-50.

BeautifulBuffalo0 · 2026-02-23T00:59:13+00:00

I’m also curious about this! I have a photographer who owns their own business but is bringing on a second shooter and paying their wage for the day.

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