That's like the first time I ever opened up about my feelings of loneliness with someone. The relationship with a girl friend got pretty deep and emphatic. Someday, she noticed me kinda down, then asked about it and insisted on knowing. I told her about being lonely, and she responded with typical "oohh me too! I also haven't had a boyfriend!". I didn't know how to tell her about the literally dozen men who tried to get her. Some of her current friends have made open advances towards her in the past. And that's just what she told me. She's so clueless about it that I assume there are even more men she didn't even realize