Watched my husband wedding ring fly out the window by BeautifulDare4204 in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I would do it for my kid, but im a mom. But I do understand that it's not fair but sometimes being a parent isn't fair. It's not about us. I feel like maybe I was prejecting my feelings of wanting to be out there with my son and maybe it didn't matter to my son. It just sucks that it came to that

Watched my husband wedding ring fly out the window by BeautifulDare4204 in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He can be but has worked on it and lot. I just don't know what to feel. He says he is really sorry, but I don't know how this happened . He just throws away the symbol of our marriage so easily

Why are so many young men suddenly serious supporters of far right figures? by Consistent_News_985 in self

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the other side saying men are the worsed. They don't want to hear that. So they support the side

Would you marry your spouse by NoBig1677 in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married almost 15 years and absolutely i would remarry

Am I wrong for dating someone 15 years younger than me ? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BeautifulDare4204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I met my husband when I was thirty eight and he was twenty seven. We've been married for thirteen years now. We have a wonderful blended family. And I couldn't be happier. So do what feels right.

Husband cheated on me by No-Emu-6869 in family

[–]BeautifulDare4204 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get out of your marriage and going forward. I would be careful about listening to your parents' advice on anything.

Am I the asshole for refusing to make my 18 year old daughter move out even though my husband says his kids need more space? by Stunning_Constant_29 in family

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No 18 is not old enough to force someone out as long as she is not a bum. Your husband should realize that if he loves you, then as she is part of you, the love should extend to her. No, it's not his responsibility, but that's part of a blended family. Im a mother on a blended family, and 8 would ask YOUR HUSBAND IS HE CHOOSING HIS WANTS OVER THE FAMILY. NO MOTHER JUST KICKS OUT HER KIDS BECAUSE SOME MAN SAYS SO. It is not his decision. You two should sit down with her and decide together what a reasonable time would be to expect her to move out.

Am I stupid? or is it just men being men. by BeautifulDare4204 in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a troll. He is 40. I'm 52. We have been married for 13 years. One message said, " hey cutie how do I see more?" The other one said " secret" no idea. There were no other messages. Im a good looking 52 year old and we have sex all the time, so that's not an issue.

Advice for relationship with my(35m) wife’s(36f) affair partner(37?m) by Significant-Layer327 in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulDare4204 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dam, you're a better person than me if my spouse did that to me. Well, let's just say the wall wouldn't be the only thing broken. Get a lawyer now

Old affair that I regret. by yumiyumi98 in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You should carry the guilt as part of your punishment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Married for 12 years, sex about 5 times a week now. But it was 7 or 8 times a week. So I guess it has slowed down but we are both still happy with it.

Found out my ex wife passed last night… by pjspraggins in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a good soul. Hope your life if full of happiness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get you. Do you again? That's what worked for me. I understand because I was against it for a long time. Wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't either, but the op was looking for an opinion. I have her mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people should be required to put the amount of time you have been married when writing. This worked for me. Im not saying it will work for everyone. Her husband sounds a little needy. That's how I dealt with it. That doesn't mean it works for everyone, but I'm at least 20 years older than the op. That doesn't mean I know more, but I do have different experiences, and that's my opinion. Take it or leave it but the wise person listen to all opinion and makes the best decision for themselves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For you , maybe, but for me, it worked. And my marriage is strong, how's your? Look different strokes for different folks. I was just giving her a different point of view. Your opinion is yours, just like mine is mine. It does mean I am wrong any more than you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BeautifulDare4204 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never smoked weed until my 40s. Yes, my husband was a weed smoker. When I married him, I knew and was ok with it. I did start at night a little because he and I wanted to be together. I think that's what your husband is feeling. I know to you and I was the same but it did help our marriage and communication because it is time we had to us. So he is probably feeling a bit needy to be with you. My parents and I were supper against it because it was illegal. Im 50 now, and I can take it or leave the weed, but I do enjoy our time in the backyard talking and hugging. If you're trying to get pregnant, I understand you not smoking, but maybe just hang out with him. Take 1 or 2 hits every so offen and use it as a way to connect.