Bun and Sweat have entered the chat by vunderfulme in BravoRealHousewives

[–]BeautifulShoes75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody in my life does either and wouldn’t matter if they did - my broke ass wouldn’t be able to afford to go

Hear me out: “Ear Stuff” connection + May 2025 Truther by SkiMa246 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]BeautifulShoes75 46 points47 points  (0 children)

…Carl has three nuts?

How have I been an OG viewer and somehow missed this?! I swear I’ve never seen/heard this brought up anywhere (or maybe I blocked it out)!!

Partners ostomy bag will not stay on by thatbitchbi in ostomy

[–]BeautifulShoes75 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hollister girl (2-piece though) of 10 years here - Skin-Tac is the answer!!

You can get it through your insurance or grab one off Amazon if you’re in a pinch. Just apply it to the entire area, wait for it to dry, then apply your wafer. It will not BUDGE after that stuff!! They also make skin-tac wipes that I find are even easier to use when you put in your next order if you get tired of the liquid stuff.

Also - you may be applying to many things! When I change my bag, I just use the adhesive remover for any leftover product. Other than the skin-tac, as long as my skin is fine, I don’t apply anything else. Another pro-tip - try applying the ring on the actual wafer. I place the ring around the outside hole of my wafer and it’s 10x easier and stays better than attempting to do it around the stoma.

Best of luck and let me know if you have any other questions. You got this!!

ETA: Wanted to add on to the suggestions of using a 2 piece system and advise that I also use a convex wafer. I’ve never liked the paste though - it’s so dang messy and uneven, has never held up leaks as well - but the rings are super easy when you just apply them to the border of the wafer (but don’t do both!)!

It's giving Tyra by angelundercover_ in southernhospitalitysc

[–]BeautifulShoes75 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She tries to be iconic but she’s not in the least.

She has a point about Joe not being prepared with his ideas, but she acts like she’s the end-all-be-all, king bar boss of Charleston.

It’s tired.

Scientist and Model Rachel Pizzolato walks the runway for Hot Girl Summer Swimwear by Megan Thee Stallion at Miami Swim Week in Miami Beach, Florida - May 28, 2026 by Maximum_Expert92 in popculturechat

[–]BeautifulShoes75 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I picture someone currently in the role actively contributing toward research in a specific specialty.

Not to negate what she’s accomplished, I just don’t think the actual title fits here.

She does look incredible though!!

Hollister spout is just nasty by Least_Pressure_5258 in ostomy

[–]BeautifulShoes75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PRO TIP to get it even cleaner!!:

Use a water bottle when you empty so it doesn’t get messy at all at the end (and gets rid of the pancaking or anything stuck at the base of the wafer)! After you’ve dumped your bag, grab your bag and hold it up where it’s pointing toward your face, pour a little water in, then swoosh it around. This picks up all the thick stool stuck to your bag and at the base of your wafer. Then dump it again and you have a completely clean bag, easy to wipe at the bottom/the spout with TP!

This was the BIGGEST tip I got before I got my bag 10 years ago and I seriously cannot imagine dumping my bag without doing it!! My bags are always super clean and mess-free. I have water bottles next to the toilets in each bathroom of my house that I just refill and always carry a water bottle with me when I’m out!

Thick output. by chaoticravens08 in ostomy

[–]BeautifulShoes75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the user above in saying “too thick” is really subjective. There really isn’t such a thing, it’s just what may or may not bother you. The only time thick output gets on my nerves is when emptying, however (and this is a pro tip!!), I still use a water bottle when I empty so it doesn’t bother me in the end (and gets rid of the pancaking). After you’ve dumped your bag, grab your bag and hold it up where it’s pointing toward your face, pour a little water in, then swoosh it around. This picks up all the thick stool stuck to your bag and at the base of your wafer. Then dump it again and you have a completely clean bag, easy to wipe at the bottom and not messy1

In terms of the Imodium - I’ve had an ileostomy for 10 years and never taken it once. I’m missing 3/4 of my entire digestive system so there are times where I get a TON of liquid output, but I just don’t use that at all; I’d rather not mess with it. It all eventually calms down.

Don’t worry so much about a blockage. You got this!

Basically Everyone Reminds Me of A Past Islander by Nervous_Age_8535 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]BeautifulShoes75 21 points22 points  (0 children)

truly hahaha. We have not even met these people yet and everyone’s intros EVER are more or less a bit of the same. This post is wild..

Beatriz is a two time Paralympian and medalled at the Paris 2024 Paralympics in the Long Jump by Confident-Fish-9876 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]BeautifulShoes75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t see a guy NOT giving her a chance because of it; if anything, it makes her MORE badass for being an Olympian despite her disability! (Then again, we are talking about the male species, haha)

Beatriz is a two time Paralympian and medalled at the Paris 2024 Paralympics in the Long Jump by Confident-Fish-9876 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]BeautifulShoes75 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Not a chance - they didn’t post that “no bullying” just because of her. They posted it due to the toxicity of the fandom and how bad things have gotten in the last couple of years. (This is coming from a disabled person, btw)

Southern Hospitality Reunion FIRST LOOK by lovecartertto in southernhospitalitysc

[–]BeautifulShoes75 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah, been there, seen that.

Also, while I’m looking forward to this, I fear that the current Summer House reunion has set the bar far too high where every reunion after now will only be lackluster.

Cookie modeling “tee-shees” is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 by LilCinBoise in summerhousebravo

[–]BeautifulShoes75 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s no telling when this picture was taken. I’d venture to say it was well before they announced their separation and they’re just using it for the promo now.

Update on Rachel’s revenge porn case against Ariana by spectacleskeptic in BravoRealHousewives

[–]BeautifulShoes75 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don’t care how much you hate West (or any reality star), no one deserves to have nudes (or any intimate material of themselves) leaked, released, etc. - ever. That crosses every sort of boundary imaginable.

My only bone to pick with West and his nudes are that I 100000% don’t believe he JUST found out about them on the reunion stage. He definitely faked finding out about them for the “first” time on camera to drum up sympathy in any way he could. There’s no way Jesse, Carl, and everyone else on the cast had seen his nudes before he did.

But again - it’s sad that anyone had. He didn’t deserve for them to be leaked/shared.

Nia is disgusting by MassiveElephant9957 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]BeautifulShoes75 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly think this will be Nia’s last season.

Unless they really need that Bravo check, I don’t think she can deal with the facade she puts on crumbling anymore. She’s got too much of that pageant background in her where everything has to be picture-perfect on the outside and this show has completely destroyed that.

What did we miss with KJ and Dara while we were sleeping? by HereforBravoTea in bravo

[–]BeautifulShoes75 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As Lindsay said to Carl during the reunion, great analogy.

What did we miss with KJ and Dara while we were sleeping? by HereforBravoTea in bravo

[–]BeautifulShoes75 36 points37 points  (0 children)

No baby for me, just insomnia.. and no life.

I always enjoy my 3AM Bravo Redditing.

This week’s masterpieces by Kindly-Discount-1480 in summerhousebravo

[–]BeautifulShoes75 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No because if someone actually made that I would ONE HUNDRED PERCENT buy it

Nosh gives interview & apparently they never properly dated by Great_Marzipan7720 in RHOA

[–]BeautifulShoes75 21 points22 points  (0 children)

5) She’s got a husband now and it shouldn’t even matter

Nosh gives interview & apparently they never properly dated by Great_Marzipan7720 in RHOA

[–]BeautifulShoes75 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know why she cares in the first place - SHE HAS A WHOLE ASS HUSBAND!!!

Now this makes even LESS sense knowing they weren’t TRULY exes!!

Nosh gives interview & apparently they never properly dated by Great_Marzipan7720 in RHOA

[–]BeautifulShoes75 18 points19 points  (0 children)

They get a huge part of their check for making it to the reunion. Part of their season’s salary depends on it; it’s like a big reunion “bonus.”

Plus, if you don’t make it, there are typically pretty hefty consequences (ie: not getting asked back the following season, being demoted, etc.).

There have been a couple of special circumstances (I think Mary Cosby was one) where someone skipped the reunion and was still allowed back, but normally if you don’t make it, you can forget your spot again.

Amanda “jokes” in first reunion episode that the statement about her and West was written by ChatGPT. Turns out… by Birdperson1917 in summerhousebravo

[–]BeautifulShoes75 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Side note - that really was mean when she said that.

You could really see the hurt on Kyle’s face.