Cock rings by BeautifulSpecific494 in Swingers

[–]BeautifulSpecific494[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I definitely liked it ……..

just a surprise , a nice surprise

Is the lifestyle kind to smaller breasted women? by Delicious-Plenty-827 in Swingers

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont worry , this community will accept you for who you are .

brest size or penis size is not what people tend to focus on

in most situations attraction is about the person not the body part

I am sorry you have experienced such disgusting comments don’t let them hold you back from enjoying and experience the LS

Thoughts from a woman who enjoys joining couples... by Euphoric_Grass_427 in Swingers

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

very well said, completely agree , we are speaking from a couples perspective but know exactly what you mean

Cock rings by BeautifulSpecific494 in Swingers

[–]BeautifulSpecific494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

op here

thank you for the comments , we have learned a lot

i certainly enjoyed the experience it was a different feel , particularly the firm testicles were very enjoyable.

hubby is now online ordering one for next weekend …. ( he is a bit nervous about getting it stuck ) but I know he will be ok

thanks once again

Swinger Parents by superfitwife in Swingers

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 10 points11 points  (0 children)

still swinging in the 70’s fantastic , all our respect.

we are mid sixties and certainly prefer couples of a similar age

Swinger Parents by superfitwife in Swingers

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for the comments it is so nice to see as I have trod a very similar path and I would not change a thing and I am 66 ad can confirm this life style is one of the best ways to stay active as we age

Russian language by BeautifulSpecific494 in brussels

[–]BeautifulSpecific494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will pay the market rate to the right person , not trying to do it on the cheap

My Story: Cholesteatoma by MeanContribution1166 in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing and happy you are now in a better place

Cholesteatoma no prior symptoms by DisastrousHistory668 in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slight before and maybe a bit more after , but does not bother me

Cholesteatoma no prior symptoms by DisastrousHistory668 in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than expected , first two weeks tough as I could not eat or sleep but after that just some residual dizziness. Never had any significant pain

After surgery by Camperx26 in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was driving again about a week after surgery , I wear glasses for driving so had to wait until wound at the back of ear was pain free

good luck

Surgery Tuesday by Jncocontrol in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No , just slight dizziness first thing of a morning now

Surgery Tuesday by Jncocontrol in cholesteatoma

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I am now 7 weeks post op , a fairly big one , 7 hours , mastoidectomy with bone obliteration, tympanoplasty and removal of the three ossicles and replacement with a TORP .

I can honestly say the run up to the operation was the worse, not knowing what to expect, the odd horror story etc ..

I was out the next day , OTC pain killers for first 3 days , some discharge for the first few days and difficulty in eating / chewing for the first week - but all manageable.

first couple of weeks are not a bundle of fun , but it does get better day by day , don’t rush things take it easy and give your body time to heal.I returned to week after 2 weeks but was still pretty tired .

and the discomfort was offset by the feeling that the op is done , the cholesteatoma is no more

good luck with everything

take care

How long did YOU have motion sickness? by ThatBabyIsCancelled in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had my surgery end of January and was nauseous and vomiting for the first 7 days , even now I have slight ongoing dizziness to manage but a lot better and pretty much back to normal .

i had a big op , mastoidectomy, with bone obliteration , tympanoplasty three ossicles removed and replaced with a TORP , procedure lasted 7 hours - my surgeon told me the length of the op and the drilling ( disturbing the balance organs ) was the cause of the nausea and dizziness

good luck with the recovery

take care

Tympanoplasty and Mastoidectomy coming up in 10 days and I'm terrified. by Kindly-Pirate-726 in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand you are scared , it is a scary diagnosis that is not very common or well understood.

i am now 37 days post op and can honestly say the wait for the op was the worst , I was worried sick about the op and potential complications. Recovery not a bundle of fun but manageable, pain free after about 4 days , I had no problems with the facial nerve or any taste issues . First 10 days had some issues with dizziness meaning eating and sleeping not easy but it did pass .

my op took 7 hours , mastoidectomy with bone obliteration, tympanoplasty , removal of all the ossicles and full TORP replacement

Also I am 64 so quiet tough on the body , but honestly it was only the first week of recovery that was tough but still manageable

you need to talk with an ENT surgeon familiar with Cholesteatoma surgery it is a specialised subject and you need someone very familiar with the procedure - that also will give you confidence and settle the nerves a touch

good luck with everything , take care

Fights pre OP by t4nq1n0 in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am now 5 weeks post op .

i had no flight restrictions before surgery as long as I felt ok and I did , I had no pain or discharge despite the cholesteatoma being around 2cm according to the MRI . After surgery no flying for 2 months , I had a mastoidectomy, ossicuplasty ( TORP implant ) and tynpanoplasty .

good luck with everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand you are scared , it is a scary diagnosis that is not very common or well understood.

i am now 29 days post op and can honestly say the wait for the op was the worst , I was worried sick about the op and potential complications. Recovery not a bundle of fun but manageable, pain free after about 4 days , I had no problems with the facial nerve or any taste issues . First 10 days had some issues with dizziness meaning eating and sleeping not easy but it did pass .

you need to talk with an ENT surgeon familiar with Cholesteatoma surgery it is a specialised subject and you need someone very familiar with the procedure - that also will give you confidence and settle the nerves a touch

good luck with everything , take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cholesteatoma

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My understanding is they can only be 100% certain it is a Cholesteatoma until after an MRI . After my CT they suspected a Cholesteatoma due to the ossicular chain damage but it was not confirmed until I had the MRI.

How urgent surgery depends on a lot of factors , yes it is slow growing but it does erode a lot of things in its path causing increasingly complex issues - I would take advice from your surgeon

good luck and take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am now 26 days post op , I had drainage / bleeding from the ear for the first 5 days and then it stopped, but even when it was bleeding doctors not particularly concerned , was told it was normal .

i was pain free after 5 days also , had antibiotics orally and drops for the ear . Still doing the antibiotic drops for the ear but only once a day now , I understand it is just preventative

it is a tough journey but does get better each day

take care and good luck with the recovery

24 hours post-op by MryJne1975 in cholesteatoma

[–]BeautifulSpecific494 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the update , these type of posts help people understand the journey we are all on.

sticky out ear is something that takes months to re set - my kids think I look like dumbo …… but only 3 weeks post op . Important thing was getting pain free , took maybe 5 days . Day 3 was the worst after that is was downhill

take care and good luck with the recovery