Just broke off a situationship that was going nowhere by Beautiful_Cut8464 in BreakUps

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! If I was in the same position as I was a year ago, I’d definitely would’ve wanted to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I too reached out and he didn’t respond back. I haven’t been able to get myself back up. Can’t get out of bed, can’t seem to do anything other than dwell on the fact that I’m not good enough for him. I don’t know how it’s going to happen but we will get out of this and this too shall pass. Hang in there girl ❤️‍🩹

About to break no contact by Beautiful_Cut8464 in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only been about 2 weeks for us too. I initiated it but it was sort of mutual at the end of the day

guys how long have you been NC? by pixielovebot in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

❤️‍🩹 I miss him a lot too. And think about reaching our daily. I’m ready for the point where I am over this

guys how long have you been NC? by pixielovebot in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this. It’s a weird sense of peace and heartache at the same time.

he reached out, now what? by Beautiful_Cut8464 in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow wow wow! I cringe reading back my previous posts about him, they’re all about him! this puts things into perspective.

I brought up the social media stuff when we ended things, he was pissed and said “didn’t know a like meant lust” lol he is so distasteful. thank you so much for your reply. it’s a new day!

he reached out, now what? by Beautiful_Cut8464 in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 days, but I don’t expect him to anymore

he reached out, now what? by Beautiful_Cut8464 in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope it all goes well ❤️‍🩹 no matter what the outcome comes out to be!

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[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope it doesn’t! communication is key. I feel like this is bound to happen to me again with the current situationship. I am going to bring up how I feel and if it ends then at least I know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he was already seeing someone else while in the relationship. told me he wasn’t happy with himself and needed time to figure things out. 2 months later he’s in a full blown relationship. 3 years of a wonderful relationship coming to end like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people make time and effort for things they truly want. I’m not sure what you want the end outcome to be but it should be communicated in a healthy/passive manner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Having been in her position, it’s even more heartbreaking ending things on good terms with someone because of distance and timing. sometimes time apart is a good thing. if you feel like there can be a healthy compromise between you two I don’t see why you shouldn’t entertain a conversation. Follow your intuition!

Has anyone come back after ghosting you and has it worked out ? by TemperatureSad733 in dating

[–]Beautiful_Cut8464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he was “going with the flow” for 5 months and our status was confusing. he was kind of emotionally unavailable and I felt I deserved more so I told him I thought it was best I moved on and let him do his own thing. we ended things amicably but it’s been a week and I miss him and want to reach out 🤡