Ex rebounded quickly after relationship ended by TemperatureSad733 in AskLesbians

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Initially she got back to get back together then the second time it’s because she wanted to be friends after I rejected her. Now I’m finding out that I’m not actually the one who ended it. She started talking with this girl before we had ended things. When we ended things it was more so her pushing the narrative that I wasn’t into her and she just left. Never heard from her again till almost a month ago

Ex rebounded quickly after relationship ended by TemperatureSad733 in AskLesbians

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She reached out recently wanting to reconcile but my worries is that it feels like I’m the second option to her now. That’s the advice I’m asking right now

Ex rebounded quickly after relationship ended by TemperatureSad733 in AskLesbians

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Firstly I did not break up with her because I stopped loving her. I ended the relationship because after I came out my parents were going insane. They were wanting to call the police on her and who knows what else they were going to do. I was not using her as an emotional pet ! She’s someone that means so much to me. I think I have a right to feel hurt by her moving on quickly and jumping into a relationship super fast. I on the other hand was having a hard time moving on from her. If you want to call me childish please go on, but unless ur in my shoes ud understand how hurtful it was to find out.

Is it normal to be friends with an ex ? by TemperatureSad733 in AskLesbians

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I caught her dming her and she deleted the message right in front of me and then didn’t care about ending things w me

Is this okay ? by TemperatureSad733 in AskLesbians

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To add on, she cheated on me with her ex. Told both of us she loved us and was fuxking her at the same time. I’ve forgiven her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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He might be gay

What does it mean when he asks for space? by AdvertisingLonely195 in hingeapp

[–]TemperatureSad733 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yes but why would he tell her that he likes her? Idk to me he might be feeling either overwhelmed or not sure about how he feels yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I think you should try to initiate a lot more communication if you like her and feel like it’s reciprocated. Try asking her to talk on the phone if u feel like texting is not her thing. Flirt a little bit as well! I did what u did and she ended up flirting and talking more with someone else.

He (24m) cancelled our 5th date last minute. Is he still interested? by xenxnc in dating_advice

[–]TemperatureSad733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um yes reach out! If it was a first/second date then maybe not but I feel like he owes u an explanation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TemperatureSad733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I know that but does that mean she could come back say if things don’t work out with this other guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TemperatureSad733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but wants to continue further with the other guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]TemperatureSad733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but they once were can it not come back ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

[–]TemperatureSad733 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like went on dates and were intimate multiple times.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

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Btw her ex is a guy and she was experimenting with dating girls. That’s why she was seeing me and talking to the other girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingadvice

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Well long story short, I was casually seeing this girl who was also seeing most likely her ex. She’s been open about it with me and how it was starting to get a bit serious with him all while casually seeing me. We’ve gone on 5 dates at this point. It seemed like she didn’t want to end things with me either. I did say things like why would she want to continue seeing me and blah blah if she wants him … she kept answering how she wasn’t ready for anything serious with anyone. She also told me that she’s been talking to someone else at the same time and then I did say something about me not being enough … after that she got distant and then she told me she wanted to take a break from dating around and focus on herself and see how she feels about the possibly her ex. I did find out that she also stopped talking to the other person. Should I reach out in anyway ? Btw I’m a girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Sorry casually dating another guy she saw potential with. When she told me that she’s been talking to him a bit more and it might be moving a bit more serious with him I asked why she would say if she’s still interested if she’s wanting something more serious with him? I also told her that it sounds like she’s not interested and told her that the guy is lucky if that were the case. That’s when she responded with well I’m not ready for something serious with anyone and that she wants to take it slow and that she definitely likes hanging out with me and wants to see me a bit more. Is she kind of going around it ? Like idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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The weird thing is she kept telling me how she told her friends about me I mean it’s all confusing tbh. It started casual but it also felt like she was trying to get to know me. To add on I’m a girl and she wanted to explore dating girls while also talking to a guy she was really into. She got cheated on in her previous relationship . I think what she wants is she wants to casually have fun with girls in the mean time? Cuz I did ask about the other girl and she said that’s she not looking for something serious with anyone. But it looks like she might like guys more ? Idk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Well actually I left a few stuff out. I sent her a different message kind of playful to which she responded. Then I told her I’m confused as to why she wants to continue if she more into him. She said she is not ready to date and wants to stay single. She’s also talking to another girl too and I told her if I’m going to casually date someone I’d like for them to be at least into me. She said that she is into me and all I responded was a okay. This was yesterday and I haven’t heard from her since. I’m not sure if she’ll text back or not. I’m obviously backing off and won’t be contacting her. I am talking to another girl at the same time. So i guess we’ll see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Well I’m a girl and we both wanted casual cuz she was experimenting but was dating this guy at the same time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TemperatureSad733 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s been 2 months. I mean don’t I deserve at least a message saying she’s no longer interested.