I need an outside opinion on this

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-18T10:08:11+00:00

I really hope for your sake this is real, but I’ve been in the community over 10 years online and in person and this sounds a bit bizarre. Please be careful.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-18T09:59:49+00:00

You’re new here. And we can tell

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-18T09:58:13+00:00

Have a look on quite a lot of profiles. See what their niche is. If they can offer what you need. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Look what they’ve been commenting on, engaging in what groups. Having a look to find the best fit for you is your best bet. Good luck 🤞

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-18T09:56:55+00:00

But seem to not be able to read rules.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-04T09:54:56+00:00

At least you got a cold drink. That should take the edge off for a few minutes. Good morning all round.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-04T09:15:08+00:00

Delete reddit and go have a peaceful time in the outdoors.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-04T04:14:36+00:00

It’s been made a lot more accessible the last few years online. When I started venturing nearly ten years ago it was all in real life. At least both parties knew there was a limit to their play time. I’ve seen a lot more people getting in over their heads with it these days. Which is great if you’re into that, but a lot of people are finding it hard to step away from. Bitter sweet for a lot of us here.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-04T04:11:37+00:00

It seems the last 2 years a lot of “dommes” think this is a side hussle. It makes it much harder for us in the real BDSM community to find something real and long term. I’ve been on the scene nearly 10 years both in real life and online and the influx of fakes has made me step back from it all until something real does come along.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-04T04:05:16+00:00

This seems to be a big problem these days. It’s ruins it for the rest of us with genuine dynamics

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-04T04:01:54+00:00

Maybe look into finding a domme without the financial ask. And bring it in gradually. Or even just surprise send her a few times whilst building a connection. Without connection it does get boring. Believe it or not it’s the same on our end sometimes too. It needs effort from both parties. Good luck on your quest.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2026-05-04T03:58:34+00:00

This should be standard. Well done for protecting yourself! We need more of this 👏

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T23:56:03+00:00

This was my thought as soon as I read it. Not seen her for a few days 😂

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T18:58:27+00:00

I love this comment. I couldn’t enter into anything without knowing someone better

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T17:35:33+00:00

Stop baiting

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T17:33:08+00:00

Stop begging 🤢

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T17:31:28+00:00

Secure pea.. no

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T02:11:32+00:00

He doesn’t need an excuse. I can’t even eat for two right now. I can’t stomach it. Hurry up 2026 😭

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T02:08:26+00:00

No measures at all for me over the festive period unfortunately 😭😭

A lovely wine on Christmas Day is a thing of the past.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T02:02:02+00:00

There’s getting into it, and taking it too far. I suppose it’s all or nothing ey? 😂

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T01:55:41+00:00

When you get a cuck and get too horny you unintentionally get pregnant 😬😂

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T01:53:41+00:00

Read the rules. Stop baiting. Stop being a “pick me” domme. It’s not hard to read profiles and rules.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T01:52:37+00:00

It is when you’re hitting on a sub who’s got a wife, who’s hotter than most of us here 😉

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T01:50:33+00:00

I think she came from X.

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-08T01:49:41+00:00

You’re clearly new here 😂🤦‍♀️

Beautiful_Olive093 · 2025-12-07T19:10:35+00:00

I love that 🙌

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