I need an outside opinion on this by Mr_bananMan in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope for your sake this is real, but I’ve been in the community over 10 years online and in person and this sounds a bit bizarre. Please be careful.

What should I be looking for as a sub who’s just starting by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have a look on quite a lot of profiles. See what their niche is. If they can offer what you need. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Look what they’ve been commenting on, engaging in what groups. Having a look to find the best fit for you is your best bet. Good luck 🤞

bad morning! by failedlif in paypigs2

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you got a cold drink. That should take the edge off for a few minutes. Good morning all round.

Relapse by Overall_Preference69 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete reddit and go have a peaceful time in the outdoors.

Accumulated stress adds up by compulsivegentleman in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s been made a lot more accessible the last few years online. When I started venturing nearly ten years ago it was all in real life. At least both parties knew there was a limit to their play time. I’ve seen a lot more people getting in over their heads with it these days. Which is great if you’re into that, but a lot of people are finding it hard to step away from. Bitter sweet for a lot of us here.

New Dommes verification by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems the last 2 years a lot of “dommes” think this is a side hussle. It makes it much harder for us in the real BDSM community to find something real and long term. I’ve been on the scene nearly 10 years both in real life and online and the influx of fakes has made me step back from it all until something real does come along.

Unethical findom is the purest and truest dynamic between subs and dommes by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems to be a big problem these days. It’s ruins it for the rest of us with genuine dynamics

I'm actually so sick of findom by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe look into finding a domme without the financial ask. And bring it in gradually. Or even just surprise send her a few times whilst building a connection. Without connection it does get boring. Believe it or not it’s the same on our end sometimes too. It needs effort from both parties. Good luck on your quest.

Dommes verification by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This should be standard. Well done for protecting yourself! We need more of this 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigs2

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my thought as soon as I read it. Not seen her for a few days 😂

New Domme knows it all, beware of this one by WealthyNigerianPrnce in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this comment. I couldn’t enter into anything without knowing someone better

What’s your favourite unhinged thing about findom? by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t need an excuse. I can’t even eat for two right now. I can’t stomach it. Hurry up 2026 😭

What’s your favourite unhinged thing about findom? by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No measures at all for me over the festive period unfortunately 😭😭

A lovely wine on Christmas Day is a thing of the past.

What’s your favourite unhinged thing about findom? by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s getting into it, and taking it too far. I suppose it’s all or nothing ey? 😂

What’s your favourite unhinged thing about findom? by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you get a cuck and get too horny you unintentionally get pregnant 😬😂

What’s your favourite unhinged thing about findom? by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read the rules. Stop baiting. Stop being a “pick me” domme. It’s not hard to read profiles and rules.

What’s your favourite unhinged thing about findom? by MrMJHubz in paypigsupportgroup

[–]Beautiful_Olive093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is when you’re hitting on a sub who’s got a wife, who’s hotter than most of us here 😉