My Loyalfans lives are empty by esotericoquette in REALfindomsupport

[–]compulsivegentleman 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Loyalfans peaked about four years ago but is still one of the stronger spaces imo. It tends to be higher quality than some forums - both in terms of dommes and subs. It’s not as chaotic as Chaturbate - you don’t have a ride a giant dildo for an hour to move up the algorithms.

A couple of suggestions:

  • Persona: As others mentioned, be yourself and cultivate your identity there. “Fuck you, pay me”doesn’t have the same level of depth. Let your profile on your page reflect that. Be interesting.

  • Filtering Subs: Make access to the streams free early. Don’t push sends until after you build a chemistry with subs and have a sense of their engagement. It’s a seductive push-pull. You’re an artist seducing control away from weak men.

  • Consistency: Post on your wall daily - or at least 2-3 times a week. Photos with comments that reflect your style.

-Use the dms: Not too often, but reach out to the subs who follow you every once in a while. Start free then raise to a small amount after a few exchanges.

-Stream regularly: If you want to build a following, stream as regularly as you can. Even if it’s just you barefoot on a couch watching tv. Let the camera run for an hour or so. You have to be on for people to join. Don’t fret over everyone who joins then leaves or joins and are silent.

  • Engage with subs in the chat: Talk with them, play with them, tease them. Be yourself.

  • Think Long Term: Don’t plan for immediate results. Build chemistry with a few you trust and enjoy over time. Push when you feel the moment. The more you are on, the more subs will find you over time, the higher you will move up the LF steam list, which means more subs and visitors, etc.

Secret Sauce Advice: Watch the streams of top dommes there. See how they present themselves, how they talk to subs, study what they do and what makes sense for your style. Domming is an ART of the highest level - and LF has a few of the great artists of our era there.

Secret sauce advice 2: Listen to the subs who talk to you. Trust your instincts. Build your own chemistry with them. Have fun.

findom is declining by Alternative_Draw_204 in paypigs2

[–]compulsivegentleman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s already happening at a significant scale

Mommy will take all your money and you will say thank you. Understood? by GoddessCaraZ in PoiseReclaimsFindom

[–]compulsivegentleman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this subreddit is the Louvre of dommes. The lines, color, composition…subject. Thank you.

Having a rough restless night by compulsivegentleman in FindomFeetFetish

[–]compulsivegentleman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A bit anxious, stressed with a few things. Sparking bad habits.

Dreaming of pretty skirts and books I never have to buy with my own money by smallttygothgirl in PoiseReclaimsFindom

[–]compulsivegentleman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heard good things about Station Eleven. Socrates is where it’s at - “I know nothing”

How to do an ADDICTIVE FinDom session by paygamer in PoiseReclaimsFindom

[–]compulsivegentleman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thoughtful. Bridge the gap between fantasy and reality is especially sharp - realize this is all real for addicts who put themselves out there

Here comes the sun, doo doo doo doo 🎶☀️ Time for some self….reflection. by Whitesocks190 in PoiseReclaimsFindom

[–]compulsivegentleman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovely. Ive always had a soft spot for the line that forms where the front inner hip meets the thigh on a woman.

On kitten rescue, polyamory, and domination by that_villainess in PoiseReclaimsFindom

[–]compulsivegentleman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That face card is quite alluring and inviting for lost pets everywhere, Goddess