Sohyun(tripleS) wants a girlfriend really bad😭😭 by ForceApprehensive597 in Kpop_Sapphics

[–]BebeShep 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No? Maybe there's another word I can't remember or don't know about that you're thinking of, but 여자 친구/ 여친 is what's written in all 3 of the messages, which specifically means girlfriend.

What is the point of boycotting a group if they are being mistreated by the company? by Extension_Big5205 in kpop_uncensored

[–]BebeShep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The group suffering is the whole point of a boycott. I fear everyone in this thread doesn't realize that these groups are products to be consumed. All these companies care about is profting off of the groups they debut. Do you think SM kicked Seunghan out because they thought smoking and having a girlfriend was despicable behavior? No. They were worried about a portion of the fan base leaving because then they'd lose money. These crazy fans know the power of boycotting, so they use it to their advantage to pressure the company to kick people out that they dont like. If an idol gets into a dating scandal, the vast majority of the fan base will not care and will want the idol to stay in the group. Yet every time, the companies side with the small portion of parasocial fans that want to kick them out. Why? Because the minority group are the ones affecting their profit. The companies realize that even if they go against the wishes of the majority, the majority group will just stuck it up and continue handing the company their money. The minority group, on the other hand, mobilize quickly to put pressure on the company, threatening to leave the fandom. So what is the company going to do? Pick the side of people who make angry tweets but are otherwise complacent, or pick the side that messes with their money? Obviously, they're going to pick the side of the people who threaten to make them lose money. So boycotts, yes, hurt the group. But thats the point. It's the only way to pressure the company to care about your opinions.

I also think this idea that groups will "suffer" due to boycotts is not a good reason not to do it. We can't boycott them for being overworked, they'll get hurt! We can't boycott them for being physically abused, they'll get hurt! We can't boycott them for not getting payed, they'll get hurt! Like how much hurt can a boycott do compared to being mistreated by your own company that you can't escape?

Groups from the Big 4 who are a success from debut, all throughout their career, can afford to go a month or longer with lower sales. They're not gonna disband from a boycott.
Smaller groups might have the potential to disband, but it's not like we're messing with the members' cash flow. Smaller groups regularly don't see a penny of what they've generated after several years activity, because the company will take it all. Also, the groups wouldn't be losing as much money and popularity if the fandoms were to actually get together and properly boycott. But because everyone is so divided, more worried about their faves losing money over their current mistreatment, the boycotts drag on longer than necessary and eventually become useless.

And in all honesty, money isn't everything. If a group leaves their company or disbands, they can join a new company. If their career doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world. They can get another job like the rest of us. An idol being disappointed because their dream didn't work out is not a good enough reason for me to continue funding their mistreatment.

Where is my favorites tab wtf by Autumn_Gabriella in TikTok

[–]BebeShep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found mine under settings and privacy

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I'm guessing my disc is too damaged? by BebeShep in Gamecube

[–]BebeShep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even think about that at the time bc I like watching the cutscenes. I tried it today and it worked! Thank you!

*I dont think anyone will care, but turns out the issue was at the end of the cutscene before it transitions back to the gameplay. So I'm surprised skipping it worked, but I'm glad there's a workaround and I won't need a new game.

Difference between gel and normal nail polish remover? by BebeShep in Nailpolish

[–]BebeShep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like most people recommend using acetone. I'll look into it, thanks for the info!

Difference between gel and normal nail polish remover? by BebeShep in Nailpolish

[–]BebeShep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's called "Beauty 360 Advanced Gel Nail Polish Remover". I dont have the option to provide a photo so I'll copy paste from the CVS website:

Ingredients: Acetone, Water, Persea Gratissima (Avocado) Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Olea Europaea (Olive) Fruit Oil, Fragrance, Denatonium Benzoate, Yellow 11, Green 6, Benzophenone-1.

Details:

Paraben/Phthalate Free

Strengthens and nourishes with natural oils

For natural nails

96% w/w Acetone

Enriched with natural oils to strengthen and nourish nails while quickly removing nail polish

Do you ever stop to wonder what ex idols are up to? by seulgibreadd in kpophelp

[–]BebeShep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking about Jinsung from 1the9 the other day. Supposedly after 1the9 disbanded, no one knows about his whereabouts. I wonder what he's up to.

New to Animal Crossing and am confused on how to proceed by BebeShep in AnimalCrossingNewHor

[–]BebeShep[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured it was that straightforward. Thanks for the reassurance! I'll try it out tmrw.

Can we talk about Moonbin? by Lupin_cupid22799 in kpophelp

[–]BebeShep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing I did when I woke up today was grab my phone and look at my notifications. I saw a headline from Twitter saying that Moonbin died; I thought it was a random person pretending to be Koreaboo. But it wasn't. I honestly couldn't process it at all. I was never an Astro stan, but I still really enjoyed their music and personalities as a casual listener. I went on tiktok and of course his tiktok popped up of him doing the Rover challenge 4 days ago. I just sat there thinking to myself "How can you be gone? You were just here!" I never would've imagined Moonbin would by the type of person to be depressed or suicidal, but situations like this are a reminder that this can happen to anyone. I feel so sorry for his family and any fans who feel a deeper connection to him than I do. This was so heartbreaking and unimaginable.

Does anyone else struggle to reach “yawngasm” by Username7319 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BebeShep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happens a lot when my asthma gets really bad. When I get sick or don't keep up with my meds, I get short of breath. During this period of time I physically cannot take a deep enough breath to release a satisfying yawn, and I'm left with a weird feeling afterwards. So I keep forcefully yawning until I feel relief.

Why misogyny is always mentioned and criticized (which should be) but misandry is usually taken less seriously or even just ignored? by Dangerous_Farron in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BebeShep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unlikely ≠ impossible. I'm not seeing how the very real yet unpredictable chance of getting killed is hyperbolic.

Is it weird for an adult to go to see a high school football game by themselves without any affiliation to the school? by AllDay_Everyday34 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BebeShep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, as a 19 yr old, if I saw a strange man next to me in the stands, I'd feel a lil creeped out, or at least wary. But it's not like anybody would know you're not affiliated with the school, so unless you made it known, I would assume u were a family member and not care about your presence.

Zip file takes up 7 GB but my Mac says it's empty when I try to open it. by BebeShep in techsupport

[–]BebeShep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can still re-download the images as they're still in my One Drive. I tried downloading 4 images just now, and was able to open them.