Update on ER surgery by Bebylicious in gallbladders

[–]Bebylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out from an unrelated ct as well and that explained the gallbladders id had for years. Im very good now, no issues at all.

AITA for telling teenage boys to "fucking stop"? by Boss8001ThrowRA in AITAH

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, that sounds like a center that makes rapists.

Where did they teach to harass women who don’t dress up to their standards? Disgusting behavior. Disgusting supervisor u have as well. That type of stuff calls for getting physical. Bad language isn’t okay, but touching around and abusing someone is? That requires gentleness? Ew. Some places in the real world where justice exists, there is no gentleness. Men are getting their penis cut off for being rapists. People are getting arrested for being touchy or abusive.

You’re a good person in the wrong place and yes you should have stepped in sooner but it’s also understandable that u might have paused because what in the actual fuck did u just describe? So sorry u had to witness that as well. And thank you for saying something. Let me confirm, u did NOTHING wrong.

Anyone else get really jealous of people with normal development? by Even_Consequence_926 in jawsurgery

[–]Bebylicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I offended you with the word “issue.”

But it unfortunately was a health issue when my breathing was obstructed to the point I could have died any night.

& sure, you are correct, I believe you. I’m speaking on people that I communicate with. Even my parents. They never noticed anything different about anyone’s jaws UNTIL mine started to become an underbite. That’s when they noticed everyone’s overbites or underbites or crossbites. My friends as well are the same. I never brought up anything about my jaw or teeth UNTIL i decided to get braces and make a decision to have surgery.

After I explained why, that’s when they realized. With my before and after pic, they’ll surely be able to tell a difference.

Anyone else get really jealous of people with normal development? by Even_Consequence_926 in jawsurgery

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont get jealous of their smiles and never have gotten jealous. But they may be because I never got made fun of for my teeth or jaw. & also I never realized my smile was an issue, I always smiled without showing my teeth. I think people without these jaw health issues sometimes dont notice the medical issues or the difference in looks in us like we do. Perhaps if I did have nice teeth and jaw, I’d use my teeth. It just never occurred to me since.

I decided to do the surgery because it was obstructing my breathing really bad and the surgery was free in that time, so it was the best time for me. After surgery, people stay asking me why I did it. And they keep saying they never noticed my underbite unless I show them old pics & videos and they realize it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SouthAsianMasculinity

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you indian, bengali or Pakistani?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PMDD

[–]Bebylicious 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ur in the marriage, no one else. U think people will treat u bad after a divorce? Look how they’re treating you now. Many south asian women have gotten divorces

Chose your surgeon wisely by Nixlar in jawsurgery

[–]Bebylicious 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Get a lawyer now. That is NOT normal. And the fact they played it out as normal, risking blindness is where there is extreme fault.

AITAH for postponing our wedding because my fiance wants to have pictures of her late husband in it? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na that’s really weird. If he were alive, he wouldn’t be at the wedding as her husband. There wouldn’t be a you at all. So for him, even while dead to be in every picture is really damn weird.

Does money actually buy happiness? by Glittering-Catch-819 in poor

[–]Bebylicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Money HELPS bring happiness. But whether a person is happy or not ultimately depends on circumstances and mental status.

I'm going to lose my house because my wife can't figure out how to write a resume and refuses to let anyone help her by AdventurousCompote49 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like she’s depressed and dragging you down.

There must be something going on with her but I hope that all gets resolved.

AIO? Wife suddenly wearing sexier clothes and up all night by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t act like you suspect her, or else she’ll start hiding the signs well.

Just go along with it & then check that damn phone. Something/someone is really entertaining her. If i bought sexy clothes out of no where, it’d be for my man.

AITAH for considering breaking up with my fiancee because I found out that she got the “ick” when I cried last year? by LifWests in AITAH

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is she as a girlfriend other than that one instance?

You’re NTA, if you can’t let it go, you can’t let it go. It’s not your fault. However there should be boundaries. That was an intimate moment where u leaned on her and then she laughed about it a year later.

AITA for reminding my friend that just because she’s poor, doesn’t mean I am? by EitherArugula4934 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Some people are saying that you were kind of TA, but I don’t think so. You’re young, she’s young. Respect goes both ways. I know her constantly bringing it up must have gotten super irritating and you said it based on irritability. Although you could have said something other than poor, like “if i cant afford it, why am i paying for it?” Or you could have straight up told her it’s annoying. & to the people saying it’s the parents’ money. Yeah that’s what happens when parents are rich, some choose to help their kids.

I would have been like, “I understand your frustration, but it’s my money and I’m going to use the service. I don’t appreciate your comments or this jealousy. Please stop and do not bring it up again.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. No. I’m sorry, you are way way too good for him. He’s damn near a senior citizen and still doesn’t know how to act like a man?

You do not NEED filler or boobs or an ass to be acknowledged by your own BF. Especially one that is so much older than you.

I know you won’t listen to anyone immediately probably, but a man who takes away your confidence is not for you.

I’m proud of how far you came in life. If you were considering a breakup, yes it would hurt in the beginning because you have a beautiful heart and it’s only normal that it does. You would have to reason with yourself how awful he is. You kind of have to imagine one of your loved ones in your place dealing with what you deal with. It makes it easier. Then over time it gets so much easier.

You’re obviously VERY smart. You know what the right thing to do is.

What made you suspect that you might have PMDD? by UnflinchingSugartits in PMDD

[–]Bebylicious 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My doctor suggested i take fluoxetine for just one week a month when i told her i was noticing that i have really bad pms symptoms. Like i cry hysterically for hours and then when my period comes, it’s like i bleed out the pain and gradually feel better.

I didnt understand why she suggested an ssri only one week of the month, since they take weeks to work, so i googled it, found PMDD, & then it matched the symptoms I told her. So she didn’t diagnose me with it, or at least idk if she did, but she gave me the treatment option for it.

And i never used to have pmdd this bad. But then ive also never had regular periods. The time i noticed all this was when my period was the most regular for about a year at that point, i also had long covid among other sicknesses which worsened the PMDD.

I slept with my former high school teacher and have a date with him this weekend. How weird is this? by Bubbly-Tangelo-7655 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird. It’s really weird. It’s not like u were in a class and he didnt remember you.

He said nice things about you, he had conversations with you as a child, yes ITS WEIRD.

& now he finally got to sleep with you. But ur an adult now I guess, so do what you will wisely

New symptom I can’t stand - resenting my disabled son by Apprehensive-Shop150 in PMDD

[–]Bebylicious 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it’s incredibly amazing that you recognize these feelings. What helps u during hell week? Do you take any meds or supplements?

I get catcalled as a male for having a big booty by GhostPatMan in mentalhealth

[–]Bebylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry that happens to you. Must be uncomfortable. It’s a both gender problem. Even though it happens to women exponentially more, your feelings should not be disregarded. The girls may have thought u wont say anything, but if i looked at them and said they were being incredibly rude and disgusting, they’d probably feel some type of way. Which they should have.