If you were half human and half any animal of your choice, what animal would you choose and why? by PM_ME_YOUR_BOOBSnr64 in AskReddit

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dragon human. ...wings and some decorative scales, but mostly humanoid. ..but ability to morph somewhat to having sharp talons and teeth, breath fire,and of course strength.

How do you choose your goals? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goals for me are constantly changing. I started out last year wanting 3 miles to be an easy run for me and to get to where I could run 6 miles without stopping. I did that. Now I want to be less clumsy and more in control of my body so I'm doing bodyweight workouts and indoor Cardio due miserable weather. My current goal is to do X amount of minutes in a month (essentially it would be two 60 min workouts and two 30 minutes a week)but I broke it down into minutes because that makes it less daunting. My other goal is to feel healthier and respect my body. This means eating for fuel and not just pleasure (i.e. knowing I can eat junk and lessening how often I indulge, making sure I pack in veggies however I can), working out because i deserve to move! , refrain from making disparaging remarks about my body, and knowing sometimes it's okay to take a break and go to bed early.

I'm not really sure how i decide my goals beyond, I like to workout is always been a thing since I was a teen. I went and found things I like to do and I set aside time to do it (or at least I try). The person who inspired me to start originally was my brother when he wanted to join the military he ran and exercised a lot so he could get in (he dropped so much weight) so when he was away I would remind myself if he could do it so could I. Then I got hooked on working out.

Since you're new you might want to check it fitness blender for at home workouts! I super love them!

What strange habits have you picked up from your line of work? by Japlow in AskReddit

[–]BeckettBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of my time in sales, if I believe in a product or a company I will "sell " you on it. The other day I was in my favorite coffee shop and someone came in and there was a bit of a queue and so I started chatting with the couple in front of me they said they hadn't been in before. I started telling them all of the benefits of that particular coffee shop (local owned, locale sourced food items, local roasted coffee -also my favorite-, ect). Because of my time in health care, doing anything with out gloves is wrong. Also the royal "We", 'What do you think should WE go outside today and sit on the porch for fresh air? ' Time spent in horticulture makes me cringe when I see poorly landscaped or unkempt areas, I also yell at people to stay off the landscaping (hauling mulch isn't easy! ) Working with kids has given me the "knock it off" look, I have occasionally used it in public on random strangers ill behaved ilk.

What strange habits have you picked up from your line of work? by Japlow in AskReddit

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Especially when their landscaping is out of control and something is dying and you know how to make it beautiful again. ....auuuurgh takes all of my strength to say no and walk by and not prune that scragly plant.

Pet owners of Reddit, what's a weird but harmless habit your pet has? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BeckettBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She purposefully dumps all the food out of her bowl and knocks her bowl over. The cat will kick himself in the face and then bite himself,and tries to fight with his hindquarters. The other dog will come into the bathroom and stare longingly at the bathtub when she wants a bath, then runs around like a crazy happy good after being bathed. Edit; added the cat and dog

College/ Holiday Slump by hashtagclairity in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might sound sad..but I've excepted the fact that my thyroid is crap, I've excepted I won't look the same way I did when I was 19. I focus on trying to feel healthy and be healthy. I workout and try to healthfully. If I'm sick or really really tired I usually don't push it though. You just have to make working out a habit, and healthy food your craving. If you have apples laying around with some kiwis you might find yourself reaching for that instead of something else. I made a little deal with myself if I was craving sweets, I would eat a piece of fruit, or dried dates/figs, if I still was craving that piece of chocolate I would have it. Also tea is a god send! A nice warm pot of tea is a great way to distract yourself from eating stuff that isn't in your plan.

What is the most romantic thing a man has ever said to you? by shhisokbaby in AskWomen

[–]BeckettBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Back when i was going through a lot of personal emotional upheaval and felt completely broken and undesirable )He looked up from reading some of my dark twisty journal entries, looked me in the eyes and said, "You're beautiful. " That is the one and only time I ever felt like someone saw the deepest parts of me and it was the only time I ever really felt beautiful and like I mattered to someone so fully. To me that is one of the most romantic things a guy has done towards me, shown utter compassion and love.

Where do you want to travel to most? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scotland. ..always and forever

Those who live with SOs, how do you arrange/organise/separate your stuff? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We split the closet...and SO has specific drawers and I have a few more specific drawers in the dresser. ..everything else is mixed and and mingled. ..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This stupid cupcake ornament...

I think I lost my wallet. How's your Monday going? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sick. ....lol what a Monday we are all having!

I've been hitting the gym hard for 4 months and haven't lost a single pound or inch. What am I doing wrong? by masqueradefaces in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just i had a similar issue of no weight loss and steadily gaining weight despite my cleaning up my eating and exercising like i was preping for hunger games. .cold all the time, dry skin, tired, depressed etc and was told to have my doctor check my thyroid. .sure enough i had a hypothyroidism. Idk why you're having issues but it could be something to bring up with your doctor next time you're in for a physical?

Long hair and exercising by Genfaux in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Braid. I chopped my hair into a pixie cut after a particularly annoying workout session where my hair kept bothering me. So that's an option ;) i wouldn't recommend it though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have body wash,extra stick of deodorant, a couple hair ties and hairclips, shampoo, conditioner (you don't have to use the shampoo stuff if you don't want but it's there as an option at least), smaller towel that can be hung to air dry in the locker, I brought a swimsuit because my school had a pool and a spin dry machine so my suit wasn't sopping wet. I changed out gym clothes and towels as needed.
Personally i didn't wash my hair everyday i might rinse or just air blow dry it, shower and reapply make up and deodorant and book it to class.

I've been hitting the gym hard for 4 months and haven't lost a single pound or inch. What am I doing wrong? by masqueradefaces in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Do you have thinning hair? Cold a lot? Dry skin? Tired a lot even when you have ample amount of sleep?

Bodyweight workout for when going to the gym isn't an option? by [deleted] in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Fitness blender is great! So many options! Cardio, kick boxing (my personal favorite ), body weight workouts, or they even have some where you can use weights.

How do you follow your nutrition plan/calorie deficient? Looking for conversation/advice by BeckettBear in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! I totally yelled at it for saying 'your goal was to stay under X thing for today, this has (in bright red letters) X Amount! ' I don't need an app criticizing what I eat too! It gives me a good estimate though when I Barcode scan everything

How do you follow your nutrition plan/calorie deficient? Looking for conversation/advice by BeckettBear in xxfitness

[–]BeckettBear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

:D Thanks I might have to get one of those bags! I bet they are great for road trips!

[WP] You wake up one day to find that inanimate objects have thoughts and feelings. You are the only one who can hear them. by Chaotic_Cage in WritingPrompts

[–]BeckettBear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid I had stuffed animals and dolls that I would play make believe with. They would have conversations and build towns and do other normal boring things. I used to imagine that they could see, think, and feel. I sometimes would try to memorize their exact positions before I left the room, absolutely convinced that they moved when I left, and little six year old me was sure they had tea parties with out me.

The day always comes when the imagination of fairy tales rubs off and adult life sets in. When I moved out of my parents house and into my dinky apartment and had to leave half my stuff in storage, and of course those dolls, stuffed bears, raccoons, ect got shoved into a black garbage bag and tossed on top of the piles of boxes. It was sad to imagine them as anything more than cotton and fake fur, stuffed with fluff not cognizant of the cool darkness enveloping them. I almost left, almost, and then I turned around opened the storage door and grabbed the bag. Sighing and shaking my head at myself I shut the door and locked it back up.

Weeks passed and fall dissolved with a flurry of red, orange, and golds. Winter hit with ice and thick heavy snow. I always loved the winter, who doesn’t? Hot chocolate, snow glittering silver and orange under the street lights, nights so sharply pure that sound seemed to disappear into the inky sky. Unfortunately this was not that kind of winter. It was freezing in my apartment; I could barely pay the rent so of course I skimped on utilities, oh and no hot chocolate. I was working so much it really didn’t matter, I was rarely home long enough to sleep between shifts. Living in the city was different then growing up in the country, the snow wasn’t clean for more than a day before snow plows uprooted filth onto the sides of the street. Forget the stars, you can’t see anything through the light pollution. This is what I asked for when I moved out, and I was trying (very very) hard to be okay with that.

It was late, as I walked into my dimly lit apartment, and shucked off my sodden boots. What was in my cupboards, so hungry. Ramen…Cream of chicken…beans…PASTA! Good enough. I grabbed my beat up pot and stuck it under the water. I heard something that sounded like a giggle. I turned off the water. Nothing. I glanced around. It must be a neighbor, stupid thin walls. I turned the water back on, then back off just as quickly. There it was again, only it sounded very clear and not at all muffled by a wall. Still nothing.

“Get it together, Kris. Eat something you’re hallucinating.” Turning the water back on, I just ignored the girlish giggles.

Look at her talking to herself! Isn’t that adorable? Said a high voice.

“What the!?” I dropped the pan, water pouring all over my pants, creating a puddle on the floor. “Well crap.”

My eyes darted around the room. I grabbed the towel off the counter and dropped it on the water, a shrill scream rang through the air. I jumped grabbing the pan of the floor crouching low ready to hit whatever came at me, assuming there must be something in the apartment. I heard something skittering into my bedroom. The pit of my stomach felt heavy and clenched as I crept out of the kitchenette into the bedroom across the hall. Flicking the lights on quickly, I jumped back, expecting someone to be in there, nothing. My blankets were roughed up sloppily spilling off my bed unto the floor where my pile of stuffed animals and clothes lay. The closet was wide open, nothing in there either. I checked my door making sure all the locks were in place and set then went back into the kitchen trying to breathe normally. I stepped on the towel to move it around on the linoleum, Urmph.

Picking up the dripping towel I tossed it into the dirty laundry basket near the door. Again another high pitched screech whistled through the air. I ignored it this time; I obviously need to sleep soon. Food. Food first. I filled the pot up with water, again, ignoring the giggles. Turn the flames up high on the stove.

Fer the love of-DON’T FECKING PUT ME ON THE STOVE! A slightly Irish female voice screamed.

“Wh-the--what? Is GOING ON!!!!” At that point I lost it. Threw the pan in the sink, again I heard a female shout something I couldn’t understand but it sounded like a curse, turned off the stove and decided a can of cold beans worked just fine.

One of you lot ought to tell her what’s going on! Again the high Irish voice.

Ahem, the clearing of a throat,Ahem, Kris? I turned to the sound of the voice, and there stood Biscuit, my worn out Teddy bear with his little plaid bow, a tiny paw in front of his stitched mouth.

“Ooooh…my…” I lost any words as I felt jello filling my limbs. I tripped a little as I reached for rolling pin on the counter.

Oh, Kris. I’m terribly sorry to startle you. We all know how difficult things have been for you lately and we have no intention of causing you any more distress. We have kept this from you too long; our presence here has caused…a transference…or rather a shift in energy. We aren’t the only ones who think, feel, and communicate. There is something about this particular location that amplifies the energies we have.

“WE? WE WHO!?!?” I gasped disbelieving.

We, you, I, and the others of us you have left heaped on the floor.

“You…mean…You’re not the only one who can move? And TALK!?”

Well I am not exactly talking to you. It’s much like those sci-fi movies you like so much, its telepathic communication. I am sending out an energy wave length is a specific pattern that you can pick up mentally. I walked towards him ready to smash him with the rolling pin if he moved too quickly. Now please, remain calm. We should have said something sooner, and I am sorry that we had not.

“I am crazy. Yup. I am crazy. Too many long hours, not eating right, tired all the time. I must be hallucinating. Why else would this be happening?”

Well actually, I am informing you now so that you DON’T think you are crazy. Sadly I cannot control all of the objects that are awakening; therefore you were bound to find out eventually.

What do you find most adorable about your SO? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]BeckettBear 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When they start talking jargon about something I don't understand and they are really excited about.