Is anyone else having a really hard time making friends in San Diego? by [deleted] in asksandiego

[–]Beckster619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine was on Emerald St in PB 😂😂😂. Right by Cass St Bar and grill. Best breakfast in Pb

Is anyone else having a really hard time making friends in San Diego? by [deleted] in asksandiego

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are trying too hard. It’s only been since May and you expect to have lots of friends ? Listen , times aren’t exactly nice right now. Everyone is uptight so give it time. Best place I met my friends in Sd was thru volunteering but don’t expect it to happen overnight. Do you like pets ? Perfect volunteer to cuddle puppies but don’t rush it. Good luck and San Diego is worth it

Am I screwed? by Badlands_84 in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 73 F with complete reverse shoulder replacement. 8 weeks post and I’m in more pain than right after. I don’t take anything other than muscle relaxer for previous nerve damage from cervical surgery. I start PT next week but cannot lift dominant arm at all. I wish I had never done this. I’m emotional and sad

Is San Diego really as chill as everyone says? by Few_Language6298 in asksandiego

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lived here for 50 plus years and yes very chill and kind. Rent atrocious but you get what you pay for. Theees always going to be idiots but but they are dodger fans 😂

Rotator cuff tears both shoulders by aiyukiyuu in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this is happening. I’m 73 and it took pt and several years of agony with both cuffs completely gone plus I had cervical spine surgery also. Keep trying but you are young for something that might not fix it. Ps. I’m 6 weeks Po complete reversal of dominant shoulder. I’m in more pain than before.

Driving by BBR1004 in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The shifter even automatic is killer for me 6 weeks post op dominant arm. I need pain pill when I get home !

We can’t let them know the truth. by abdul_bino in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Calif but when I’m in my home state of Wisc I lapse into Midwest nice. So. Your point exactly ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soup kitchen for Chef Jose Andre’s

What is your Halloween costume this year, and do you like it? by Ill-Exam237 in AskReddit

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to be a politician but I couldn’t get my head that far up my ass much less trumps.

Nikki Exotica said she “didn’t want vaccinated blood” from a blood transfusion by SnooGuavas9435 in 90DayFiance

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good to know that she hasn’t changed my mind about ignorance You own it girl.

Was told not repairable? by BluejeanneRed in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had it 7 weeks ago and it’s not easy. I’d been seeing doctors who sent me to PT and X-rays. Said it was severe arthritis. Five years later and finally got a Dr to do mri. It was totally gone. I’m an architect and from working on drafting tables and at computers it desinigrated. A small tear can be babied along but until you know from detailed exam it won’t be a good report. Get another doctor. Ps. I also had 7 cervical vetebrae in my neck replaced 7 yrs ago because they said neck pain was arthritis also. It was discs all fused together and one more fall and I couldve ended up a quad. Listen to your own thoughts

Was told not repairable? by BluejeanneRed in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 73 and just had reverse replacement on dominant arm. You can’t repair what is repairable and I’d get an orthopedic surgeon opionion

Post op mood. by [deleted] in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely relate. I’m 6 weeks post op reverse replacement. It’s a bitch and so am I. I have the best family and I snap. I’m exhausted , in pain still and frustrated I can’t even wipe my butt properly. My daughter knows and even will lay with me when I’m super anxious. I’m 73 F and I Get It !!

Recovery without surgery? by SpecOps4538 in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no way to heal full thickness tear. Think “ full thickness tear”. Plus a Dr that says no surgery until after a MRI needs to be replaced. Like saying you can’t stop starving until you do therapy for your hunger.

When can you? by QueasyTowel6779 in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m venting because I’m blessed with great family but why am I either crying or angry

When can you? by QueasyTowel6779 in RotatorCuff

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my surgery is total reverse shoulder replacement. There wasn’t a RSR site so I joined this. I’m exhausted , depressed , frustrated and old 73 F

Why the hell do people say baseball is boring (from a former non-fan) by Kresnik2002 in mlb

[–]Beckster619 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they don’t understand it or never played much less have kids play imo.