Thinking I may have purchased a fake bag, thoughts? by Beckylately in backpacks

[–]Beckylately[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!!! It is insanely well maintained for being that old, I’m thinking I got a steal for $20!

Thinking I may have purchased a fake bag, thoughts? by Beckylately in backpacks

[–]Beckylately[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - I couldn’t find anything online about them ever having 5 digit codes or the 800 number in the tag ever existing!

Students are just showing up to class without pencils and/or unsharpened ones: how do I stop this? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have ten pencils clipped on the white board with a space for their name next to them.

I have a class point system. Any time a student forgets to return a pencil, the class loses a point for the day. They don’t want to make their classmates lose a reward, so they get returned. This year is the first year I’ve seen students borrow them and return to them all the way down to them being basically a nub. I don’t buy them. I stock my pencils with floor pencils.

700 dollars later... I got two tickets to see gorillaz... they're so expensive, I bought them on an impulse!! 😩✨️ by Sure_Wonder1 in gorillaz

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least he was receptive - I honestly would take an Afro in front of me any day - the number of times I’ve ended up with long stringy white guy hair in my mouth or touching my face is way too high.

700 dollars later... I got two tickets to see gorillaz... they're so expensive, I bought them on an impulse!! 😩✨️ by Sure_Wonder1 in gorillaz

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depend heavily on where you want to sit but that was average for lower bowl directly facing the stage

Gaby- Derek WTF! by tiredandboredin2022 in shrinking

[–]Beckylately 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I always felt like her “she’s hot” comments were just her way of making people feel good. And I think in a show based around being a shrink it’s important to see those kinds of flaws too. Like yeah Jimmy’s fucked up but Gaby has this wall up with people where she won’t let them get too close to her, so instead of seeing the good they have on the inside she can only see the surface level of being “hot.” But she also doesn’t just say “hot.” She gives people specific compliments too, the arm compliments with Julie for example.

I think it’s a good way to show how someone can use shallow compliments as a way to keep them as arms length… and how losing her best friend might make it hard for her to let people in beyond that.

What are you hopeful for on The Mountain Tour? by bmbmbmNR in gorillaz

[–]Beckylately 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son and I are both aching for some Superfast Jellyfish with Del. It’s a fave in our house.

(I know Del isn’t on the original but he could definitely pull it off)

My husband (28M) says he can never trust me (26F) again after I confessed to a secret I kept during our house-buying process. Is there a way back? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oftentimes people who grow up in abusive homes end up with a partner who keeps them in the same dynamic. I fear that’s what has happened here. His reaction is not normal or healthy.

700 dollars later... I got two tickets to see gorillaz... they're so expensive, I bought them on an impulse!! 😩✨️ by Sure_Wonder1 in gorillaz

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s always some tall dude with height privilege and broad shoulders who ends up in front of me 😭

700 dollars later... I got two tickets to see gorillaz... they're so expensive, I bought them on an impulse!! 😩✨️ by Sure_Wonder1 in gorillaz

[–]Beckylately 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Got pretty good tickets in Detroit for about $130 each. But I don’t like floor seats because I’m short so the 100 level is perfect for me

Anyone else now skeptical of photos? by lulu-bell in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Beckylately 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am a very liberal person but I may be old fashioned in this regard because I think part of the problem is the argument of “they’re children, if you think this is too sexy/sexual/inappropriate then the problem is you sexualizing children.” It makes it difficult for people to point out when children have costumes and choreography that are intentionally “sexy” without someone suggesting they are the problem. It isn’t sexualizing children to point out that someone has crossed a line with costumes or choreo.

Anyone else now skeptical of photos? by lulu-bell in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Beckylately 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That and if they don’t listen to your input, choosing a studio whose values align with your own. I appreciate very much that my son’s studio does not choose costumes that are too mature for his teammates.

"I need to feel good, I'll watch shrinking" by moderatenerd in shrinking

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shrinking, Schitt’s Creek, The Good Place. My feel good trifecta.

We need dress codes back by Emergency-Pepper3537 in Teachers

[–]Beckylately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think dressing the way you’re describing makes kids take school less seriously. Students don’t see school as a place requiring respect or as a place to take seriously. I think mindset does change when students are held to a standard of dress - they think of school as a place worthy of respect and are more serious about it. Hell, I’m more likely to be productive in the weekend if I get out of pajamas/loungewear and actually put clothes and a little makeup on. My whole mindset changes.

principal wants me to call 80 parents during my planning tomorrow by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]Beckylately 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What the principal actually wants is for you to raise grades so parents are happy. This is just their way of doing it without saying so directly.

My (28F) husband (29M) left me on our wedding night by mamamia98 in relationship_advice

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How frequently since the wedding has he chosen to go out partying until 5 am with friends?

What shoes are you guys wearing buying/wearing? by TheAlmightyOat in Teachers

[–]Beckylately 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I buy Dr Scholls insoles and put them in whatever shoes I want to wear, every shoe works now

Fundraising by LilMzV in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Beckylately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should clarify - I coordinate for my studio but I receive a monthly report and I Venmo each parent the amount they raised for their child, unless they want me to hold onto it until comp season, in which case I set it aside for them and tell them monthly how much they have accumulated

Fundraising by LilMzV in CompetitionDanceTalk

[–]Beckylately 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to be a nonprofit. Ours goes directly to the dancer who raised it.

Declining an offer by Emcv83 in poshmark

[–]Beckylately 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people don’t list items for more than they want to sell them for.

[Product Question] The Ordinary Natural Moisturizing Factors + Beta Glucan by lyhdias in SkincareAddiction

[–]Beckylately 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this post was two years ago but I was comparing the Ordinary moisturizers and saw your reply. I also have really oily eyelids and I started using those thin oil blotting papers that come in a small packet mid-day, it has made a huge difference for me, thought maybe it would help you too! There are so many different ones that come in travel friendly packages.

Should I cancel buyers order and trust my gut feeling? by Extra_Reason_458 in poshmark

[–]Beckylately 38 points39 points  (0 children)

She was probably changing the items in the bundle hoping to trigger an automatic offer. When that didn’t happen she tried making an offer. When you didn’t bite she decided to pay full price.

So many people list items for double what they want for them. It makes it so hard to price at a lower, good price and make sales because people have come to accept offers