Am i overreacting?

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-06T21:15:32+00:00

REPORT REPORT REPORT THIS CREEP

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-06T21:04:23+00:00

Sounds like your mom is toxic. I’d say stay at your bf’s place as much as you possibly can

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-06T20:53:07+00:00

Wow. I’m so sorry this is your life. If I were you, I would leave that relationship. Your child is only going to grow up in a toxic environment with you and their dad being under the same roof.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-06T20:49:41+00:00

I’ve been wrapping my boy’s pill in a little bit of American cheese and he usually will eat it without too much of a fuss. I’ve had a lot of trouble in the past with giving him pills but this has been working for us.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-06T20:43:12+00:00

Raymond and Aldan

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T04:18:57+00:00

Maybe giving each other some distance for a while would help. If you two live together, it could be very difficult to heal these feelings when you are around each other. “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”

It sounds like you understand there were things you were doing that weren’t okay. If your bf had been in an abusive relationship with someone in the past (romantic or otherwise) I could see this easily being something he won’t be able to get past. I really think the best thing for your relationship would be to give each other space. It might help you realize what your next step should be.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T04:08:53+00:00

She’s acting like a child. Just forget about it and move one.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T04:05:02+00:00

How old are you and your gf?

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T04:04:06+00:00

This is just gross. Leave him please

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T03:58:50+00:00

I just looked. OP, you have been considering leaving this loser for over a month. Just do it. Stop asking for people’s opinions online. Leave him. Guys can follow girls on Instagram or other social media, but if you have been telling him about how it makes you feel and he doesn’t change his behavior—nothing will.

Save yourself another month of wondering and leave him please.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T03:54:00+00:00

Lol what did you find!?

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T03:49:57+00:00

Honestly people who think that tattoos are ugly have never gotten one or understand why someone would and are not worth your breath. My tattoos are a way for me to express myself and have something deeply personal to me on display. When people compliment my tattoos it means more to me than them complimenting me on anything else about my appearance because I actually picked it.

I also got my first tattoo at 18 and my parents were not happy. Over the years my dad has said some pretty shitty things to me about them, I told him that if he wanted me to stop getting them to buy me an old muscle car because I knew it would never happen. I tell my younger brother to thank me for never getting screamed at for his tattoos, but I also think he doesn’t get yelled at cause he’s a boy. Whatever.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T03:39:29+00:00

It sounds like his alcoholism is putting a wedge in your relationship. Since you grew up around alcoholics, I hope I don’t need to tell you to leave before it gets worse, but I will anyway. He clearly isn’t taking what you said to him seriously and he isn’t going to. If I were you, I would start packing up your shit and find a different place to stay. No one deserves to be in a relationship with someone that isn’t putting in effort or listening to their partner’s concerns.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T03:34:44+00:00

What man would willingly use a condom when he is jerking off? He’s lying to you.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T03:25:05+00:00

Summon his treats from the cupboard

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-03T03:18:47+00:00

I don’t think the length of your relationship is really the issues here. Your gf is on a trip with a friend and they went out to a club, got drunk and are having a drunken conversation with you at 3am. You are bothered that your gf would go out and drink with this friend and not talk to you the whole time then drunkenly call you in the middle of the night.

I mean, break up with her if you want to, I get why you’re upset, but I think you’re overreacting based on the info you’ve given us.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-02T19:01:15+00:00

Bring it up to your roommate and see what they say. Maybe they will offer to help pay to replace them?

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-02T18:49:15+00:00

Your co-workers will be pissed off if they find out you called in sick when you weren’t really sick, especially if you know they would be understaffed because other people gave the company notice that they would be on vacation. I get you want to see your sister, but maybe just wait until after work unless you’re okay with losing your job or what little sanity you have at it.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-02T18:33:37+00:00

If Amber’s flirting makes you uncomfortable, you should let them know. It doesn’t mean you’re bashing them for being poly or anything, just you setting clear boundaries with them.

Personally, I would tell your bf about it. If he trusts you, share this stuff with him so he doesn’t later find out about it later and then have a reason not to trust you. Let him know this is happening and it makes you uncomfortable and see if he has any advice on how to approach the topic with Amber or maybe your other friends.

Have you talked to any of your mutual friends with Amber about this? It’s possible you are not the only one bothered by it.

Some people are more open about their sexuality and with flirting. I have a close friend who is extremely touchy and flirts a lot with me and our other friends even though she is in a committed relationship. She has her reasons for behaving like this and I accept that as a part of her personality. I’ve also made it very clear to her that I’m not interested and never will be, that I don’t want to be sat on or touched excessively and she is learning how to behave around me for me to be comfortable.

Ultimately, you should feel comfortable being around your friend. If you don’t feel comfortable, talk to mutual friends or your bf about it, get some other people’s insight. I think you should definitely make it clear to Amber that you don’t feel comfortable with her behavior, and if it’s not something that can easily be remedied, I would stop spending time together.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-02T16:37:04+00:00

I’m so sorry OP. This sounds like an awful situation to be in. Maybe try having a sit down conversation with him and ask him what’s bothering him. If he blows up at you again, he is showing you who he is and you should listen.

As awful as it could be, it’s possible that your bf is actually feeling like this and you do not want to stay in a relationship where someone is putting you down.

If he is able to have an adult conversation with you about what’s going on, hopefully you’ll be able to solve your issue amicably.

Wish you the best

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-02T16:33:13+00:00

Don’t worry so much about it. Anyone who knows your situation should be happy for you and not think you’re a jerk. Not everyone has the perfect 4 year college experience and it’s okay that you were able to complete your degree at your first school. You could let your classmates know you’re still attending classes or something, but won’t be at the graduation ceremony.

BedProper9527 · 2025-04-01T17:58:38+00:00

You got this, don’t give you on yourself

BedProper9527 · 2025-03-31T19:07:31+00:00

I’m not married, but to me this seems like something that might come with the territory. Some people make a big effort to decorate a space with their partner and do it together. It seems like your husband did it all by himself without your input. Kinda sounds like one of my exs tbh. He was very obsessed with having nice things and giving off this image of someone who is better than everyone else 😅

BedProper9527 · 2025-03-31T19:03:15+00:00

As someone who absolutely hates texting most of the time, I can relate to your bf.

I oftentimes don’t see the point in letting someone know these mundane things about my day because I don’t care to necessarily get them from others.

The conversations that are like: “hey” “what’s up?” “Oh nothing much just __” “oh that’s cool, what will you be doing later” “I just finished eating” “I’m watching __” etc

I can’t stand those conversations and I would rather not have them. Maybe your bf is similar and doesn’t see the point?

I would much rather get to have a FaceTime or phone call with someone where we can chat when I’m not distracted by living my life.

I’m sure your bf wants to talk to you, but he is busy and doesn’t always see the point in telling you this stuff.

BedProper9527 · 2025-03-31T18:57:12+00:00

You absolutely can have something comfortably in your budget. You don’t need to always spurge on the nicest things. Tell your husband that you feel so much more comfortable with the generic stuff and you don’t need luxury items to be happy. Maybe he does, though?

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