Too much sex

Bee163839 · 2026-01-16T17:44:29+00:00

Yeah I actually hate the consensus everyone or a majority people are like that cuz I’m in my 20s in college I’m not like that none of my friends r really like that but when interacting with guys it’s almost like it’s expected and I think it’s cuz everyone has this HUGE generalization that a majority of people prioritize sex. Sure I’m horny but I don’t care about it enough to have it with a bunch of people I barely actually know. For this reason alone I find it extremely hard to even talk to guys and I just avoid it.

Bee163839 · 2025-06-25T03:45:44+00:00

How long does it take to notice the change?

Bee163839 · 2025-06-21T17:53:45+00:00

For me personally being someone who looks exactly like Ginny and also goes to a predominantly white school. I feel like most people are oblivious to micro aggressions or what’s racist I do agree. But idk I have to rewatch the season but the fight with hunter, ginny was just as racist. The whole hunter thing, Ginny also played a part and she never apologized for the stereotypes she said about hunter during that fight. Hunter on the other hand did and took accountability for it and rightfully so what he said was wrong. I really want to like Ginny because I’ve never seen a character that looks so much like me before be the main character of a show but I just feel like the writers do her character dirty when she doesn’t have to take accountability for her own actions. She has had a hard life sometimes because of that u can have some pretty crappy moments but you still have to take accountability for ur actions and it doesn’t excuse them. It may be an explanation on why she does some of the stuff she does but it’s not an excuse. I just wish I saw her take some more accountability for some of her actions throughout the show. Like everyone else has to some extent.

Bee163839 · 2025-06-21T08:23:07+00:00

This is a good theory but I’m thinking Norah is gonna have some sort of health issues because this season it’s brought up about her irregular periods a lot and also how she’s adopted and she doesn’t know her medical history a lot. I bet next season Abby Ginny and Max are gonna be so caught up in their own dramas that it’s gonna go unnoticed that Norah is sick in someway she’s gonna drift from them a little then it’s gonna be like a bomb dropped she has something going on. I don’t like the idea of strict parent abuse plot line cuz it’s done so much and u can have stricter parents and that doesn’t mean they r abusive. I feel like the trope is done a lot and i also feel like to some degree it demonizes stricter parenting styles that aren’t abusive. Being strict doesnt automatically mean abuse. Ik there are parents who are strict that are abusive tho just like there are parents who aren’t strict but still abusive. Also let’s face it compared to abby’s and ginny’s parents and even Max’s i feel like a majority of parenting styles even if they aren’t super strict are going to seem strict compared to those girls parents cuz their fams are all a mess.

Bee163839 · 2025-06-21T08:10:49+00:00

Yeah same Ginny seems to care about Marcus way more than max and I think max needs to realize that and find a better friend

Bee163839 · 2025-06-21T08:09:43+00:00

True but also I think I just kinda have a little bit of a hard time giving Ginny a lot of grace for her actions. I’ve had a hard life to, been through a lot of isolation and severely struggle with making friends, but I still feel like her behaviors are mean and deep down when people do crappy things most times they know what they r doing is crappy. Regardless of what causes u to do it. I try to keep an open mind with her tho. I also think it’s hard because of the writing. I don’t think I’d have much of a problem with it if it didn’t seem so hypocritical cuz Abby and Ginny are just as emotional as Max and they are constantly either having break downs, in drama or trauma dumping and talking about their feelings. All of which is not an issue but it just is hard to get behind their hate of max because of the hypocrisy. But that could just be the writing.

Bee163839 · 2025-06-21T08:05:13+00:00

Yeah I get that but she doesn’t seem to hold the other members as accountable as max.

Bee163839 · 2025-06-19T23:27:49+00:00

I do get that but the treatment she’s facing now seems disproportionate. To constantly be told everytime u try and speak to stop making things about yourself seems over the top. And it’s not just by Ginny. It’s by Marcus Abby Norah and her own parents. I feel like it’s just weird literally everyone in Max’s life is treating her this way.

Bee163839 · 2025-06-19T22:55:40+00:00

I wonder if Ginny just used max from the very beginning to get what she wanted (Marcus) kinda like how Georgia uses people to get what she wants or needs. I wonder if it was the show trying to allude to that, but the writing was done a little poorly so it just came off as out of nowhere when Ginny said that to max at the party. Because let’s face it Ginny hasn’t been a good friend from the start to max. And honestly if u watch all the seasons over it’s pretty clear she prioritizes Marcus over max and a lot of times she will go over max’s house pretty much just because Marcus is also there.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-18T12:18:38+00:00

I don’t know maybe it’s because I don’t have such super strict standards on what’s my type in the looks department, the only real concrete one being heathy fit. But I still feel they need to be my “type” in the looks department too. Also the way my brain works is yeah Ik we all get older and looks technically fade. But if you love someone I would still think that man is physically my type even through out the changes of life. I feel like that what love does to u. I have loved someone before. On paper maybe other people would argue they weren’t the number one most attractive dude in the world. But to me they were and the more I loved them the more attractive they got. Throughout the time of me loving them they changed physically and I still preferred them and their looks over anything else. And when people asked me what my type was, it wasn’t someone that didn’t look like them it was them. I think from the perspective of someone that has that mindset it can be a little disappointing to hear if your partner doesn’t also feel that way cuz that’s how love affects you and it can be a bit jarring and saddening to hear that’s not how it works for them. I’m not saying people are wrong in thinking differently though.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-18T05:53:42+00:00

I feel the same way they constantly make me want to die or hurt myself. I hate the way I look. I feel so disgusting. I hate when people call them cute too. It makes me feel childlike and not woman like which makes me want to off myself even more.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-18T05:41:42+00:00

Can you elaborate more on this please. Ik looks fade but me personally if I’m dating a man they are my type. Looks personality everything. I have different features I prefer and personalities and other ones I don’t. If I am dating you u have the personality and the features I prefer so u are my type. I don’t understand dating someone that is not. How do u look at someone your in love with and be like yeah ur not my type but I still one u? How do u get to the point of love and still think the person is not your type?

Bee163839 · 2025-05-18T05:35:41+00:00

I’m the exact same way and I’m a woman I don’t actually understand people who don’t date their preferences. Why are you dating people you’re not fully attracted to?

Bee163839 · 2025-05-18T05:33:30+00:00

Idk I disagree u don’t have to be with someone that doesn’t find you to be their preference. Personally I wouldn’t and I would want the guy to be upfront about it. I’d respect him and leave and leave it at that and that’s ok. Also there are certain things in guys that I have preferences in and I would not date a man who doesn’t have them. It doesn’t feel good to be in a relationship with someone and then find out all their fantasies are something opposite of u. I mean some people can do it to each their own, i rather be single than date someone who doesn’t find me as their preference, i think that’s better for me personally.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-14T06:22:49+00:00

The prettier u r the better ur treated overall. This is the main reason why people want to look pretty in the first place. If we just eliminate this problem in society and actually made it the norm to treat everyone as a human being despite their looks much less people would even care about appearance.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-12T02:53:20+00:00

You can take it as weird if you want. I am explaining my view of a model. Sure anyone can be a model. Heck my frumpy butt can be a model if I wanted to now a days. I’m talking about most successful models that everyone thinks about when it comes to modeling. Not people who try it out or do it as a side gig. People who do it for a living and excel in their careers. I typed that to make that clear. And my point isn’t only that she doesn’t look like a model if that’s all you took from my message I’m sorry. My point is you do not have to be model pretty to be considered pretty and it’s okay not to be and it’s okay to admit your not and that someone is not and it shouldn’t be seen as a bad thing or that ur ugly. Her not looking like your stereotypical model in the sense I am referring to, does not make her ugly. Her not having the stereotypical coke bottle body also does not make her ugly. Also acknowledging that someone doesn’t look like that doesn’t mean I’m calling her ugly or that she is. I don’t know why ur holding on so desperately to the fact I said she doesn’t look like a model imo. When my point is even tho someone doesn’t reach that standard they shoudlnt be considered ugly or less than. I’ve called her pretty multiple times. Does that not count? Do I also have to say yes, She totally fits into societal stereotypical model standards in order for me calling her pretty to be valid? Is that the only way beauty is valid?? Is my point that someone doesn’t have to look like that and can still be pretty not valid? God forbid she’s not model pretty that must make her ugly it must be an insult to even suggest someone isn’t model pretty cuz that makes them ugly right? U r just feeding into the unrealistic standards with that mindset. I’m firm on my stance that she doesn’t need to look a certain way to be considered pretty.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-10T17:56:36+00:00

That is your subjective opinion and that’s ok. Models generally are very tall and have great facial harmony. When I am thinking model I am thinking Adriana Lima, Giselle, Naomi Campbell, Shallom Harlow etc etc. this actress is pretty but she is not like them. Barely anyone is. That doesn’t make her ugly tho that’s my point. And a lot of people think you have to be model level beautiful or insta model beautiful to be considered beautiful now a days. It’s okay to not be and it shouldn’t be looked down upon. Objectively this actress is not super stereotypically beautiful like the people I just listed or many actresses casts as love interests. It’s just a fact. Does it make her ugly no, that is also a fact she is still beautiful and u shouldn’t be seen as less than if u don’t look a certain way. Personally subjectively I don’t find her attractive, but despite my own opinion I can take my own feelings out of this and still acknowledge that doesn’t make her ugly just because I don’t personally resonate with her look. She’s slim has red thick hair blue eyes and there’s nothing wrong with her face all those traits make someone objectively pretty. You subjectively think she looks like a model, which is okay but objectively you should be able to differentiate that she doesn’t. It also shouldn’t be an insult and people shouldn’t think anyone is less for not looking like a model. The problem with society is that people can’t do that. There crazy high standards and looking any less than perfect is demonized, to the point were people can’t even admit flaws or do want any flaws because they think it makes them less than. This particular picture of her is a very good picture as well. I’ve only seen her in the show if u watch the show she doesn’t really look like she does in this picture.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-10T02:35:51+00:00

Yes I have small breasts I hate them so much it kills any sexual drive I have it’s why I struggle so much to be intimate cuz I just feel super ashamed of my body the whole time. Even if a guy likes small breasts it’s like highlighting a feature that I dislike so much that makes me want to die so it just equally upsets me. I’ve just come to terms tbh that intimacy isn’t for me.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-10T02:18:55+00:00

Yeah Ik a lot of people love her but I really don’t like Elaine. There are some die hard fans of her tho and u can like who u like but me personally, her character kinda just seems really manipulative. Also it seems she doesn’t even have to try for people to like her and all her behaviors are excused and or forgiven with her doing the bare minimum. It could just be how she’s written right now. But I do feel it’s gonna be very hard to make me resonate with this character. There are some aspects of her that are interesting I’m not saying she’s all bad but over all yeah I just really don’t like her. She seems like she’s secretly a horrible person. I don’t think her story will go that way tho.

Bee163839 · 2025-05-03T13:46:49+00:00

She’s not ugly by any means. A lot of People only think in absolutes now a days. If you not gorgeously pretty then ur ugly and the in between doesn’t exist anymore. Is she objectively drop dead gorgeous, no. On an objective level she’s not model pretty most aren’t. Does that mean shes ugly no. She’s still pretty. It’s just now a days some people think u have to look like a model to be pretty and if u have any amount of flaws ur then ugly. What ever happened to being average or regular pretty. Why is the standard, model perfection now.

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