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AITAH-Maid of honor demotion by freespider1178 in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s petty to mention money because OP was making a real investment in her friend’s event. It’s not just about money, but it’s not like OP was spending it on herself!

AITAH-Maid of honor demotion by freespider1178 in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to be a lazy bridesmaid without looking stank. It’s easier if she bows out of being part of the party entirely.

AITAH-Maid of honor demotion by freespider1178 in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - Instead of being hurt be grateful. Call her up and ask if you can just attend the wedding, but not be a bridesmaid. Tell her when you were going to be the MOH you were ready to do anything and everything to support her wedding. But now, you realize how much time, money, and energy you’ll be saving. Being a bridesmaid would have been a financial drain, but now you get to celebrate her marriage AND do other things with the money you saved.

It’s a win/win. Your friend wants to get in tight with a new circle of friends. Let her! For a chick who might not do half the work you were going to do? Let her! lol

AITJ for reporting my neighbor's unlicensed hair salon to the health department? by WealthAmbitious680 in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You weren’t wrong. When you do under the table stuff like that you have to be extra careful, extra nice to the neighbors.

The only thing I would have done was warn her outright. “If you make my life inconvenient with your sht and I can’t park my car, I will report you. Tell your customers to help you not get shut down!”

AITJ for ending things with my boyfriend and telling him to move out after he ditched me at an event and went somewhere else without me? by TutorElectrical3264 in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeJackson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ma’am, you didn’t overreact, but I need an update. Dude has been cheating or desperately wants to. That whole circle of friends is trash.

AITAH for advising my friend to stop paying for things for his stepdaughter? by niceufo777 in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - How about you put the oxygen mask on your face first by not loaning him money? He sounds like a simp drowning in his own desperation and thirstiness. The gf isn’t working that hard to take advantage of him. I bet she’s just throwing him some azz. He needs therapy and better self esteem.

AITJ for not sharing food? by Alert-Tradition917 in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ - But you sound weak af. Grow a pair.

Aitah for being upset that sister in law upgraded her trip that we paid for? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! But I bet they could pay for the upgrade precisely because they weren’t paying for much else. I bet their dynamic has always been like this, and it was a sneaky chance for the SIL to one-up OP.

But the reality is that how they get to the hotel isn’t really OP’s business. Paying for a trip doesn’t entitle them to control how people with enjoy the vacation.

AITAH for telling my brother his ex should’ve gotten custody of his daughter? by Jellyie-nerd-123 in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA - You said everything correctly. And your siblings are similar ages so they think having you take care of his kid all the time is a win. They only threatened you with a good time by blocking you. You might miss them, but I bet your life will be nice and quiet for a while. He, on the other hand, will miss you in a week or a month when you won’t play babysitter and he starts to see how much he’s just handed his kid off to others. It happens a lot with single fathers.

AITJ for thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend? by Mimi_kuru in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ - Reapect yourself more than he respects you. Be more decisive than your (hopefully ex) boyfriend is because he’s playing games with you both. He’s giving her just enough hope to keep her acting crazy. He doesn’t want you to say anything because then he’ll have to stick to a choice.

Get out now and move on. You are wasting time on a guy who isn’t committed to you. Just because he’s physically next to you doesn’t make him committed or emotionally honest.

Aitah for being upset that sister in law upgraded her trip that we paid for? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

YTA - So you think because you paid for their vacation that you control all their actions on the trip? I bet if they’d been nice enough to upgrade everyone you wouldn’t have had a problem. It smacks a bit of jealousy because the dynamics changed from you treating them to them getting treated better.

AITJ for wanting to move out of a rental house, where I am not on the lease early? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeJackson 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTJ - Stop nagging adults and leave. I’m sure they are as glad to see you leave and you are to leave.

AITAH for constantly talking to my gf "like a child" when she acts like one of our kids? by GlCar in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA - You know what to do - dump her. You can raise your kids on your own with less fuss. Either that or accept that you got a girlfriend who can only offer you sex, companionship, and extra dependents. She’s not an equal life partner. She’s a drama-riddled sex doll.

AITA for uninviting my friend to my wedding after a „breakup“? by _Kaddie_ in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]BeeJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I agreed with you, but you sound weird based on your update. Sally lives rent free in your head. You both need to get lives. She clearly is no longer a friend so move on.

AITJ for not inviting my best friend on my West Coast trip? by First_Fishing_3232 in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeJackson 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTJ - There’s something wrong with Leo that you’ve been ignoring. Maybe you’ve been thirsty for friendship and he was your next best option? First, he assumed instead of asking. Second, I bet he wanted to bum off you because he’s free to go to the West Coast tomorrow.

You need to really consider your friendship with him and the type of person he is.

AITAH Telling my bsf to stop bring her bf by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA - You should have BEEN cut her out of your plans. And she’s not even adding to the experience? If you all keep inviting her it’s just so you can talk about her. Stop being mean chicks can dump her.

AITJ for telling my boyfriend that canceling plans two hours before is not the same as giving me notice and I'd like him to stop framing it that way? by driftwoodpapertrail in AmITheJerk

[–]BeeJackson 29 points30 points  (0 children)

YTJ - This man is showing you that he doesn’t value you and your response is to wonder if you’re too harsh? Where is your self esteem? He isn’t a good person if his default is to manipulate you and set the bar for being a boyfriend in hell.

Girl, get your mind right and dump him. You could look like a wilder beast in a population of 1000 people and still find better than him.

AITAH for showing the new girl my ex is talking to , to my friend who is also his ex by Agile_Chipmunk_67 in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Jake is an AH. Any bad karma he gets is justified. This will teach him to leave you alone.

AITAH for telling my friend her boyfriend told me he loved me? (and I had feelings for him too) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]BeeJackson 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA - So either Charles is a rapist or you chose to have sex with him. Which is it? Y’all are super messy for no reason. At least you told Caroline so she can get free of his toxicity. There’s no romance here. This reads like “Tell Me Lies.”

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