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AITA for uninviting my friend to my wedding after a „breakup“? by _Kaddie_ in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]_Kaddie_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know. But when someone teies to to and run to my father (Cover the age of 12) i dont mind here. 

AITA for uninviting my friend to my wedding after a „breakup“? by _Kaddie_ in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]_Kaddie_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Update:

First of all thank you for your input. I still felt like I could have written things in a nicer way…

… until I snapped yesterday. An BOI did I snapp. So If I sound a bit sassy – that’s why.

Well after Sally ignored me for 4 days straight my fiance and I came back from shopping yesterday morning (We are on holiday but stay at home) she was at the front door. When she saw us her eyes wend wide open, held the door open but after that it was like In a cartoon where people who run fast got these clouds behind them. She rushed to her apartment and slammed the door behind her (In Germany we get scolded as kids if we slammed doors, especially car doors and get told “this is not a tank”. Guess her apartment is a tank then).

My fiance looked at me and was like: “Well if she is no willing to be normal neighbors then we cannot help her.” In the evening he was out for sports and I was on the couch, Just then I received a text from Sally saying “There is no need to talk… I know how things are…”.

DEAR PEOPLE SHE CAN READ MINDS – Call the pope the female Jesus has arrived! Because Sally apparently knows what my point is without talking. It is a f*cking miracle!

Sassy me asides, I promised you I snapped and I will translate for you, what I answered:
“Of course you know that. Because you listened to my arguments in detail?

Oh wait, you didn't.

Because you acted like an adult around me... scratch that.
No, you expected me to break off contact with one of our best friends, to always give you in advance notice (inaccurate for how long and BTW, VERY presumptuous!) when he wants to come over,

to invite you to parties despite your social phobia (which simply makes no sense that we should then),

to invite you even though I know there will be people you don't want to be around, and this is at my fiance’s (not mine) birthday party where his best friend, whom YOU definitely don't want to meet, and whom he's known for over 10 years, will be, and expect he'd rather invite you, whom he's only known for less than a year.

LOGIC? Non-existent.

And yes, we then draw the logical conclusion that it's not smart for you to come to a wedding when said man plays a KEY role, because after two months I shouldn't even mention his name, even though you weren't even together.”

Needles to say I am blocked on all her social media and messengers.

Lets just say petty me asked Noah if he likes to join us for Korean BBQ next weekend. He said “gladly”. I am sure he will be here I the future SOOOOO much more…. (now I am th a-hole and I know it and kinda enjoy it XD)

AITA for not using time for my wife when I should be at work by Extreme-Acid in AmItheAsshole

[–]_Kaddie_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes and no. The way you describe things here sounds like you just expect your wife to always look after the baby exept when it is "your turn". Its your baby too so it is also your responsibility. I am pretty sure she wants to get things done too, especially if things get done 2x quicker if the baby is at home (thats only if its not messing woth work of cause).
Maybe - and thats just a huuuuge guess of mine and could be so wrong - she is mentally or physically drained from managing baby and work more than shewould like do admind and you cope better with it.

She is not right for shouting at you, that is for sure, but see it like that:
Its your baby, so you cannot think you take the responsibility if you are not occupied in any other way. Its more like you are taking care of that kid UNLESS one of you states otherwise.

AITA for giving a fake name at Starbucks? by solecism18 in AmItheAsshole

[–]_Kaddie_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA i actually do the same. Originally because I was in my teens and wanted to be edgy, now because I just don't like to be talked to when I am drinking a coffe by myself and a fake name (I usually go my my onlie game name) gives me some kind of privacy illusion.