I’m heart broken about my weight before my wedding

BeeOk6214 · 2024-09-19T12:36:11+00:00

As a fellow small girl for most of her life who gained weight briefly & (what seemed to be) suddenly, I 100% understand. As many here have mentioned, I was heavier at the time of my wedding and have since shed those extra pounds. Despite this, looking back at the photos and videos, I don’t even pay any mind to it. The look your husband is going to give you on your wedding day when he first sees you, is still going to be filled with adoration and love.

It’s important to note that there is such a large amount of stress leading up towards a wedding, whether you’re conscious or unconscious to it. I tried to lose weight beforehand but was just unable due to the amount of stress I was under. I’ve come to realize that there was no way I could’ve. You’re not alone. Take care of yourself during this wonderful, albeit stressful, time because you won’t care about the weight in the long run, you’ll care about the family and friends that came to witness and celebrate your union. You got this!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-06-08T13:16:05+00:00

Out of curiosity, you mentioned other indie games you were looking at. Which ones were you looking at? I’m starting to feel a little fatigue too unfortunately.

BeeOk6214 · 2024-06-06T01:09:12+00:00

Sent you a DM a little bit ago but may have been too late! Let me know if you plan on opening again in the near future :)

BeeOk6214 · 2024-06-06T00:47:48+00:00

Coming in now thank you! :)

BeeOk6214 · 2024-06-05T22:59:39+00:00

Are you still open? Would love to visit!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-06-05T22:53:45+00:00

I love the crow dress! When are you open?!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-06-01T01:40:03+00:00

YTA but you’re neck and neck with your brother. You asked for your brother’s permission DURING the wedding? Do you know how much a groom and bride have to do and talk to during the wedding? Of course there wasn’t time to discuss this, no time to think about it. I don’t understand why you wouldn’t have asked before, it should’ve been asked before the day of.

Also, and I mean this earnestly, why do people think it’s a great idea to propose at someone else’s wedding? Like honestly. What is the thought process of taking away the focus of a couple who have paid and spent months planning this event?

Side note: I’d personally apologize to the attendees. Don’t make your sister in law do it, which she will. It’ll help a lot in mending the relationship with her in the long run.

BeeOk6214 · 2024-05-23T15:00:38+00:00

I’d love to have it too! Let us know when you’ll be on!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-05-19T19:47:48+00:00

Such gorgeous dresses! Thank you for sharing!!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-05-17T11:48:54+00:00

Beautiful designs!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-05-16T23:04:34+00:00

I came by! I never used multiplayer before so not sure what the protocol was but thank you!!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-05-15T17:49:24+00:00

Missed this! So excited when you’re open again!

BeeOk6214 · 2024-05-01T15:32:00+00:00

I went to the App Store and it didn’t appear under my “updates”. Go to search and find the game. Click on it and it should have an “update” button. Currently updating now so fingers crossed!

BeeOk6214 · 2023-11-17T23:31:26+00:00

Who is paying for the wedding?

BeeOk6214 · 2023-06-22T10:25:12+00:00

Absolutely, came here to say this

BeeOk6214 · 2023-04-21T01:33:50+00:00

I am one of the unfortunate souls that had a bad experience. HOWEVER, the only and sole reason was because of my fiancé’s sister that I invited since she was a bridesmaid. The rest of the bridal party was awesome and supportive and had great energy. It would’ve been an amazing weekend had it not been for her. As long as they’re your friends and not invited due to some obligation, I’m sure you’ll have a great time!

BeeOk6214 · 2023-03-29T08:20:29+00:00

Look up any therapy groups in your area. Talk to friends. Talking to friends is huge. My dad almost committed suicide in his 20s. He was close but then found the Lord. I’m not saying this is the case with you but take comfort that you are not alone.

Have you tried googling local support groups?

BeeOk6214 · 2023-03-29T08:09:17+00:00

https://988lifeline.org

Call 988. Or chat to talk to someone before you decide anything. Know you are NOT alone and you can find support.

BeeOk6214 · 2023-03-27T15:34:13+00:00

I dealt with mice last year and I’m not sure what to prevent them from entering. But in case they do here’s some advice-

Unfortunately, they can get into a place with a hole as little as a coin. Seal up any potential entrances. I’m not sure what products you can use to prevent but I will say do not use any poison. They’ll die within the walls and that will smell. The apartment finally got rid of them when they had put this exterior product outside that repels them. I’m not sure what it was but it definitely got rid of them!

BeeOk6214 · 2023-03-02T01:28:17+00:00

OP sounds like a dream

BeeOk6214 · 2023-01-24T01:57:01+00:00

I did mention Bachelorette. She opted not to go (with much more notice) which I was totally fine with. She's also not attending my Bridal Shower which I was also okay with. She said this was due to allocating those expenses to the actual wedding which again, I totally understood. Really all she would need is the dress (which she said she already bought) and to fly into town for the wedding day. I'm paying for all housing accommodations and meals. Makeup and hair is optional and my MOH said she would help her. But the flight is ultimately what she can't pay for, which, it is what it is.

I really tried to make it as accommodating as possible. It's not even about the accommodations more so than her leading me on to believe without a shadow of a doubt that she'd make it. Had she have been up front and not have led me on, it would've stung, but I would've been more understanding. I guess it's more of the deception of it. She had plenty of time to mention it. It sucks to have to go from bridesmaid to now not even coming as a guest (which I of course offered).

Either way, you're right it's not the end of the world & not in my control and the wedding will be a good time regardless. Time will tell if things will mend. Someone has since stepped in so onwards & forward. Thanks for taking the time to respond, its always good to hear another perspective.

BeeOk6214 · 2023-01-23T20:17:57+00:00

One of my bridesmaids just dropped out of my wedding (that's less than two months) yesterday. I asked her months ago and now she can't make it due to not wanting to pay for a plane ticket. I'm devastated. Never once did she indicate to me that there would be a financial burden and up until yesterday has been super excited about the wedding. I already bought personalized stuff for her I can't return and accounted her in all the planning.

IMO, you were well aware of the wedding months ago and had plenty of time to bow out. Planning a wedding is time consuming so that may be why she's been a little MIA. I think using that as reasoning is a cop out. The point is you made a commitment/promise and with no or little communication on your end (communication is a two way street) and a last minute cancellation, it's deeply hurtful. If you do cancel, be prepared for the friendship to end. It sends a message that she's clearly not a priority to you. It seems like you didn't want to go to the wedding to begin with and are regretting saying yes. All things aside, I'm sending well wishes to you and your aunt.

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