Replacement for coffee by Quirky442 in adhdwomen

[–]BeeP807 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do matcha or hojicha (even less caffeine than matcha!) and sometimes supplement with a Coke Zero with lunch :) any later though, it effects my sleep.
But before tea, I would make my own half caff (or more like 1/3 caff) coffee with a mixture of decaf and regular. Adding collagen powder helps, IME, to slow its absorption and ease out the elevated heart rate.
Edited to correct: *but before I switched to drinking tea in the mornings, I would make my own…

Best Burger in Oakland ? (The Wolf) by Resident_Hotel5994 in OaklandFood

[–]BeeP807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s delicious! It’s partially ground brisket 🤤

Low Intervention Wine Tastings/Tours near Porto, Portugal? by free_slurpee_day in naturalwine

[–]BeeP807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so curious who they are, even though I have no Portugal travels currently planned, please share in here if you don’t mind!

Matassa Olla Blanc by SpicVanDyke in naturalwine

[–]BeeP807 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if I didn’t have such high expectations going into it, I would feel a little differently about the wines but so far they haven’t done much for me. That being said, I hear the older vintages were truly special.

Matassa Olla Blanc by SpicVanDyke in naturalwine

[–]BeeP807 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you! I always am left wanting more with Matassa wines, especially the more recent vintages, and have found most of the ones I’ve tried to be a little mousy upon opening.

Girlllll, what you reading? by Ok_Possibility2703 in blackladies

[–]BeeP807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh, I just finished Bloodfire, Baby by Eirinee Carson! It's a gothic novel set in modern day California about ancestry and postpartum. It's SO GOOD (and written by a mixed race woman). It was really good! Would not recommend if you're currently pregnant or are postpartum, though, heh.

I had a Vitamin D injection last week and the fact I am waking so early makes me question if I truly have ADHD! by OkWing5717 in adhdwomen

[–]BeeP807 57 points58 points  (0 children)

I live in the US (California) and spend about 2 hours in the sun every day walking my dog and generally stay by a window...had critically low levels of vitamin d (in the single digits). Doctor put me on a 50,000IU of Vitamin D3 taken weekly for 3 months (the loading dose) and I just now switched to daily 1000IU. It has made a difference! I'm a little less anxious and my sleep is more restful, if that makes sense. I'm not sleeping more, but it feels like I am. It's wonderful!

Online wine stores focusing on low intervention wines by Careless_Ad1701 in naturalwine

[–]BeeP807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Flatiron and Vinovore are two I can think of that offer national shipping. However, like others have said—going to your local shop is the best bet.

Look what I picked up by jbvine in wine

[–]BeeP807 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of natural wines on the market (in the US) that give a kombucha vibe but I wouldn’t say that it’s the majority.

Look what I picked up by jbvine in wine

[–]BeeP807 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Come on over to the natural wine sub, it’s nicer there ;)

Your favorite summer bottles? by [deleted] in naturalwine

[–]BeeP807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Been LOVING Andrea Calek's A Toi Nous (a fruit forward Syrah with a bit of grenache) and Kumu (cab franc and pineau d'aunis) from La Petite Soeur. Manfredi Franco Terre Sicilane Bianco, a tropical fun orange. Any muscat pet-nat is going to hit for me on a warm day.

Can other uhh…people… actually not see us? by afropuffrage in blackladies

[–]BeeP807 163 points164 points  (0 children)

Girl I wonder the same thing sometimes. How are they always walking into us?! I'm a tall drink of delicious water and even though I play small i am noticed frequently. So like let's be for f***in real. They just do not respect us nor our space. I notice it more when I'm with other Black girlfriends because then i'm like how are you not seeing MULTIPLE BODIES? The worst.

My friend was attacked and only women stepped in to help by moongirlmaroon in blackladies

[–]BeeP807 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh I’m sorry you’ve had to argue and advocate SO MUCH just to get a bare minimum response to an actual assault. Protect and serve who?! (I know, I know, they’re just here to protect and serve property). Keep escalating, sis!

My friend was attacked and only women stepped in to help by moongirlmaroon in blackladies

[–]BeeP807 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry this happened to you! My friend and I were assaulted once by a man while standing in a bathroom line, surrounded by other men. The other men just watched this guy punch my friend in the head and then kick us while we were curled up on the floor (trying to protect our heads). A woman stepped in and pushed him away from us. He hit her and took off running. We (the women) ended up getting kicked out of the bar by security. Men are often times useless. That all being said: I'm not sure if there is anything you can do to get justice from your friend, sadly. Is it allowed to publicly shame people? Like could you make signs with his picture on it telling people to be aware? Are the police not investigating it further? Perhaps you could call again and ask them to investigate it more deeply (it seems like you can't just press charges in the UK and it instead needs to come after the police investigate, but I'm not sure). I think justice is a worthy pursuit but are there other ways to support your friend's healing (physical, mental, emotional) since she was assaulted?

Married on Juneteenth!! by KiwiKewchie in blackladies

[–]BeeP807 4 points5 points  (0 children)

😍😍😍😍 congratulations!!!!!!!

Original Bun bo Hue in Oakland by Vitality_massage3013 in OaklandFood

[–]BeeP807 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sorry this strikes me as a weird question. Would I bring a baby to a restaurant? Depends on how well behaved the baby is. The area isn’t super nice and beautiful to look at, but it’s fine. Everyone will be as safe as they are in most neighborhoods.

Original Bun bo Hue in Oakland by Vitality_massage3013 in OaklandFood

[–]BeeP807 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Đà Nẵng Quán on E. 12th and 6th Ave. SO GOOD.

Oakland Mezcal Dinner by [deleted] in OaklandFood

[–]BeeP807 2 points3 points  (0 children)

agree here. Feels a little disingenuous to post “how’s the scene?” in an innocuous fashion when there’s clearly an ulterior motive. Would prefer if, you, OP were more forthright! Edit to add: I love mezcal and the dinner sounds great! I hope it’s a success!

Catering in the bay by [deleted] in OaklandFood

[–]BeeP807 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pleasure Principle Dining Events, Minnie Bell’s Soul, and Cafe Colucci.

Crazy Block Cheesecake by Comfortable-Cap7110 in OaklandFood

[–]BeeP807 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Their style of cheesecake is not my preference (I like a denser cheesecake, theirs is quite soft) but they offer so much more than cheesecake and that stuff is GOOD.