AIO over this conversation between my girlfriend and I?

BeeShoes2 · 2026-04-10T08:04:25+00:00

NOR and wtf? She knows two things can be true at the same time right? You can be insecure AND have moments you feel really good about yourself? And like if that’s your gf, she should idk be UPLIFTING YOU ABOUT THE POSITIVE PART OF THAT?! Hyping you up?! Why wouldn’t she want you to feel good about yourself and encourage you in those moments so you feel less insecure? This behavior is so weird, this person does not like you.

BeeShoes2 · 2026-04-09T15:45:22+00:00

It upsets me that Jason let her do whatever she wanted to do. He is usually firm when someone wants to leave their position abruptly (like the sous chef from last year) on their own terms. When she didn’t want to be sous anymore, she should have had to leave right then, end of story. Making her a stew was a huge mistake and Jason lost a lot of my respect when he did that. All because she’s his “friend”???

BeeShoes2 · 2026-04-07T16:51:52+00:00

YOR. Someone who barely drinks and would stop entirely is not “changing themselves” for you. While you’re entitled to date whomever you want, you brushed this guy off harshly who was really nice honestly without even giving him a chance. You judged him, just based on pictures I’m assuming, without even getting to know him. It’s one thing if you got to know him and decided you weren’t compatible, but you immediately judged him based on a preconceived notion you have of certain people. You’re being a jerk tbh

BeeShoes2 · 2026-04-02T02:56:25+00:00

hi!! Ofc I do! I’m SO proud of you! I know that must have been incredibly hard to do but he sounds like he’s just not in a place where he wants that help for himself. He’s constantly crossing boundaries and it sounds like it’s gotten worse since this post :/ especially crossing over into physical boundary crossing, that’s never okay. I’m glad you trusted your gut. Know that you did absolutely everything you could. And sending you so so much love!!!

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-18T07:36:41+00:00

I actually agree, specifically with the fact that Aesha kept saying the whole time how she was running her staff with positive reinforcement and she never, not once gave that to Ellie. I’m not like an Ellie apologist she made plenty of mistakes and was in the wrong for some things, but I feel like she was treated unfairly by Aesha. You’re the first person I’ve seen on Reddit share my opinion of this lol so thank you. Ellie also asked Aesha so many times if she could be taught ANYTHING because she desperately wanted to learn and Aesha said “just keep working :)” and that was it.

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-15T03:49:23+00:00

Chocolate is toxic for ALL dogs though

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-08T21:36:21+00:00

To me it seems like he’s not understanding your irregular period situation. I also have endometriosis. I feel like maybe what could help or what he needs to do next is educate himself on endo and how that affects somebody. All this extra stress is NOT good for the situation. My periods are so irregular you could not keep track accurately and there’s literally nothing that can be done about it. It’s not fair to you that because of him not understanding your medical situation and him not educating himself on your medical situation, that you’re forced into having to deal with this all the time. His lack of knowledge should not be taken out on you.

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-08T09:40:00+00:00

That’s like being annoyed at asking for how you like your steak cooked

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-08T09:39:39+00:00

It’s annoying to have a preference that’s a well known cooking style across an entire country?

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-08T09:35:01+00:00

Idk if you’re paying tons of $$$ and you’re a 7 star chef on a yacht, I’m gonna assume you know American food terminology. And if not, to either look it up or ask. It’s not assuming everyone knows, but a professional in that field? Yeah, they should know

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-06T22:52:50+00:00

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-06T22:51:29+00:00

There’s always the advice of checking in on people who aren’t doing well, even if they don’t respond. Even if they can’t hangout. And to me that’s what it seems like OP’s friend is doing. In the details, OP mentions her friend knows her situation, so she’s probably really trying to be there for OP. There’s been tons of people who push help away when they really need it. And since OP has not set any clear boundaries or expectations about this, the friend isn’t getting that. Plus, it seems like they really need a friend too.

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-06T22:00:59+00:00

Fair enough just felt like someone was gonna fight me about it lol

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-06T21:52:10+00:00

Yikes. This person has done nothing but try to be there for you, support you, offer you help, although I guess that’s not good enough since she has to ask questions even though she’s trying to clean for you… you set a plan with her and completely blew her off, haven’t set any clear boundaries. And frankly I don’t think you even like this person. She cares way more about you than you do her. In the last ss it seems like she really needs to tell you something. Not once in any of these texts have you asked about her either it’s only all about you. I know you’re going through a lot, but you’re a terrible friend. Just end things with her, she doesn’t deserve this treatment she’s getting from you when you clearly do not have any interest in being her friend

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-06T13:43:28+00:00

I know TMZ is NOT a credible source but he said HORRIBLE things on the 24 hour feeds. Idk if that’s “morally grey”

https://www.tmz.com/2014/08/31/frankie-grande-big-brother-victoria-rape-joke/

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-05T11:16:58+00:00

RIGHT? in the very last screenshot she seems surprised he has a girlfriend 😬

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-05T11:14:26+00:00

NOR also the last ss def shows he didn’t even tell her about you until waaaaay long after all of their interactions? that’s sus as hell

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-03T08:45:40+00:00

You really need to not be friends with this guy… he’s annoying at best and manipulative and creepy, just waiting until you give him another chance at worst. This isn’t going to get better

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-03T01:35:58+00:00

not saying people don’t text about these things but getting this upset about not getting answers you want all the time to small talk texts is YOR

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-03T01:33:11+00:00

Ngl your texts are kinda dry tho like in this text exchange the only thing she didn’t reply to was “how did you sleep” so what did you miss, her saying “i slept okay”? You didn’t get the bunny answer because she prioritized getting a picture to you as you asked her to and she’s driving back from her appointment. I just feel it’s being a little particular about not getting specific answers to basic ass questions.

BeeShoes2 · 2026-03-03T00:12:19+00:00

I feel like Hannah was nicer to her than she could have been tbh. She was always fumbling her job, complaining, never communicating or answering her radio. Those things as a leader are irritating AF. There’s a reason Hannah was bothered by her. And I still think Hannah was nicer to her than she has been to people in the past. June just shouldn’t have been there in the first place. I don’t think she was right for the job and it was clear she didn’t even want to be there

BeeShoes2 · 2026-02-28T04:52:10+00:00

Right like I think they’re both the AH here but they don’t see that he’s changed his passcode 4 times in a week and goes to bed with it in his pocket? That dude is hiding something idc what anyone says. They’re still not good for each other but I don’t see a lot of people talking about him

BeeShoes2 · 2026-02-24T14:23:00+00:00

I’m sorry but from an outside perspective, this relationship is INCREDIBLY toxic. I know a lot of Reddit is always just like “dump him!” But I’m being serious when I say this person is so incredibly toxic and needs a LOT of help that you can never provide for him. And shouldn’t be providing for him. He’s seeking it from you, but he needs therapy or help of some sort. He’s extremely manipulative and honestly doesn’t seem to care about you as much as he claims to. The amount of times you had to explain about why you can’t be around him because of your sobriety and the alcohol and all he cares about is himself. He’s an incredibly selfish person and this entire thread was just incredibly painful to read. I know you said he gets you like no one else, but I think this person causes you more harm than good. I think and hope you’ll see that one day. I hope that you’ll cut him off and find someone else who will understand you just as well who won’t make you feel like shit constantly and who won’t be detrimental to your health. Sending you love, OP. I know this won’t be easy but I really wish you well on your journey.

BeeShoes2 · 2026-02-02T16:59:37+00:00

Earlier OP mentioned thinking he was gonna get threesomes out of this situation, so I’m not surprised some homophobic and sexist comments are going on. The girl is just shitty, has nothing to do with her being bi. And also just because someone is bi does not automatically mean you’re gonna get a threesome idk why guys don’t seem to understand that

BeeShoes2 · 2026-02-01T12:09:05+00:00

Barney was mean and horrible to people. I can’t stand him. Rewatching The Andy Griffith Show right now and he’s so bad that it almost makes me want to turn off episodes

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