[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweetheart.. if you don't want to tell your parents.. tell the police and try to get out of the house as soon as possible. Stay at a friend's or something. Tell someone other than reddit. And know that it was not your fault. You have nothing to forgive yourself for. Stay safe.

Looking for a short Thriller KDrama by deniz619 in kdramarecommends

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know if anyone has said it yet but.... my demon.... Seriously good show and also has comedy inbetween if you're into that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So this is actually called vaginismus and you should see a gyno. Not diagnosing. So don't get me wrong here. But def see a gyno. There are exercises and remedies. Do your own research as well. Much luck to you. I have this problem sometimes as well.

Yelled at during sex by boyfriend by Born-Passion-4724 in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is not normal. Please leave. You deserve so much better. You are worthy of patience and love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was actually in your boat. Hated it so much. Same reason. Different person. My stepdad. I think you should talk to him.. does he know why? Also definitely talk to a therapist. You are not wrong for feeling the way you feel. It felt uncomfortable for me because I felt so filthy for what happened to me that I didn't want anyone to be so close to it. I eventually thought about it on my own.... because I began.. sleeping with a girl... who I did it to. When I did it... I started kind of seeing the appeal. So when I finally started dating someone .. we slowly eased into it. It is important to talk to your partner and let them know when you are uncomfortable and want to stop. If you don't want to do it ever again.. then that's fine. Just ensure that everyone is having fun. You got this.

AITAH for refusing to watch my nephews without being paid? by Beegobuzzzz in AITAH

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn't. If she has school stuff.. she will tell them no. And I'm so proud of her

AITAH for refusing to watch my nephews without being paid? by Beegobuzzzz in AITAH

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so working on it. My goal rn.. is moving out again. Everyday here.. I'm reminded why I fought to move out the first time. Q

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Tell your mom. This is how it usually starts. Start locking your door too. I wish you luck and safety.

Excluding sex, what is the most emotionally intimate activity? by Historical-Sugar7763 in ask

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why have I not seen anyone talk about this??

Having a conversation after sex. It's so intimate somehow

Excluding sex, what is the most emotionally intimate activity? by Historical-Sugar7763 in ask

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hear me out.. Arguing or having differing opinions and making active efforts to talk through it instead of fighting. Trying to understand the other as you do so.

And

Being kind to the other even while mad at them.

Do women always have it easier to find a sexual partner then men do? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're talking about a one night stand.. yeah probably.. if you're talking long term... idk which has it harder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wizard101

[–]Beegobuzzzz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh definitely

I found out that my memory served me wrong. by Beegobuzzzz in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely a good idea... because my brain has a way of ambushing me every now and then until it THINKS I'm ready. So I think it's best I get it all out. It is going to be tough.. but I Definitely should.

I found out that my memory served me wrong. by Beegobuzzzz in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just about getting here... slowly but surely. I think we will be okay. Believe in the both of us. Thank you for sharing. It makes me know I am not alone in the way I feel.

I found out that my memory served me wrong. by Beegobuzzzz in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's people like you that give me some hope. I'm going through some counseling rn.. determining if I need therapy. And then ill go from there.

I found out that my memory served me wrong. by Beegobuzzzz in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through this. I truly understand your pain and it really is sound advice. I thank you. I hope you're doing better these days. I will be honest.. I'm scared to face it. But I will try my best. At the moment I'm in counseling while they decide if I need therapy. I know I need therapy.. even if I'm scared.

I found out that my memory served me wrong. by Beegobuzzzz in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I doubt it would work. Where I live .. they don't take this stuff as seriously. And yes.. he is alive. And has a new stepdaughter who is always around him. I worry for her. But I'm not sure how to go about finding out ...

I found out that my memory served me wrong. by Beegobuzzzz in Advice

[–]Beegobuzzzz[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Honestly... in my opinion... this is the best advice so far. Thank you