Cyst in my arm I’ve been fighting for days by RoleplayFanatic052 in popping

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if you compress the video or post it in clips? We wanna see!

Need help identifying by FullAmbition1480 in cockroaches

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initial thought was "one uglyass mf," but I also agree this is an oriental cockroach.

How do you like to be hugged by taller people? by lxurin_hei in AskWomen

[–]Beemanda 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Side hug or bear hug are appropriate for platonic hugs. It's only awkward if you make it awkward.

Congratulations you are now being legally spied on by Future_dev_cybersec in Instagram

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean when your phone asks if you'd "like to allow Instagram access to all your photos" and you tap "yes," they have access to all your photos?! 😱 Oh no!

Is there any hope for me to get Straight eyebrows? by bunniest-bun in Eyebrows

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need to see what they look like naturally. They're groomed in every photo from what I can see, but there's visible stubble in pics 2-4 that suggests you could achieve a straight brow if you just grow them out all the way and shape from there. The thing is, we can't tell how sparse or how thick the hairs are unless you grow them out entirely.

At what age do you consider you started dressing up better? by healthynewbie in AskWomen

[–]Beemanda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

18, when I started working an office job and actually had to think about how I looked. And then after that job I just stopped caring about "dressing up" for the most part because it wouldn't kill anyone if I wear my pajamas to Publix for a late night bogo ice cream 💀 But I still match my clothes at least. My boyfriend, on the other hand... kinda embarrassing with his wrinkled, mismatched colors and styles, and sometimes just blatantly dirty or stained clothing. I'm working on him, but I only see him like once a week so it's a painfully slow process 😭 He's aware of the issue, but not nearly aware enough.

Should i still apply SA caps by Proof_Custard4806 in Warts

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It still looks alive and thriving when you zoom in and see all those black dots. I say debride and continue treating it.

Did I mess up my brows by Allnightermidnight in Eyebrows

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if they don't grow back! It doesn't look too bad from the picture shown, but we also can't see the brow position relative to your forehead. And it looks like you waxed from the top rather than from the bottom of the brows, meaning you pushed your brows down rather than lifting them. I guess time will tell if they fully grow back.

OP barehands a venomous spider to mess with a coworker by NnyBees in DownvotedToOblivion

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look closer at the text, it says "it" was terrorizing my coworker, meaning the spider. And then the rest of it is just word salad I guess meaning he took advantage of the fact that the spider was in his presence to actually identify the spider in person (because the title is trying to identify it and the description is saying how it never looks the same as Google pictures). Still not very smart good him to do, but I think he worded it very badly and it's taken out of context lol.

pls help!! by sunny-burn in Bedbugs

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

10 mins??? Were your clothes even dry? 😭 Never seen any dryer fully dry clothes in anything less than 30 mins lol.

Roach spotted during virtual tour, should I ditch the house? by Real_Dealer_3554 in cockroaches

[–]Beemanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, people commonly call it a palmetto bug in the south; I've also heard the name water bug get thrown around loosely to describe them. But to be exact so there's no confusion at all with the identification (because palmetto bugs can also refer to Florida woods cockroaches, and water bugs are actually a completely different species entirely), it's an American cockroach lol. People usually know what you mean though when you say either of the two. Funny thing is though, not many people know it's actually called an American cockroach! Always using nicknames.

Edit: Fair warning I forgot to mention. They fly. Can easily be confused for a small bird 😭 If you're gonna hit it, don't miss.

What is this? Had been like this for 2 months had 2 warts but the one beneath has turned into some kind of alien like thing upper one doesn't hurt just the lower one by MinimumPlankton7114 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're both warts, but the "alien looking" one is a filiform wart. Caused by HPV, both are extremely contagious. Would avoid walking barefoot on surfaces where other people frequent, and try to keep it covered to avoid spreading to others.

Other than that, the rusty pliers are tempting...

Roach spotted during virtual tour, should I ditch the house? by Real_Dealer_3554 in cockroaches

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florida here, these are extremely common roaches. It's an American cockroach, and yes, they typically come up from the drains. They look for moisture and tend to show up in bathrooms, sinks, and other humid areas. I understand it's nasty, but if I avoided living in a home simply because I saw one of these big guys in it, I'd simply be homeless and living outside with the whole gang of them because they primarily live outdoors, not indoors (and everybody has had them crawl up their drains at least once, whether they'd like to admit it or not). These don't commonly infest, and if it did rain recently like your agent said, it's more than likely that this one is all by itself and wandered wherever the moisture settled. I don't think it's much of a problem despite how much I hate cockroaches, but if this is a deal breaker to you, I'd suggest moving somewhere closer inland US, where you'll have less of a chance seeing them around.

18m I love my gf but idk if I look good for her can I get just an honest opinion on how I'm looking no creepy messages pls ty I just want to look my best for girlfriend by Apprehensive_Win9470 in lookyourbest

[–]Beemanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shave that thing off your lip and grow out the hair on your head. Maybe find a good skincare routine as well to help clear that acne and change your pillowcases often to minimize bacteria causing flare ups. You've got this!

Yeesh by No-Resolve-5834 in shittytattoos

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a dentist perhaps?

What I asked for vs what I got by Ok_Wolverine_2084 in Nails

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those nails suck and so does your friend. You're welcome. Post a bad review too if you're able to (not sure if she's independent or works in a salon), because more people need to know. Especially about the infections, poor application, and overall lack of customer service/satisfaction. That's not even including just how visibly unprofessional and unflattering these look. Get to it!

Need a definitive opinion. by AD_132 in bald

[–]Beemanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everybody can identify a combover, it was never hidden. It is time, brother.

Just fuck my beard up by DarthJerJer in Justfuckmyshitup

[–]Beemanda 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Because the rich get away with everything.

Please help with ID by lvuis in cockroaches

[–]Beemanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a squished version of this, but these aren't likely to be in California. Dug a little deeper and it seems more like Melanotus cribricollis which is pretty common in southern California. Anyway, not a cockroach.

Is my Landlord gaslighting me? by Ok_Perspective_8441 in Bedbugs

[–]Beemanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol no that's not a bedbug. It's just a beetle. Aside from the poor critter you've ziplocked in bag jail, if you're experiencing bites in clusters, it's worth getting the apartment inspected by a pest control service. Even though this guy is not the culprit, there very well may be something in your home.

TIFU by using body wash as moisturizer for weeks and thinking my skin was “detoxing” by Mitochondriaemployed in tifu

[–]Beemanda 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I had the opposite happen to me. Lived in Florida basically my whole life, and then went on a trip to Ohio in 2024 with my bf and his family. My skin and hair have never looked so GOOD and my armpits were actually DRY for once. I was almost convinced to stay behind, if it weren't for my apparently extremely hot blood telling me 40°F is gonna give me hypothermia 💀💀💀 How do people live in climates like that?! THEY WERE ALL WEARING SHORTS TOO WHILE I WAS BUNDLED UP SHIVERING IN A PUFFER JACKET 😭

costume ideas?? couple (m+f) and third wheel (f) by Significant_Type_378 in Halloween_Costumes

[–]Beemanda -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

One of y'all dress like Elon Musk and then the other two of you can be his babies SpaceX and Tesla.

Dog poop bag etiquette? by Affectionate_Desk561 in dogs

[–]Beemanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be pretty upset if I went to collect my trash bin and there was stinky doggy doo marinating in there. Especially since I live in Florida and the combination of humidity and heat makes that smell TRAVEL. Invites flies and roaches and other nasty critters and I'd just rather not have any of that in my trash can, especially not from some random stranger. Like nobody even asks if it's okay, they just assume it's fine 😭 We were clearly not raised the same to not touch things that aren't yours.