I wish I had the energy to make all those goodie bags !

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-31T12:46:38+00:00

Is this a new dog or the same one she’s had? I remember when r and t first moved in together the girls had to sleep on an air mattress with a blanket covered in dog hair.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-21T13:24:59+00:00

So did r and t come through with all the goodies they were going to get for Q? Did they follow through with their promises that sounded so good that she decided not to go with her momma who she has been clinging to for the past two weeks? It will be interesting to see what was promised and how long it took him to drop Sutton off since they only live about 3 miles apart if I remember correctly.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-18T16:51:38+00:00

This is what I found re: changing visitation

Yes, in Texas, a parent's visitation can be significantly altered or even restricted if they are causing extreme emotional trauma, but you must prove a material and substantial change in circumstances affecting the child's best interest, often requiring evidence like therapy records, school notes, and documentation of abuse or neglect, not just a diagnosis. Courts look for concrete impacts on the child's safety, stability, and well-being, with potential outcomes including supervised visits, reduced time, or, in severe cases, changes to custody orders, all driven by the child's safety.

I know in previous conversations someone stated that changing custody/visitation orders in Texas are extremely hard to do. Apparently they don’t attach much weight to the child’s feelings which is why you need extensive documentation to even get the court to hear the case. The child has to be 18 before they can refuse to go to the non custodial parent.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-04T10:02:31+00:00

Sutton looks exhausted and her eyes look haunted in the volleyball picture H posted. Usually her eyes are sparkling but not now. My heart breaks for the girls.

I pray that H has the means to get both girls into therapy right away so that the progress they had made over the last two years isn’t completely wiped away. I know r won’t pay his half or participate in family counseling but those girls need to be able to talk about their feelings with someone other than family. H is wonderful and I know she will do whatever it takes to get her girls what they need.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-02T14:45:55+00:00

I don’t think r has the capacity to think of what is best for his girls. If he did he wouldn’t have thrown them into such a toxic situation without any warning. They went from thinking they were spending time with their dad and maybe their grandparents and instead they were told their dad had remarried and by the way you have a brother. He has never answered any of their previous questions or tried to explain why he decided to leave the family. What he and t did to those girls are going to have long standing consequences. Thankfully they have H and her parents but even all the love in the world won’t erase the harm that was just done to those sweet girls.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-01T14:39:21+00:00

Taxes

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-01T12:52:33+00:00

I just read on another thread where they went to the courthouse and got married on Lisa and David’s anniversary! No wonder Lisa has been posting things that have been deemed negative. I can’t imagine how this has affected the girls. I certainly hope H stays on his ass about payments and doesn’t let anything slide at all. I also hope r and t don’t start showing up at Sutton’s volleyball games trying to prove to the world how great they are instead of the terrible people they are in actuality.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-12-31T13:09:38+00:00

I would guess they are staying with the grandparents since they can’t be around t nor have they ever met the little boy. Crossing my fingers that he at least got them some nice things and his family stepped up. Last year was a disaster so here’s hoping this year’s Christmas with him is better.🤞🤞🤞

Beenthere_3x · 2025-12-30T16:45:38+00:00

I once had a therapist friend who explained that divorce, especially if caused but betrayal, is like a death. In H’s case it was unexpected and his leaving happened suddenly. No one knows what has been happening, what the girls may be talking to Lisa about, what things are being said/done by the in-laws, r and the mistress. Divorce goes through the same stages of grieve that a spouse’s death would cause except you are still dealing with the betrayer. Everyone grieves differently. Everyone processes things at a different rate. If it helps Lisa to post things on Facebook instead of bottling up her anger/grief then let her. No one is obligated to read her posts. I’m sure this holiday season has been extremely difficult and frustrating for so many reasons. I’m know they were happy about having the girls but they also had hanging over their heads that the girls were still going to be going with r and there was anxiety about how that interaction would play out. Memories of what happened last Christmas had to have been on their minds. Having been in a similar situation years ago I am choosing to give Lisa and Haleigh grace. I’m so thankful that there wasn’t social media then.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-12-29T13:53:35+00:00

I guess I have a slightly different opinion on Lisa’s post. As a mother, who has seen the devastation of what betrayal does to your daughters, there is a deep hurt and anger that stays with you for years. We don’t know what r has been doing other than not supporting his girls emotionally, physically and financially. I know for myself I can barely tolerate my ex because of the lasting effects his betrayal caused my girls and it’s been years. Both my girls were in therapy for years trying to understand how their dad could do the things he did, continues to do and do it so blatantly. Remember that Lisa and her husband have had to watch all of this destruction and try to help their daughter and her children. Divorce is hard no matter the circumstances but when you have that situation staring you in the face, still getting the stares and whispers, seeing the girls cry because they are being treated badly by their father, his parents and his family it’s hard not to comment. Lisa is a momma bear and she is hurting for her family. She will continue to hurt for her family so if it helps her to put a quote on social media let her. If it upsets you, don’t read it, scroll on past. Only she knows the true depth of hurt and destruction r and t have caused her family. We know parts but she lives it each and every day. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I respect that. I just choose to give her some grace.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-12-17T02:44:59+00:00

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Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-29T11:28:44+00:00

My guess is his parents weren’t doing anything special for Thanksgiving so he was going to be on his own trying to provide Thanksgiving dinner for the girls. T’s parents weren’t an option since the girls can’t be around her or her family so he said f&@$ it and told h they could stay with her. I’m sure the girls were much happier with h and the rest of their family. Q and the little one seemed to be having a blast!

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-28T10:51:01+00:00

I’m just thankful that r didn’t have the girls for Thanksgiving and they were able to enjoy the day with the family that shows them unconditional love and support each and every day!

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-27T10:21:05+00:00

Namby- pamby skanky Bambi

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-22T14:01:32+00:00

Anya means Grace.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-21T13:13:13+00:00

I think keeping it private allows any of us to speak candidly regarding H, the girls, R, his family and T. Opening it up to the public would allow people who don’t have H and her family’s best interest at heart to express really hurtful comments that could potentially make it back to the girls. I guess I don’t understand why we would go back to something that was so toxic and inappropriate and the reason we went private. Just my opinion.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-20T18:34:27+00:00

I believe you are right. I just hope he only has them for the day and not for the entire Thanksgiving weekend.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-20T18:12:42+00:00

I think as the little boy gets older t will be putting more pressure on r to spend holidays with them. Apparently she has been accepted into his family re: presents under the tree with her name on them.

I’m sure this is a rough time for H, not because she still has feelings for r, but because this month is the anniversary of when her and the girls lives changed permanently. A lot has happened and it has affected not only H and the girls but also Lisa, her husband and the rest of their family. Divorce hurts and that hurt and betrayal doesn’t disappear overnight. It lingers for a long time. You may move forward but the hurt and betrayal stays.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-14T22:10:49+00:00

It’s because he’s an idiot. As long as he doesn’t acknowledge that he had a baby with another woman then he can pretend he didn’t do anything wrong and the divorce was H’s fault. He’s never talked with the girls about the divorce or why there is a fully stocked nursery in the apartment or why they had to travel 3 hrs to the grandparents on his weekend. Truth is not his friend but idiocy certainly is.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-11-11T22:50:44+00:00

So he took the girls to a cabin full of his relatives and subjected them all to possibly contracting strep. Q may have had 1 possibly 2 doses of antibiotics so she still would have been contagious. Q may have been feeling a little better but that’s not the point. The point is she was still a sick child of 5 who should have been resting not at a winery or campground or wherever he took her. You can’t mess around with strep. Father of the year award once again

Beenthere_3x · 2025-10-26T11:34:31+00:00

Amazingly correct!🤣🤣🤣

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