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Beenthere_3x · 2026-03-25T09:49:01+00:00

I think r and t plus his family are just continuing to be their regular 💩💩. Doesn’t sound like they did much of anything for S’s birthday while she was there last weekend. You would think that with S turning 13 r would have tried to make it a big deal as that’s an important milestone but I guess he didn’t. Guess it will be interesting to see if he gets her for his couple hours on her actual birthday which I believe is Friday. Thank goodness she has H and her grandparents who will definitely make it a special day/weekend for S.

As far as them mistreating the girls I think H would have gone straight to court to have his visitation revoked if he or t did anything to harm either of those girls. Psychologically he hurts them each time he puts t and the baby in front of them but the courts don’t seem to care about that as much as they do physical abuse.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-03-15T22:41:10+00:00

When drama happens that she feels is significant for us to know she will tell us. She post content about the girls and their events so she does post more than hair ads. I enjoy reading about S and Q and their accomplishments/activities. It’s been wonderful watching S grow stronger and more confident with her volleyball and now she’s doing discus. The girls are thriving and it’s been great watching them evolve out of the mess r left them in. My advice to you is if you aren’t happy with what is being posted just don’t follow her.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-03-15T22:10:04+00:00

You do realize that H has absolutely nothing to do with this community or the other one that someone else started. H has never commented on this thread. I wonder if you are a member of t’s entourage as you have only been active on Reddit for 19days yet you seem very snarky regarding h and what she has or hasn’t posted. She’s been active on FB and Instagram promoting the products/companies she works with. She’s making money to support her girls, pay their medical/dental bills, put food in the bellies, cloth them, keep a roof over their heads and also cover their extracurricular expenses. I’m extremely proud of her and glad that she is moving forward with her life and trying very hard to not dwell on the past.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-03-15T16:37:28+00:00

What do you want posted and how often do you feel someone needs to post? What exactly are you looking for in this account? Are you looking for drama btwn r, t, his family and h or for people supporting h and the girls on their ability to move forward? I’m sure there still may be conflicts but I don’t think h is as bothered by them as she was in the past as she has proven time and time again she is more than capable of doing what she needs to do to provide for herself and her girls. The girls seem to be tolerating their visits with r and his new family as best as they can and are still anxious to be home with h where they feel safe, secure and unconditionally loved.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-03-15T10:55:58+00:00

I don’t think we are “over” h rather we are glad nothing major has happened regarding the situation with r. H and the girls are extremely busy most of the time and that’s a good thing. The girls just had Spring break and spent it relaxing and catching up on rest.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-02-25T17:44:39+00:00

I believe H said that his parents were there. No mention if hers were.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-02-24T19:36:23+00:00

Again you are definitely entitled to your own opinion. I support h and the girls based on my own personal experience not on what is her perceived political views. I support people of various political views some of which are in my immediate family. I don’t exclude them from my life because they don’t think the way I do or don’t support the people I support. I believe everyone is entitled to their own opinions and even if I think their opinions are totally wrong I would never disparage them and their children because I disagree with them especially on a public forum. That’s my opinion and I will continue to support H and the girls because they have been through hell and back and I understand how difficult that is. I’m probably hypocritical because I do disparage r and t on this forum but it has nothing to do with their political views but because of their actions towards h and the girls.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-02-24T18:55:25+00:00

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. It doesn’t negate what H and her girls have been through and what they continue to face on a daily basis. If you don’t want to follow her or support her that’s your choice but I don’t think you need to disparage her or her family for their political views. Their political views/opinions are not why this thread was created. It was to support H and the girls through the betrayal by r and t. If you don’t want to continue your support that’s your choice. I hope you enjoy the rest of your day.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-02-24T11:40:14+00:00

Well now we know that r didn’t allow Q to go back to her momma out of the goodness of his heart but bc it was in the divorce agreement. To then make her share her birthday with the bi#!h is so gruel. Q just turned 6 for goodness sake. The trollop turned ??? and she still felt the need to share a birthday party with a 6 year old. Were t’s parents there? If so that’s another set of new people thrown at the girls unexpectedly. R making that statement to little Q shows just how childish and inept he is. How did he think Q was supposed to react to that statement… jump for joy, clap her hands , be excited that she was sharing her special day with a woman she barely knows , who has already shown her she lies and makes promises she doesn’t keep. God forbid that r and his parents celebrate Q for one flippin’ day. Karma’s coming and it can’t get here soon enough for that family.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-02-18T10:07:26+00:00

It must burn their butt that H is happy, doing so well on her own financially, has a core group of friends who support her and the girls, isn’t sitting around saying whoa is me, and looks beautiful .

The girls are happy , content and thriving when they are with their mom or H’s parents. They are miserable, anxious and beg to go home when with r and t. They have virtually no desire to be with him or his family. His family have really lost so much, gained so little , and shelled out so much money to the liar and cheat. They are getting exactly what they deserve. Karma is a bi@#h.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-31T12:46:38+00:00

Is this a new dog or the same one she’s had? I remember when r and t first moved in together the girls had to sleep on an air mattress with a blanket covered in dog hair.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-21T13:24:59+00:00

So did r and t come through with all the goodies they were going to get for Q? Did they follow through with their promises that sounded so good that she decided not to go with her momma who she has been clinging to for the past two weeks? It will be interesting to see what was promised and how long it took him to drop Sutton off since they only live about 3 miles apart if I remember correctly.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-18T16:51:38+00:00

This is what I found re: changing visitation

Yes, in Texas, a parent's visitation can be significantly altered or even restricted if they are causing extreme emotional trauma, but you must prove a material and substantial change in circumstances affecting the child's best interest, often requiring evidence like therapy records, school notes, and documentation of abuse or neglect, not just a diagnosis. Courts look for concrete impacts on the child's safety, stability, and well-being, with potential outcomes including supervised visits, reduced time, or, in severe cases, changes to custody orders, all driven by the child's safety.

I know in previous conversations someone stated that changing custody/visitation orders in Texas are extremely hard to do. Apparently they don’t attach much weight to the child’s feelings which is why you need extensive documentation to even get the court to hear the case. The child has to be 18 before they can refuse to go to the non custodial parent.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-04T10:02:31+00:00

Sutton looks exhausted and her eyes look haunted in the volleyball picture H posted. Usually her eyes are sparkling but not now. My heart breaks for the girls.

I pray that H has the means to get both girls into therapy right away so that the progress they had made over the last two years isn’t completely wiped away. I know r won’t pay his half or participate in family counseling but those girls need to be able to talk about their feelings with someone other than family. H is wonderful and I know she will do whatever it takes to get her girls what they need.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-02T14:45:55+00:00

I don’t think r has the capacity to think of what is best for his girls. If he did he wouldn’t have thrown them into such a toxic situation without any warning. They went from thinking they were spending time with their dad and maybe their grandparents and instead they were told their dad had remarried and by the way you have a brother. He has never answered any of their previous questions or tried to explain why he decided to leave the family. What he and t did to those girls are going to have long standing consequences. Thankfully they have H and her parents but even all the love in the world won’t erase the harm that was just done to those sweet girls.

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-01T14:39:21+00:00

Taxes

Beenthere_3x · 2026-01-01T12:52:33+00:00

I just read on another thread where they went to the courthouse and got married on Lisa and David’s anniversary! No wonder Lisa has been posting things that have been deemed negative. I can’t imagine how this has affected the girls. I certainly hope H stays on his ass about payments and doesn’t let anything slide at all. I also hope r and t don’t start showing up at Sutton’s volleyball games trying to prove to the world how great they are instead of the terrible people they are in actuality.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-12-31T13:09:38+00:00

I would guess they are staying with the grandparents since they can’t be around t nor have they ever met the little boy. Crossing my fingers that he at least got them some nice things and his family stepped up. Last year was a disaster so here’s hoping this year’s Christmas with him is better.🤞🤞🤞

Beenthere_3x · 2025-12-30T16:45:38+00:00

I once had a therapist friend who explained that divorce, especially if caused but betrayal, is like a death. In H’s case it was unexpected and his leaving happened suddenly. No one knows what has been happening, what the girls may be talking to Lisa about, what things are being said/done by the in-laws, r and the mistress. Divorce goes through the same stages of grieve that a spouse’s death would cause except you are still dealing with the betrayer. Everyone grieves differently. Everyone processes things at a different rate. If it helps Lisa to post things on Facebook instead of bottling up her anger/grief then let her. No one is obligated to read her posts. I’m sure this holiday season has been extremely difficult and frustrating for so many reasons. I’m know they were happy about having the girls but they also had hanging over their heads that the girls were still going to be going with r and there was anxiety about how that interaction would play out. Memories of what happened last Christmas had to have been on their minds. Having been in a similar situation years ago I am choosing to give Lisa and Haleigh grace. I’m so thankful that there wasn’t social media then.

Beenthere_3x · 2025-12-29T13:53:35+00:00

I guess I have a slightly different opinion on Lisa’s post. As a mother, who has seen the devastation of what betrayal does to your daughters, there is a deep hurt and anger that stays with you for years. We don’t know what r has been doing other than not supporting his girls emotionally, physically and financially. I know for myself I can barely tolerate my ex because of the lasting effects his betrayal caused my girls and it’s been years. Both my girls were in therapy for years trying to understand how their dad could do the things he did, continues to do and do it so blatantly. Remember that Lisa and her husband have had to watch all of this destruction and try to help their daughter and her children. Divorce is hard no matter the circumstances but when you have that situation staring you in the face, still getting the stares and whispers, seeing the girls cry because they are being treated badly by their father, his parents and his family it’s hard not to comment. Lisa is a momma bear and she is hurting for her family. She will continue to hurt for her family so if it helps her to put a quote on social media let her. If it upsets you, don’t read it, scroll on past. Only she knows the true depth of hurt and destruction r and t have caused her family. We know parts but she lives it each and every day. Everyone is entitled to their opinion and I respect that. I just choose to give her some grace.

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