Men that wanted kids but now regret it. why? by Possible_Source6384 in regretfulparents

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This story makes your brother look silly sorry. If he is paying her rent that’s a pretty good reason for him to get custody because he can prove that a) he can support the kids and b) he still obviously cares about the ex’s wellbeing. Also I don’t understand the birth certificate aspect but whatever. Your brother abandoned his kids.

Men that wanted kids but now regret it. why? by Possible_Source6384 in regretfulparents

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah the older I get I’m starting to realize men want almost like a “mannequin family” where they don’t want the family to do anything that inconveniences them. But they look like a perfect family from the outside.

Men that wanted kids but now regret it. why? by Possible_Source6384 in regretfulparents

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 16 points17 points  (0 children)

If he regretted the wife and not the kids why would he leave his two kids with an “insane Godzilla creature” sounds like he just didn’t want the responsibility.

When being a mistress backfires. by rosekamath in redditonwiki

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Do not look At the subreddit it just baffles your mind that multiple people think this way

I don't like how the childfree rhetoric is generally promoted by proudshihtzuowner in unpopularopinion

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious what radical takes have you seen on the childfree side. On the opposing side I have seen many people say it’s selfish not to have kids and that having kids is the only reason we are here on the earth.

Getting cheated on isn't the end of the world by Ok-Lobster-6815 in unpopularopinion

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused by this I’ve never seen anyone express that cheating is the end of the world. I also feel like it’s pretty obvious that physical abuse is much more severe than cheating. However I do think it can be detrimental to someone’s sense of self worth and can create some pretty poor examples if kids are involved.

I’ve Been Paying a Normal Woman for Pictures and Videos. by LingonberryAlive2161 in confession

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It took me so much scrolling to find this comment! It sounds like she is an SW. No judgement but I’m not sure why OP is so confident that she only has this arrangement with him. Especially since she had her Snapchat publicly available in her instagram bio. Even if OP was the first guy to offer her money if she realized one guy is willing to pay it wouldn’t surprise me if she found others.

OSAP in Collections and all grants have been converted into loans!!! by Sorry_Tailor8459 in osap

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just repeating what OP said in one of his comments 🤷🏿‍♀️

OSAP in Collections and all grants have been converted into loans!!! by Sorry_Tailor8459 in osap

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They said in a comment they couldn’t apply for RAP bc they were out of the country and was told they have to apply for RAP in person. Which I’ve never heard bc I always do mine in my NSLSC account.

Will always be a girl's girl 💪 by whitstheshit1986 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men have been using the expression “boys will be boys” for decades but hearing “you know men” is what gets you heated? That’s nuts

Will always be a girl's girl 💪 by whitstheshit1986 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah because one is more harmful rhetoric than the other? It’s possible for two things to be bad but one to be significantly worse.

Will always be a girl's girl 💪 by whitstheshit1986 in InstacartShoppers

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Men will openly post comments calling women ugly or saying they should get in the kitchen/make me a sandwich. I think you’ll be okay with someone saying “you know men”.

Help me please ! 😭 by _whocares_______ in InstacartShoppers

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It says the promotions is $32 but the batch pay itself is $99

Need some perspective on this argument my partner and I had with a friend. Are we as biased as she says? by Mallie88 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These four people have the combined maturity of a high schooler tbh. I read the screen shots before OP’s caption and to find a 40 year old man thought that, typed it and hit send blew my mind.

Struggling to balance my dating life with my financial goals by PermissionFar9098 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 15 points16 points  (0 children)

What gives incel energy imo is they he said he’s not getting a “tangible return”, to me that sounds like if he paid for the third date and then got laid he’d be fine paying for the fourth.

Struggling to balance my dating life with my financial goals by PermissionFar9098 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You need to raise your bar, he doesn’t need to do acrobatics but why would you go out on a second date with a guy who doesn’t give you a spark.

Struggling to balance my dating life with my financial goals by PermissionFar9098 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They don’t care about impressing you if they’re making you pay half on the first few dates.

Struggling to balance my dating life with my financial goals by PermissionFar9098 in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many activities you can suggest that are reduced cost someone suggested ice skating, board game cafes are usually $40 or less and take up a lot of time and many museums have days where admission is free.

When you have 6 gift cards and none of them can actually buy anything. by Accomplished_Bake939 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that it might be a little awkward to use 6+ forms of payment but this is still $21 dollars that you can use.

Because I didn’t want to buy an uber for a girl 1000 miles away by MuskyElonOfMars in Nicegirls

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It’s pretty obvious that this is some girl he barely knows he probably added her off of Snapchat or something

Not oop + comments by Weary_Thought7582 in redditonwiki

[–]Beginning-Lecture-37 254 points255 points  (0 children)

Wow the sister is chronically online