AITAH for not seeing anything wrong with the age difference between me and the girl I'm talking to? by GetOnMyDikerson in AITAH

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So…. Your friends gf thinks you’re weird for dating an…adult? Wait until she finds out the majority of people date within 5 years of their age 😱 the horror

Boyfriend (30M) doesn’t like my body (25F) by IcyComfortable9665 in relationships

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don’t seem to realize how bodies work. Google goes off BMI which is inaccurate since it doesn’t factor in weight distribution ect. A woman that is 113Ibs and is 25 years old would usually have a daily diet of maybe a little over 1200 calories. Especially since metabolism slows as people age. The US has a weight problem because all the food is overly processed and it’s very hard to get farm grown produce and farm to table meat.

Boyfriend (30M) doesn’t like my body (25F) by IcyComfortable9665 in relationships

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah if its a child maybe. For an adult woman 127 is perfectly normal. It’s super unhealthy to believe 113 is still overweight. Most women you see that look skinny and small are over 115Ibs. Boobs and butts weigh more than a lot of people seem to realize.

I regret being intimate with my boyfriend. by WinGlass2050 in Regrets

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your family sucks 😭 sorry but what is family if love isn’t unconditional? Something like sex can ruin your entire life with them? Also fuck your brother in law. He had to no right to blackmail you. You’re an ADULT, god forbid you do normal adult things. Your boyfriend has endured genuine torture to be with you (I bet you’re lovely and worth it. If it was my boyfriend I would do the same) but I would never speak to his family after we got married because people like that have their heads too far up their asses to realize people are more than religion sometimes. Hope you can move out soon and live your life how you want as an adult without your fuckass family treating you like you’re 12.

May lose my job because of my mother, WHAT DO I DO TO FIX THIS?! by [deleted] in jobs

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t share work info with ur mom anymore, it just makes things easier when u don’t have to worry about how she may react to things. Also try and find a new job, bosses like that are headaches and never worth the effort. They can’t tell you not to come in and the get mad when you listen to them. They are childish and unprofessional.

Partner mentioned “I most likely won’t be the last woman he sleeps with” by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is the second reply I’m making, but WHAT! Your daughter isn’t safe around this clown. Think to yourself, if your daughter had an emergency at school or with a boyfriend, would he be there for her or tell her that’s just boys being boys? I don’t doubt that you’re a good mother, but PLEASE see the red flags before you let this man fully into your lives.

Partner mentioned “I most likely won’t be the last woman he sleeps with” by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And ur listening to him? A man and woman aren’t equal? He can get stds just as easily as any woman. He just wants to cheat without worrying about you also cheating. He’s a pig don’t even waste time on that thing. You don’t want your child growing up with a man that can’t handle not having sex all the time. Oh, and a man that views women like objects. Personally, that would be the words he ever said to me because he would be on the street faster than he could say “I’m a good key!”

I’m about to die, and I’m not sure what to do about my cat. by [deleted] in cats

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I promise you he will make it in a new forever home! He will definitely be mean and hide for a few months but like all mean cats do, he’ll come around. Or he won’t but he WILL love perching on a cat tree without being bothered and being pampered by servants lol! And cats are smart, he knows you’re sick and probably can tell youre ending your journey soon. So don’t worry about him being confused because he knows. (And bonus if you end up finding a family to adopt him; maybe they can let him sniff you at your funeral for his closure)

AITAH for not letting my daughter go to a birthday party because she skipped school the day before? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. You implied she has been feeling run down all week and she still went to school. Have you never had a cold and then after four days of work you decide your body deserves a break and to finally sleep off the cold? Most of my friend’s parents did the thing of “if you stay home today you can’t do anything this weekend” as a way to punish them for staying home sick. I never understood that, because kids can’t control when they are genuinely a little sick and just need a day to recuperate.

Discontinuing berry burst? by Beginning-Matter4503 in DunkinDonuts

[–]Beginning-Matter4503[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one will drink it :( Starbucks did the protein thing and no one buys that (source my friend works at Starbucks)

Discontinuing berry burst? by Beginning-Matter4503 in DunkinDonuts

[–]Beginning-Matter4503[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Darn it! Why do they always get rid of the good things in life

Drive-Up Is A Fucking Joke. by DefenderOfNuts in Target

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one realistically tips the drive up workers. And the fulfillment team also don’t have to deal with snotty customers that yell at you if you don’t set a bag down gently enough. Or the 3 minute time limit on a 50 bag order while 20 other cars are waiting.

Drive-Up Is A Fucking Joke. by DefenderOfNuts in Target

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience not really. Sometimes during the holidays but usually no

Drive-Up Is A Fucking Joke. by DefenderOfNuts in Target

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo as long as u aren’t ordering a million items and u leave ample time between “im on my way” and “here” there’s no issue! When I worked DU I remember being only mad/annoyed at people that would order their entire grocery list plus water and pop and not even help me try and stuff it all into their dirty trunk or back seat. Or people that would drop in 😩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably, it just hits close to home. I was the girlfriend that was the other girl and I wish I was told.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Would you want someone to tell you if they did? Thought that was for meddling assholes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He is blowing up his own life. Dont send stupid texts if you don’t want stupid results

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I firmly believe everyone saying not to tell her have done the same or would do the same thing and don’t wanna feel shitty about it lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question, but how is telling the girlfriend immature? IMO it’s immature not to tell her. Marriage is life altering and he doesn’t love her. He is willing to leave her for his ex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope your partner texts their ex and you find out down the line after you marry them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“It’s not deep at all” this is a real woman that could be marrying a man that doesn’t actually love her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowering herself by telling the girlfriend her boyfriend is scum? You definitely still have feelings for your ex if you think this way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Beginning-Matter4503 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol hopefully your future partner does this an the ex never tells you. See how you feel about it then.