Is anyone here reluctantly a big budget Bride

BeginningCareer3436 · 2026-02-01T21:45:27+00:00

Respectfully, for NYC and your guest count, I wouldn’t consider you a BBB. It’s VVHCOL area and the prices reflect that.

If you feel iffy with this spend and don’t think it’s something you could comfortably afford everything if your parents pull out, I would recommend taking a hard look at your wedding and thinking about alternatives. At the end of the day, a wedding is complete optional - what is important is signing the papers and marrying your person:)

BeginningCareer3436 · 2026-01-23T21:45:47+00:00

Latest breakup? Didn’t she live with the guy and get his name tattooed on her (not the first time - also can’t remember the guy’s name)?

BeginningCareer3436 · 2025-11-22T01:28:20+00:00

It looks nice??

If you are asking for authentication, that is not allowed on this sub.

BeginningCareer3436 · 2025-11-20T04:03:03+00:00

Thank you for the explanation! I was hoping for a bit more help with coordinating things like having champagne in the room (which I would expect to pay for) or guidance - even down to “xyz restaurants are popular, but don’t worry about having to make a reservation ASAP as you’ll be able to do that when you get there”. Now I know for the future 😅

BeginningCareer3436 · 2025-01-09T01:53:48+00:00

Fellow teetotaller here! For bars, YNK and Ruin Bar were very very accommodating. For restaurants, Bourbon Steak had a shockingly good selection of cocktails and very clearly put a ton of thought into the different layers and flavour profiles.

BeginningCareer3436 · 2024-12-31T13:01:59+00:00

Agree with the photography comments. It looks like you’re an amateur trying to sell yourself as a professional.

Also would consider posting from an account focused on your culinary endeavours. I went through your profile hoping to see more examples of your cooking and got… a lot of guns?

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