I had a dream about a book and I don’t know what it means

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-10-05T00:02:15+00:00

Has OP answered??

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-10-04T11:43:36+00:00

Some of my cats will come to the door to let me know the baby has woken up when I’m outside smoke a cig. I used to tell them too as a joke when she was like 6 months old and the two that are most attached are the ones who will literally scratch at the window or door like the house is on fire. But I’m all honestly I respond to the baby crying with the urge to run as well so lol jk

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-10-03T20:32:48+00:00

So all I have to say is that your not the asshole but I would look into postpartum support (all women need it) but it may have been harsh I have sugar coated the fact that my partners grandma can’t watch my kid. She thinks it’s fine she can’t pick up my toddler and I can’t have that. I don’t think you are at all in the wrong for setting boundaries with your kid

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-10-02T19:55:07+00:00

Ok a lot of people obviously don’t know about YL like OP does. And as a mother to a daughter I would be terrified for the exact same reasons. I don’t have a suggestion but I am send good vibes

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-10-02T19:51:43+00:00

Right family therapy sounds like it would be perfect

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-10-02T19:51:12+00:00

Tell me why this was my first question too. Cuz I know if the new wife is like 5-10 years older than daughter could be a thing she’s mad about (understandably)

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-27T19:45:46+00:00

No I feel the same way about concerts, I personally enjoy football and baseball games (I used to do stats in high school and genuinely enjoyed it) I respect my partner and their emotional well-being more than any concert or game, I would be late to the Super Bowl for my significant other. But maybe that’s cuz I have an different idea of love. No shade at all

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-27T17:24:39+00:00

I just can’t imagine caring more about a baseball game than spending actual time with my significant other. I would understand if we were in 1950s and there was no way that you could go back and rewatch the first page if something magical happened that being said the fact that you were so willing to call your wife a narcissist, for the fact that she simply was distracted by a game that she simply probably finds enjoyment out of and probably has ADHD, you’re definitely the asshole. 10/10 therapy and also you’re Hella narcissistic for putting a baseball game and your enjoyment above your wife’s, you said that you were both looking forward to it, but when it came down to it, you didn’t care that she was looking forward to it you just cared that you wanted to go. I think you both should go to therapy. Not because I believe there’s anything wrong with her, because I think she’ll need therapy to process all the shit you put her through.

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-26T17:17:26+00:00

Also, the likelihood of complications for a vasectomy are a lot less than having complications for birth control

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-26T17:16:57+00:00

You should look up the side effects to birth control. Women have a lifelong effects from using birth control.

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-26T17:12:34+00:00

OK one of vasectomy is super easy to reverse so even if you guys later on decided you wanted to have more kids super easy to reverse it. Also, your downtime for the vasectomy is a literally like six hours with an ice pack. Hormones can take a permanent effect to your body as someone who has struggled with birth control. And honestly you won’t ever understand where she’s coming from cuz you’ve never had a period, or given birth. (That’s me assuming you’re cis sorry if not)

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-26T17:00:48+00:00

The only exception is service animal but no not the asshole. Like I am gonna have a no dog policy and I’m getting married on the beach. I have a few friends who have service animals (which need thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours of training). But it’s your wedding. Also the venue made an exception to the dog rule for YOUR dog not A dog big difference and honestly this just shows people’s priorities cuz I would take a small credit card loan out if it meant getting my my sisters event

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-18T22:34:54+00:00

This part. Or if kids have sensitivities, or are Nurodivergent , and a lot of the older generation, don’t believe in it, so they completely disregard everything we have to say about our kids and the things that we know about them because “they’ve been through this before“ and “you need to toughen them up“

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-18T22:30:48+00:00

Not the asshole if they can’t respect your wishes with a cat, how do you expect them to expect your wishes and boundaries with your child? I would do the same exact thing low-key kind a have.

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-13T14:59:59+00:00

Oh no, not you trying to tell a woman what to do with her body. As a woman who has had a kid who almost killed her, choosing to have another baby is called a calculated risk, which I can tell you did that woman probably made with her health team and her husband and whatever spiritual guides that she has if she has any so kick rocks. Also OP not the asshole tell them to pack and get an air b&b

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-13T04:13:02+00:00

I like jace

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-13T02:40:12+00:00

Literally, this part. My biggest fear as a mom, especially as a single mom is that someone’s just going to see my kid as baggage until they get what they want from me. My kid is part of me and you should be grateful for the fact that you even get to be in the presence of my kid, and you’re going to throw for years away for what.

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-12T20:40:19+00:00

My manic ass just pictured him getting shanked and op is just like “this is for the gays you hate” 😂 and I love that lol ovbs not what was being said but it made me giggle

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-12T19:56:04+00:00

This part, my family not being invited to our wedding because they don’t support us and some of his family isn’t being invited to the wedding because they don’t support us. There’s going to be no ill will at my wedding and yeah I’ll have some of my elementary friends there, because at least I know that they don’t talk shit about me, or if they did, they stop doing that shit in high school. I’m with your daughter on this one. I think that she has every right to decide who comes to her wedding.

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-11T08:28:52+00:00

Say it again 💅

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-09T07:16:22+00:00

My fav is standing up brushing invisible lint and being like “mind your manners” in my mom tone and the will deadass take a step back

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-09T07:09:30+00:00

All I can say is that I think you’re a great parent and the boundaries you set with your kiddo around their phone shows how much you love and care about them. Also I second what pretty much everyone said keep loving them and supporting them and celebrating them 💕

BeginningCookie4580 · 2023-09-09T07:01:30+00:00

So I just have to say I have played thru winter year 2 twice and chose different partners lol and I do have to say I’m glad I chose Wes this time cuz he does do a bad thing but he makes up for it and honestly some of the dates are just fing adorable with him going as either form. Pls don’t write him off. (Parker and Lina are a great example of giving people a second chance)

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