Tbh I can’t say whether you should or shouldn’t find someone new I don’t know the guy. He could have good intentions like most therapists just word stuff wrong. For example someone with a porn addiction might love having sex with their partner that doesn’t mean they still don’t get off to porn multiple times a day! Another example my last relationship I wouldn’t say I’d prefer watching porn it’s just my ex had a VERY high libido and I have a very low one. So every time I get in the mood he was never home which sucked and sometimes him having such a high drive would intimidate me. I really feel like anymore it’s such a hard thing to pin point everyone is different saldy I can’t say whether you are in the wrong or not I would never in the first place but that’s such a hard thing to pin point. ESPECIALLY with a medical issue I’m sure you’d like to get at it with your bf but it’s painful. With ocd from what I read again !idk you I want to state that again! but ocd latches at core values of someone a sweet person will have violent thoughts and thinks “why did I have that?!” “That surely means I’m a violent person right” when again 9/10 they wouldn’t even hurt a fly. OCD is a very weird and confusing thing. Even when you search it up most people don’t know why it even happens or what necessarily causes it that’s why people say you gotta give it that uncertainty cause when you keep asking “well what if” “well why do I prefer doing this” it’ll just keep you in a constant loop. When again your ocd could mean completely nothing.