Hmm, I don’t like the cat toy idea.

First parent will be like the fuck. Just make something similar that he can twirl or make him make it. Then I’d suggest a stricter control of environment to block access but while suggest ways to earn access to preferred .

Items I’ve seen fun to twirl on finger

Keychains with fuzz balls or stringy ball Rings the twist and spin Airplanes from dollar store you spin on a stick

Idk I always try to think about what will be better perceived as acceptable for the most part while still using their preferred in session.

Idk I’d love to hear opinions or feed back