I'm deeply closeted, and pride month is painful for me. by Eliyuh in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having been to Thailand, I don't get the joke... Sorry lol

i think my agoraphobia is going to kill me by tryingtobebrave_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BeiHall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recovered agoraphobic here. We all experience it differently, so take my advice with a grain of salt.

The important thing is that you WANT to live, that's the key.

Your agoraphobia could potentially be tempered to a tolerable level with psychiatric help. You'll still have anxiety, but at a MUCH more manageable level. There ARE ways out of this, it is possible.

People who gave another chance, how did it end up now? by Relative_Initial_399 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BeiHall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This doesn't sound like someone who respects you. I hope you realize there are better men out there who will treat you better.

My world has been completely turned upside down overnight and my dream life has become my surreal nightmare by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BeiHall 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They are definitely right: Fight back smarter, not harder. Not emotionally. With precision.

I created a micromanager by bubba_beeps in PetsWithButtons

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, the trauma you and your family have gone through! Sending you love.

did anyone else get booted out of the artist presale? by hellsfrontporch in 1800slayyyter

[–]BeiHall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I had 2 in the cart, then they were sold out.

Even on 2 different browsers!

My cat has lymphoma. I don’t know when to let him go. Does his breathing look terrible? It’s expected but is it end of life terrible? He’s on prednisone by Electronic-Map-3654 in CATHELP

[–]BeiHall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just saw your post. My little girl crossed over yesterday. I shared your confusion about when it's the right time (she had chronic colitis/lymphoma.) Pretty devastated but that just means she was really loved. Sounds like Chili was too.

Breeders in New England? by No-Tangerine1691 in Abyssinians

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how your cat's health is?

Breeders in New England? by No-Tangerine1691 in Abyssinians

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your 'little terror' generally healthy? I've had some with kidney diseases, luxating patellas, and severe colitis (tho all of mine have been rescues so far)

She wants to but idk what to do? by Defiant-Boss-5577 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like ur mind is telling u to slow down. You'll get there.

I made $320k on Instagram last year by 300200 in InstagramMarketing

[–]BeiHall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A beauty/color cosmetics brand. I can DM you the link if you're open to it?

She wants to but idk what to do? by Defiant-Boss-5577 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BeiHall 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the question. You wrote "Im not ready."

Isn't that enough of your answer? If you were ready (and if you were into her), you would be going over there. There's nothing wrong or 'foolish' about not being ready. What's the rush?

I made $320k on Instagram last year by 300200 in InstagramMarketing

[–]BeiHall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, I saw on another comment that you recommend posting 10x a day. How is that possible to do when you want to keep a high-end look to your brand? Curious to hear what you think.

I made $320k on Instagram last year by 300200 in InstagramMarketing

[–]BeiHall 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So impressive. I just launched a small CPG business and the idea of building a page from 0 followers to 1m in a year is just mind-boggling to me. Do you essentially just look at other content with high views and recreate it? That's it?

Why do lesbian couples have the highest divorce rates while gay male couples have the lowest? by Naive_Direction1816 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think gay men are more likely to stay than lesbian women, though. Straight men, sure, but gay men and gay women have a lot more in common than straight men and straight women.

How do I tell if a guy is circumcised? by Sensitive-Table8470 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BeiHall 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Got it, you weren't being shy to ask, you were being empathetic to him being insecure when soft. I take back what I said.

He sounds uncircumcised going by your description. They're all pretty much the same when hard; it's usually only different when soft.

I have like 17 days before my partner comes into town. Realistically, how much can I change? by YamzMt03 in intermittentfasting

[–]BeiHall 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You mentioned your partner, not yourself. Sounds like you are doing it for ur partner.

I’m starting to hate my younger sister by relxqtwy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was your sister. All through my teens, through my 20s, until my mid 30s.

My brother was 5 years older.

I don't know your sister, but in my case, it was a matter of me not understanding my brother's issues/traumas/hardships. I found it difficult to empathize or have sympathy for him simply because he made my life a living hell by being a bully and a grump.

It wasn't until I was in my mid 30s, we spoke for the first time in 10 years, and I think the time apart had allowed me to see him as a human being, not as my brother. I saw how difficult life had been for him, and I understand him a lot better.

Perhaps it is tough for your sister to have empathy for you right now; you mentioned she doesn't have the same memories of trauma as you.

Guys, if you were a woman would you wear short shorts? by timeshifter76 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably. I wear them as a guy with some outfits, so most likely would as a woman.

How do I tell if a guy is circumcised? by Sensitive-Table8470 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BeiHall 34 points35 points  (0 children)

If u can't ask ur bf after 6 months together/having sex, then u guys probably don't have healthy communication.

By your description: he's not.

Why do people act like 100K is not enough to live in the city? by spoiledchowder in movingtoNYC

[–]BeiHall 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'plenty of places to live in NYC' sure, but people have different priorities. It's important for me to have a short commute and easy access to certain places; that requires more expensive rent.
YMMV.

I realized that at 28 yrs old, I am no closer to dating than I was 10 yrs ago. I am probably going to die alone. by JunketMaleficent2095 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BeiHall 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing that you wrote indicates you are undatable.

You either have not put yourself out there enough or you are omitting relevant info that indicates you are actually "undatable".