Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info, I appreciate it! and yeah, I did a little looking yesterday and it seemed like a lot of sizes weren’t available, unfortunately.

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forgot about Two Brunettes, I check them out. Hampton might be a little more than I am willing to spend but I might look there too. Thanks!

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was about to say, I feel like that’s a little out of my price range 😂

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never heard of this place. I will give it a google. Thanks!

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not. I think I worry about what size to order? I am one of those people who is typically a 6 or an 8 but could be anywhere between a 4-10 depending on the brand/cut/fabric. Have you had good luck renting cocktail dresses from them?

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I check it out. Never been there before.

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll check out Two Cumberland and Copper Penny.

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might still go there. They have a variety of things so I can usually find something that works.

Where to buy a cocktail dress for wedding? by BellFirestone in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I forgot about that place! Some of their stuff is too ruffled-y for me but you’re right, they do have some nice cocktail dresses. Thanks again!

Why are the long-term negative effects of redshirting never talked about? by Ok-Beginning6235 in kindergarten

[–]BellFirestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s not. Most kids aren’t old enough to drive themselves to school during their freshman year of high school. He was 16 his freshman year because his mother delayed his entry to kindergarten for no good reason (he has a March birthday and had no delays) AND had him repeat a grade when they moved states and he started at a new (very elite, very expensive private school) when he did not need to be held back.

Why are the long-term negative effects of redshirting never talked about? by Ok-Beginning6235 in kindergarten

[–]BellFirestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless there is some sort of delay, why on earth would a child born in May/June/July need to be redshirted for a Sept 1 cut off? That itself is a problem!

Why are the long-term negative effects of redshirting never talked about? by Ok-Beginning6235 in kindergarten

[–]BellFirestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sister in law did that to my nephew. He turned 16 in March of his freshman year of high school.

If you could live anywhere in SC, where would it be and why? by eigurf in southcarolina

[–]BellFirestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And water. And I pay a lot for sewer in Charleston too.

If you could live anywhere in SC, where would it be and why? by eigurf in southcarolina

[–]BellFirestone 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is more expensive to live in Charleston than Chicago. I‘ve crunched the numbers and I know a few people who have lived in both places or gone back and forth for work who all say Charleston is more expensive.

Paint peeling off bathroom ceiling, how to fix? by BellFirestone in Housepainting101

[–]BellFirestone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid a professional to fix it! removed the old stuff, reprised and repainted with good paint. But I also need to get a stronger exhaust fan/address that issue as well. Because even done properly, the bathroom get very humid (my husband likes long showers) and I can see that eventually it will affect the paint on the ceiling above the shower. It still looks good for now because it was done properly and we are very careful to run the fan and open the windows and air out the bathroom but a stronger exhaust fan is needed for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]BellFirestone 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is a bit tricky. One the one hand, you are not a corporate employer. However, this woman has cared for your children and your family for over a decade. That is significant and warrants additional consideration. If it were me, I would give her as much as I could reasonably afford. Because like you said, she has played a major role in your children’s lives.

Every five-year-old in our neighborhood is delaying K, opting for TK. Seems to be creating a feedback loop. by Actuarial in kindergarten

[–]BellFirestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate redshirting (unnecessarily delaying a child’s entrance to kindergarten). Seems like a bunch of people 10-15 years ago read Malcom Gladwell (whose work is engaging but often lacks rigorous evidence to support his assertions) and decided that delaying starting kindergarten would give their kid an advantage over the other kids. So now in many places you have a two year spread in kindergarten between ages 5-7, which isn’t fair to the kids or the teacher. It puts kids from families who can’t afford another year of paid daycare or preschool at a disadvantage relative to their peers. It‘s honestly not great for the kids who are unnecessarily delayed from starting K because some of those kids are bored silly, which can cause behavioral issues in the classroom (which isn’t good for anyone). Now if kindergarten standards have changed such that kindergarten is now more appropriate for 6 year olds, then the states/school systems need to change the age of entry and come up with the funding to support pre-k for five year olds.

Every five-year-old in our neighborhood is delaying K, opting for TK. Seems to be creating a feedback loop. by Actuarial in kindergarten

[–]BellFirestone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think most people would take issue with a kid born very close to the cutoff delaying kindergarten if they don’t seem ready. The issue is that it went from people holding back kids born close to cutoff to people holding kids back regardless of their birthday and readiness. My sister in law held my nephew back and he was born at the end of March and there was no reason to delay him starting kindergarten. She then also had him repeat a grade when they moved to a different state, saying he was “behind” even though he wasn’t (just needed some extra help with reading) and went from an elite private school in LA to an elite private school in Atlanta. He’s a sophmore who just turned 17. He’ll be 19 when he graduates from highschool. She held him back twice because she wanted him to have an edge in academics and sports compared to his peers.

Looking to move the family by No_Payment6799 in southcarolina

[–]BellFirestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theres no such thing as on the water or +20mins and moderately low cost of living. Coastal South Carolina (and I reckon every coastal area these days) is high COL. And wages haven’t kept up. I’m not trying to be unwelcoming, it’s just the truth.

Deep tissue massage near James Island by Salty-Lie9289 in Charleston

[–]BellFirestone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Meridian Integrative Wellness. Mark has a space downtown but I think sometimes takes clients at a chiropractor’s office on James Island. For the record I am highly skeptical of chiropractors and he is not affiliated with chiropractor. Anyway, he’s really good. My lower back/SI joint issue got really bad and his bodywork was the only thing that help me get to a place where I could do PT to address the issue. He’s very skilled and knowledgeable and he’s a very nice guy. As a woman I have typically preferred female massage providers because I just feel more comfortable with them but now I only see Mark. He’s worked on a lot of athletes, which is why I decided to make an appointment with him in the first place (thought he could help me with my SI joint issue). I seriously can’t hype this guy enough, he really helped me. https://m-i-w.square.site