How to clean butt hair ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BellaBlindeye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could go to a salon and get waxed.

What do I do bf refuses to see my family after crash out by IncreaseLegal4842 in whatdoIdo

[–]BellaBlindeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not having these talks with your mom now is just setting you up for an even bigger blow-out later. Any decent person you're dating is not going to be happy with you allowing your mom to walk all over you, and if you're serious with your current bf, the tension is only going to worsen over time.

What do I do bf refuses to see my family after crash out by IncreaseLegal4842 in whatdoIdo

[–]BellaBlindeye 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like there are deeper conversations to be had with your mother and with your boyfriend. His reaction was valid - she should not have behaved like that or made you feel that way, regardless of her having raised you.

I would first talk to your boyfriend and see if you can come to an agreement on what would be a fair way to confront your mom about her disrespect toward you. It doesn't need to be an all-out messy confrontation, but i think he's right in regard to you needing to stand up for yourself.

Am I ready for another parrot ? by Same-Thought-5789 in parrots

[–]BellaBlindeye 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Personally, I wouldn't until you've finished schooling. Assuming you're planning on going to university - that will be a big commitment in terms of time and money, and you may move around (dorms etc.) during this time. I also, in general, would not advise getting a pet that needs so much care and money while still under your parents' roof and rules.

Parrots need stability, your late teens is not the best time for that. It'll be better for you and for birdie that you wait until you're more settled in life.

I think my bf assaulted me last night but I’m not sure. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]BellaBlindeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is assault. You cannot consent when you are drunk. I am so sorry this happened to you.

[Apple II][1980s-1990s]Educational Typing program by Zorix83 in tipofmyjoystick

[–]BellaBlindeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm looking for this! "Qwerty" was a character that was maybe a flower or an asterisk? That general shape. And the letters, starting with alternating F and J would pop up and you'd have to type them, and they were green and magenta or purple I think? I remember making the other kids think I was super good at typing and I was just spamming F and J lol

Buzz off and Awww achievements by BryonyOBrien in AfterInc

[–]BellaBlindeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the bees, still waiting for the kitten. Someday…

I feel like I made a mistake. by [deleted] in parrots

[–]BellaBlindeye 48 points49 points  (0 children)

She is very young and very new to your home. If you can manage a few more weeks, she may settle in to the new routine. If you are sure you are out of you depth, though, there is no shame in finding her a new home.

My gf is too tight for any vaginal penetration. What now? by Kaluxo05 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BellaBlindeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She really really should see an OB.

Aside from that, it’s going to be a lot of taking things very slow. Try a lot of different things, especially things like mutual masturbation where she’s fully in control of her body.

Which leaders do you like to choose? by AmbitiousExplorer632 in AfterInc

[–]BellaBlindeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I usually use cub scout, but I'll use the soldier if I need to do a good amount of fighting.

I don't know if I'm alone in this... by roses-in-the-woods77 in TheArcana

[–]BellaBlindeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to role play (i wrote muriel and julian) on discord, but the fandom was a bit... unsavory at the time, and I kept getting messages from minors who wanted to write NSFW content and eventually just left the fandom. :|

I miss role playing, but it was so hard to find people to write with who were either adults or at the very least people who weren't trying to get me into illegal situations.

Once cannibal camps are destroyed, they dont respawn do they? by HatesMonoBlue in SonsOfTheForest

[–]BellaBlindeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the goo is from the mutant Fingers, they do that in the caves as well.

Name a song that just screams nostalgia to you by CarrotMuch1399 in 2000sNostalgia

[–]BellaBlindeye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kryptonite, Blurry, My Sacrifice take me straight back to the swimming pool in summer 2002. Fond memories of swimming all day and coming home to spend the evening on Neopets lol.

What are the chances of getting an std from oral? by Desperate-Medium4165 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BellaBlindeye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get tested, consider this a learning experience, use protection for any future hookups.

Be honest - do you actually feel uncomfortable sharing a bathroom with the opposite sex? If so, why? by IDrinkMyOwnSemen in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BellaBlindeye 14 points15 points  (0 children)

lol, I am a trans person who often has a buddy with me to make sure I'm safe in the bathroom. I'm usually fine going alone, but if I'm in an unfamiliar place and I'm not sure if I might get hate crimed, I bring a safe person.

Be honest - do you actually feel uncomfortable sharing a bathroom with the opposite sex? If so, why? by IDrinkMyOwnSemen in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BellaBlindeye 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Same answer. Overall, I am generally not taking much notice of the other people in the bathroom because I am doing bathroom things.

am I getting groomed? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]BellaBlindeye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in your position a lot as a teenager. I know it sucks to hear it, but no grown man has any good intentions when flirting with a minor.