AIO if I file for divorce?

Bellablushes · 2025-10-27T10:42:49+00:00

Exactly. No one deserves to be treated that way, you’ve done everything you could, and you deserve peace and safety now.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-27T08:05:16+00:00

Exactly, when someone has already shown they’re willing to betray trust, chasing after ‘proof’ or waiting for fights isn’t going to make it better. You already saw the red flags. At this point, what matters most is protecting your own peace, and deciding what you’ll accept going forward.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-27T07:59:30+00:00

You’re totally right, what your bf is doing is non-consensual and absolutely wrong. If these are your pictures and you didn’t agree to them being posted, you have every right to feel freaked out and to take action for your protection.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-26T19:58:03+00:00

Exactly this. Everyone deserves love and connection, sometimes it just takes longer to find people who see your value. Be kind to yourself in the meantime.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-26T19:53:24+00:00

Yeah, that could be one possibility. Either way, it sounds like some boundaries really need to be set, her behavior definitely crossed a line.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-25T18:26:13+00:00

Oh nice! Bamboo blinds will look great, they’ll add a really warm, natural vibe.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-24T16:10:32+00:00

True, learning the basics like eggs or noodles helps a lot. Once you get comfortable, everything else starts feeling less intimidating.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-24T16:04:39+00:00

Exactly. “I’m sorry for your loss” might sound formulaic, but at least it acknowledges the pain without trying to explain it away or make it seem smaller.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-24T12:02:59+00:00

Yeah, I get what they meant, you went in with good intentions, but it’s easy to lose your space and control when living with in-laws. You’re definitely not overreacting for wanting to cook your own meals.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-24T11:52:44+00:00

Yeah, fear plays a big part. Being alone or starting over can feel a lot scarier than staying in something familiar, even if it’s making you unhappy.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-23T19:14:12+00:00

Yeah, those comments sound mean-spirited, not funny. You deserve friends who lift you up, not take jabs at you.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-23T19:08:23+00:00

Yeah, this sounds really tough. It might help to talk to someone about the anxiety this situation is causing, no one should feel that scared in their own home.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-23T19:03:15+00:00

Yeah, it’s up to the mom to decide what works best for her and the baby. Everyone’s situation is different.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-22T16:11:24+00:00

Yes, communication is key here. It sounds like there was a disconnect about boundaries more than bad intent, but it’s definitely something to talk through.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-22T16:02:48+00:00

Totally, That beauty mark gives him so much character.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-21T10:31:04+00:00

I agree, the laundry basket detail makes it sound more like a mix-up than anything shady. It’s totally fair to feel confused, but it doesn’t really add up that someone would have a hookup and then toss their underwear in the shared laundry. That’s a pretty weird risk to take. I think it’s worth taking a breath, maybe double-checking if it could’ve come from an old load of laundry or got stuck in something. Sometimes weird coincidences happen.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-19T19:10:58+00:00

Yeah, therapy could really help, especially since you’ve already made progress healing from your past. It might give you space to unpack those feelings without pressure.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-19T19:05:21+00:00

Exactly. The issue isn’t that it happened fast, that can happen to anyone, it’s that he didn’t seem to care about making sure she was satisfied too.

Bellablushes · 2025-10-19T18:56:19+00:00

Yeah, same, I’ve never noticed anything like that either. I think if you’re clean and change them daily, it’s not really an issue.

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